help :(

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Lil.ladie.taurus on Monday, August 20, 2007 and has 5 replies.
i am being verbally abused, and i cant find the strength to leave Sad
lil ladie i am so sorry to hear that. no one should endure or be exposed to any type of abuse. it seems to me that you have a some toxic things going on in your life and for some reason do not believe in yourself or your strength to get out of this toxic situation. i am not trying to be cynical but i believe you should seek some professional help to maybe give you a clearer perspective and help rid this negativity out of your life. you just do not seem to be in healthy place right now in your life and it is okay to reach out for help to get you back in balance.
i am considering tlaking to sumone once i get back into school if i continue to have this feeling.... i mistakened it for him loving me, but not knowing how to handle it, but after paying more attention,its obvious its just about power and control
Abuse is abuse whether verbal or physical and you should never allow ANYONE to abuse you. The thing is nobody can do something to you that you don't allow them to. I dont like saying this girl but from your other posts i really think you are lacking self esteem and are allowing yourself to be a doormat so guess what? he's just going to step all over you! I think this situation is more to do with you not being in the right place in your life right now and you are searching for someone/something to make you feel better but unfortunately ladie T only you can do that for yourself. Know yourself and love yourself because until you know who you are, you'll never be able to figure out where you are going. You have a right to be loved unconditionally and abuse free. He recongnises that he can do and say what he wants to you and you will still be there so he doesn't give a butter...you need to show him differently. If you have not got the strength to leave then at least find the strength to verbally abuse him back! Don't take that butter...bring the bull out of you and show him what you are really made of!
If you have not got the strength to leave then at least find the strength to verbally abuse him back! Don't take that butter...bring the bull out of you and show him what you are really made of!
Point made!

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