hate to love you!

its amazing how you cancers can be so easy to love and so hard to hate...
its like, for every weird reaction there is an illogical explanation that you are never willing to give. The person on the other end, have to guess the ways and becauses of ur fuss and or silence!
Its like u can be simply playing us like toys but we can never confront you or be hard on u cause we can just hurt your feelings and cause u to close up even more, its like walking on eggs??_
My cancer " told me to forget him" over 3 weeks ago, all my attempt to contact him were chaos, all my attempts to figure out the reason for the silence were even more chaotic??_so now im hanging, not knowing if I am indeed supposed to forget him cause he as done the same to me and just carry on with my life OR if I am supposed to live in hope that maybe, who knows maybe, was something that I did that he never told me and that he DOES INDEED LOVE ME but is hurt, and eventually will be back so I better not fuck around and wait for that day to come??_.

Damn..i thought scorps were complicated??_I thought me being a cusp was complicated??_this cancer??_he is the king of the complication??_how long do I have to hang in here until I figure out what the deal is—

He might as well already being enjoying his life with a new chick and totally forgot about me, and here I am trying to find a thousand logical explanations for his behaviour so that I don't have to admit I was played by him!!!!

"The person on the other end, have to guess the ways and becauses of ur fuss and or silence!"
my bad..i mean..the whys and becauses!!!

hey Summer...
oh well i was pissed off cause he had been cold with me and told him he was the coldest person i had ever met and that i didnt know how i fell for him!
that after me having ahuge fight with my ex and the cancer wasnt all that nice about it!

Posted by Summer Bear
As a cancer, I wouldn't cut a women off 100% unless I was really done with her. Chances are he might have moved on. How long were u guys together?


It takes time for us trust and really care for someone. We don't fall in love quickly.


Ask yourself "what did I say or do to him before the break up??".

I don't think he played you.

You have a point, i say i leave them alone but really not I'm just seeing if she really into me or love to even care.

so what u saying Dream?
I do care and I was trying to communicate with him and nothin...I feel like if he likes me, me leaving him alone will portrait that I don't care,but if I don't and he doesn't care I will be just annoying him and making a fool out of myself...so—

Posted by fragm3nt3d_mind
so what u saying Dream?
I do care and I was trying to communicate with him and nothin...I feel like if he likes me, me leaving him alone will portrait that I don't care,but if I don't and he doesn't care I will be just annoying him and making a fool out of myself...so—

No, i don't think you will be annoying him, most cancers like myself like to be babied and want closure. I think you should continue to contact him, it seems he want to see if you still love him or even care.