Gone forever?

So I've known this cancer guy for a while. Not like hanging out but I knew of him, we had mutual friends type deal. I invited him to hang for my bday and he came out. Then, I invited him out again and he showed and then again and we hung with some friends of mine. I don't drive so he drove me home and we ended up making out. We hang out like once a months he works two jobs but, that's no excuse. He's never really been big with texting but, I did expect things to change considering that we had a mutual attraction to one another. Now, we've gotten intimate. I sent him explicit snaps and he responded by saying we'll hang before he leaves on a trip with some friends.( they had it planned prior to us) he came, we were intimate for the second time and he left on his trip. I bought him a little trinket before that I gave him when we hung out before he left.so, a few days into the trip he texted me thanking me for the gift. I responded thank you. A few days later I texted him asking him how the trip went and he didn't respond. Few days after that I texted him about the jacket he left over and he responded by saying I could keep it. I was not expecting that one. I tried to make conversation but, he was very short and then stopped responding. It's been a week now, and I'm confused if he is cutting me off completely or just needs space or is it even worth it?

I'm sorry to hear you are in this situation. He could be cutting you off completely or he could for example be confused / and or scared if there are emotions involved. This is always hard to know and I guess you should ask yourself what you really believe is happening, deep down inside of you? What do you feel? Some people think it's silly just to try and go by your own feelings but your intuition is always a good thing to use in these situations. I hope everything works out for you.

he has been watching my stories on snapchat but, I genuinely don't know. I don't know that we're bothe young (in our early 20s) so he could be just lost but idk what do you think?

Let it go. Quit trying and see if he comes around. Is presence or absence will make things abundantly clear

I agree. Throughout the relationship I have been the one taking the initiative to everything so I'm backing up since he's not big on communication. This should say a lot. I just find it weird he all of a sudden got like that. We were fine before he texted me that. Idk

Its sounds like he might have kind of liked you, but also that he does not want a relationship with you, and he senses that you have feelings so he's withdrawing. He probably doesn't know how to have a mature conversation about it with you, so he's acting like a bitch.

Let him go, you'll just end up more hurt if you keep holding on.

Posted by HouseCleaning

Yurp. Sorry sag lady but you got that old fashioned hit and ditch.

But it's also just like why did you bother to text me and say thanks for the hat? So unnecessary. You could have just let that part go because I originally didn't respond to a text because I felt the energy was different the last time we hung out so I was gonna leave it alone. Until he shot me that text and didn't respond that's when I was like, "what?". Thank god I'm not too drawn into my feeling that I can't let go cause not talking to him is bothering but not extreme.

And it crazy to think that he would want me to catch feelings when we hang out he wants to be all over me. Puckering his lips for kisses and hugging me telling me he misses me. Like why would you lead me on but withdraw when you "assume" I'm catching feelings?

Well you're in your 20s and that's a lot of hormones honey. Make this a life lesson. Appreciate the break for you to see that giant bullet you dodged.

I don't get it?

He for sure has never been in a relationship before

Anymore incite?

Posted by Saggyjgal
I don't get it?

Right...

no, my issue has never been taking the initiative because I have throughout the relationship. I'm just stepping back because the last time we spoke he seemed shirt and stopped responding so I decided to not text and when he feel or is he feels like he's ready to talk, he has my number. He has no reason to feel like my carrying to much feeling cause even throughout his trip he posted pics and vids with chicks and I didn't flench. Which I shouldn't anyway but I didn't. I know he's not the player type plus I'm not insecure on that way.

I almost feel like he's playing games? Normal for sag and cancer combo right?

So should I continue to not contact him and wait for him to contact me ?
He should know I'm into him I bought him things for his trip and I take the initiative a lot to hang out or contact?

So I texted him he responded quickly and not short at all. When he did text me short I did not respond. Then he sent a more detailed message. I responded and then he didn't write back. Playing games? Power trip?

What is this guy's moon and yours?

idk why?

I was talking to an old friend of ours and she told me he dated one our mutual friends and she played him like a child like it was a joke for her and that may be why he acts the way he does to me because she could never see him just sleeping with someone but, idk? What do you guys think?

Posted by Saggyjgal
idk why?

Cancer Guy's moon placement will show the kinda cancer he is