Help!! crab got a hold on me.

And i don't even know his NAME!!!!!!!We been going to the same gym for years
never said a word to each other, but i know iam in love with him. So is every woman. I do have his eye though caus i got a better game plan than the average woman who is so predictible.I show him little to no attention most of the time. It sounds like HS i know but somehow it sparks his curiosity. He gives me all kinds of attention sometimes and at times he acts like he doesn't even see me. He looks like he'd rather walk thro fire than approach an attractive woman. I see how nervous he gets whenever iam around, he can't even look me in the eye. Iam just as shy. I see how he glares at other guys checking me out (not to brag but iam one of the hottest women at the gym) so most guys have their eye on me.
There're other equally hot guys but no one comes close to the attraction i feel towards him, i CANT stop thinking about him, period, nite and day.
I know he's crushing on me like iam crushing on him, my question is, will he ever get the balls to approach me or will he just lose interest. I don't approach men iam interested in. Its been years but everytime i see him, my heart just melts.
More than anything, i really just wanna hit the sack with him...he's SUPER SUPER SEXY......

"Hey Cancerobsession, I think if he is feeling you in a steong strong strong way, he will approach you. What is your sign? I ask because I can tell you how I feel about certain signs."

I don't know my sign, i was adopted and no one bothered to tell me my bday.
He's tried to approach me but iam sooo shy around him, i put up afront like iam not interested which frustrates him, but i know he knows that i want him.
What are cancers like in the sack?

Very obliging and sensuous at the same time or so I'm told. Hey Cancerobssession, I'm in lust with one atm! Similarly to your own scenario, I like this guy from afar, lieterally as he lives in nearly the other sie of the country (about 400 miles) and I only met him once nearly 2 years ago. Anyway I'm gonna try to take it a notch further and call him up later on tonight.

I wonder if you are a Scorpio? They get really shy and reserved around the people they like, but inside they are dying...
What sign do you think you are (according to the sign descriptions).
Good luck!

I see alittle bit of every sign in myself.
My personality is very loyal, kindhearted, empathetic, very passionate about the things i like, opinionated, resilient(almost nothing phazes me) rarely emotional, modest (i do get cock y, really cock y times...lol)
Outwardly, iam very reserved around people i don't know. I seem unapproachable and stuck up (that's what i get from p'ple), till they get to know me and see how sweet
and kind iam .

Mellowdee, i feel you, u only saw him once? they do have that kinda of effect on people. its like they cast a spell on everyone, to be forever bound to them. Almost ALL the women at the gym want him. Some get really desperate and start following him around. MOst of them are very attractive but they're just too predictible. I've got a mystery thing going on. He just cant read me, i know that's why he's still interested.
He's not good at hiding his emotions. The other day this dude i know gave me a hug and it lingered longer than it should've. Dude jus got up and stormed out. He didn't come to the gym for atleast a week( he's there almost everyday.

Hey Cancerobession,

Your cancer definetly likes ya. You've almost described my own case - there's a gal i like, who goes to my gym for the past year, ive only recently spoke to her.

She's got my attention and my reactions are almost exactly like youre cancy, if i see her talkin/huggin other guys it blows my cool, i skip gym etc. sometimes i just plain ignore her - oddly enuff...even though id like noting better than to talk to her...(cancy's have a habbit of doing that).

I'll bet he digs you, just gotta pursue him a bit. Us cancy's (at least me) are afraid of rejection, so u gotta relax him or he'll shell and scuttle....

at any rate, you're bound to have a hide and seek relationship, cancy's have a habbit of being all warm and then cold (mood swings).

Good luck!

namelessc,
Thanks for your input, i've caught him on several occasions staring me hard when
he thinks iam not lookng. Especially when iam on the treadmill, he would jus stand there
STARING, It makes me uncomfortable but at the same time i LOOOOOOOVE it. He seems like a titty man too (i got d's) its like they put him in a trance or something...lol.
I could give myself away, but i cant handle him rejeting me....as far as i know, he's the only one for me. I don't flirt or even talk to other guys, i act like they're not even there whenever he's around i know that's another why he's interested. I also dress sexy, but classy, none of that, thangs jus hanging out.

Crab 23,
Thanx for that info, i'll look it up. It sucks not knowing ur b/day, believe me. But iam used to it.

I say you're going good then...I too have a liking for err...the female chest 🙂

DO drop a hint that you're interested...otherwise he's prolly gonna go nuts fanatcizing - be careful not to push him away too much, cuz if he feels youre not into him, he WILL run.