Happy update with Mr. Cancer

Mr. Cancer and I had an amazing date yesterday. We met for lunch and ended the evening with a walk on the Santa Monica Pier. Yes, I was still a little peeved at him for his behavior and yes there were questions I wanted answers to but didn't want to bring them up and ruin the day. We hadn't seen one another in months so I was very nervous but his hug and beautiful smile just made it all vanish. Mr. Cancer could not keep his hands to himself, but I think my attire must have made it difficult for him to be on his best behavior. LOL He stared constantly. Lots of kisses, hugs, touching and peeking at my cleavage. The date ended with more kisses,hugs and him asking when will he see me again. Okay, the last time we had an amazing time together he disappeared on me. Hopefully, he won't feel the need to shell to ponder what took place.

I noticed something about him. He won't open up an uncomfortable topic but he will interject an explanation during a topic that's unrelated to the issue. For example, we were talking about my position with a new firm and he quickly interjected with, "You know I was falling so hard for you, liking you too much and said I gotta get away from her." I was like, where did that come from? My mind was so focused on talking about my job that I just sat there speechless. Then he quickly jumped to another topic before I could respond. Sounds crazy, but he does that a lot. In typical cancer fashion, he asked if I had a new boyfriend, but concluded with "I'm just playing." I don't think he was playing, I believe he probably thought I'd started seeing someone else because I stopped contacting him completely. For months, he was initiating all contact. He also stated that there's a lot he'd love to tell me but he won't because I'll use it against him. Hmmm!

This forum has been so helpful. Wineaux, thank you for all your advice. Everything you stated was to true and accurate. Most of the advice went contrary to what I believed but damn it worked. Who knew that NC would make him come to his senses. I always thought that bugging the hell out of him would be most effective. Ha!

Going forward, I'll continue to allow him to set the pace. He asked to see me today or tomorrow but I think it's too soon. Last year we were seeing each other often and look what happened when it got too intense for him. Don't want that to happen again.

Omg! This reminds me sooo much of me & my crab...its scary! Must they share play books?! Hehe