Help - cancer woman

Hi,



I was talking online with a Virgo man for about 1 month and then we meet and had a great week together. We live in different countries but his parents live in my neighborhood - his mother and sister told him about me and encouraged him to contact me online. Anyway, we clicked from the very first moment and everything was great between us. After he left he sent me some messages to tell me that he thanks me for the wonderfull week and for everything and that he is sorry but he is the kind of people that do not talk about his feeling and that he finds it easier to write them. we didn't talked about our relationship before he left the only thing that he told me was that he never expected to be like that when he met me.

Anyway, he just broke up with his girlfriend a moth before we start talking and he told me that is impressed that he didn't contact her when he was home - he lives in the same city as I live and that is the first time that he broke up with her and comes home and do not feel to call or see her to make up.

After he left - i felt insecure about us and i tried to talk to him but he got upset and told me that he is not ready to have another long distance relationship and that he didn't think about it. I said ok - we will still be just friends, it is fine for me but i needed to know. The next day he contacted me and said that we should let the time to decide what to do and that we should wait. I got nervous because I think this is just a game - we live in different countries and I think that we should talk about us and what will we do - will we try to make this work or not. After that we only talked once and it was a simply friendly talk - like nothing happend. It is been 2 days and he did not send me a text or a phone call - nothing. I do not what to contact him because I do not what to seem desperate or something like that. I read a lot about Virgo man and I saw that they like to take it slow, to have time and all but I don't know what to think? He likes me or not? Does he want to take things slow or is he trying to just be nice with me so I don't get hurt?
I know I made some mistakes and all the drama made him nervours but this is who I am sometimes 🙂
By the way we have

Sun in Virgo,
Moon in Scorpio
Venus in Leo
Jupiter in scorpio
Mars in Scorpio

Ans I have:
Sun in Cancer
Moon in Sagitarius
Venus in Leo
Jupiter in libra
Mars in Gemini
What do you think about our charts?

Slow down u don't no him good enough to no if he is what u want. He have a lot agaisnt him,he just finsh a relationship,he live in another country,and he is not sure of what he want to do because his action shows he is confuse and have delts. Also u starting a friendship with him feeling a lack of trust when he went back home meaning he left u unsure.

Now I understand your emotions. U like me , u like to no what going on now,tell me something now. Not that u needy it just that u want to no where he stand because u had a great time but ask your self in this short time noing what u no about him do u really need a answer. Depending how long of relationship he had with her it take time to get a way frm a old relationship and a month isn't enough.

The way to come act this is play the friend role. Be his friend. See were he at with her. Come act this slow so u won't be a rebound. He don't live in this country so timing for a long distant relationship takes longer because u see him less giving u a slow pace of learning who he is. So step back alittle