Gemini / Cancer... was it really doomed to fail?

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Im a Gemini male with an Aries rising... currently in the middle of a heart and soul-rending breakup (now going on several months) after 4 years with a Cancer who I believed and STILL believe is my soulmate. A lot of people say that the Gemini/Cancer relationship is one that is doomed to fail from the beginning... she seems content with where she is now and yet I'm truly lost... we remain friends, and she is now with a new guy... a Pisces. A rather aggressive Pisces as I've come to find...

Searching for solace...
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Posted by MoonMan
G'day fellow Aussie, it's great to see you here.
I've been here since last October.

Sounds like things aint goin' too well mate.

My basic understanding is that the Gem/Crab romantic union is a challenging one but it's not unheard of to succeed.
It really depends on the individuals, like all couples really.

I had a past Cancerian work associate I'd known for five years, he was happily married to a Gemini girl. So it can work.
With the right pairing.
If you're feeling soulmate love for her, you gotta be hurtin' but if she made the break and has already found a new bloke there's not much you can do, let her get it out of her system, if one partner leaves, it's because they're not happy.
I gotta say though, some of those Cancer chicks can be a freakin handful.

Do you know what Venus signs you both have?


Not sure what her's is but mine is Aries.