Help, with aries guy.
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Crabby2thebone on Wednesday, February 13, 2008 and has 8 replies.
I am a cancer female and one the guy I like is an aries. Now I know aries are suppose to be very outgoing and he seems so with others, but not me. before you say he may not be into me my intuition tells me he is because I have often noticed him looking at me and its been about a year now and he seems awkward when it comes to talking to me -heck I think he is a quiet person by nature.
Any way don't want to reveal too much because you never know who is reading this. But said aries and I are in an area not familiar to us at all and we cam e iton this area knowing each other only, I thought finally here we will able to spaek to each other since neither of us no anyone else, but after 2 months we are still as distance and he particularly seems to have found people to talk to.
a last week a go aries and his closest companion who is female (I will admit I am a bit jealous of her even though I know she has a boyfriend and aside from being just girly she does not a thing for aries, and I know he still likes me. but Aries and friend were doing some things done and so was I but then they lets just say got in my territory and it stated affecting what I was doing and I became very grouchy and I sensed that aries and friend felt that I was annoyed with them and when it cam etime to ask me a question as usual aries cam up to me stood there and chose not to ask me for help and at that moment I felt bad, because it was not his fault just that his friend could have stayed in her own spot instead of wasting space and obstructing my ability to work.
so now, I was thinking should I apologize to aries for my attitude? what are my odds with him after this if any.
Any way don't want to reveal too much because you never know who is reading this. But said aries and I are in an area not familiar to us at all and we cam e iton this area knowing each other only, I thought finally here we will able to spaek to each other since neither of us no anyone else, but after 2 months we are still as distance and he particularly seems to have found people to talk to.
a last week a go aries and his closest companion who is female (I will admit I am a bit jealous of her even though I know she has a boyfriend and aside from being just girly she does not a thing for aries, and I know he still likes me. but Aries and friend were doing some things done and so was I but then they lets just say got in my territory and it stated affecting what I was doing and I became very grouchy and I sensed that aries and friend felt that I was annoyed with them and when it cam etime to ask me a question as usual aries cam up to me stood there and chose not to ask me for help and at that moment I felt bad, because it was not his fault just that his friend could have stayed in her own spot instead of wasting space and obstructing my ability to work.
so now, I was thinking should I apologize to aries for my attitude? what are my odds with him after this if any.
i'm an aries female and had a cancer bf. unfortunately, it was the worst relationship i've ever had. i'm also "quiet person by nature" and a lot of aries are believe it or not. i don't look for attention and have a small ego - all typically described aries traits.
from my experience: if you're overly moody, emotionally manipulative, do push/pull thing and overly clingy then go away person then he probably isn't the right person for you.
but then again, they say aries are the best for leos and i never liked any of them.
if you still want to talk to him - just come up and be honest and real. tell him you'd like to get to know him. we're not big on head games.
from my experience: if you're overly moody, emotionally manipulative, do push/pull thing and overly clingy then go away person then he probably isn't the right person for you.
but then again, they say aries are the best for leos and i never liked any of them.
if you still want to talk to him - just come up and be honest and real. tell him you'd like to get to know him. we're not big on head games.
The shortest relationship I ever had was with an Aries. It only lasted six months. My experience was quite different, though. He came after me the DAY we met and came on strong, too. If I'm being honest, he scared the crap outta me and roughed up my tranquil "water" sensibilities. I have found water/fire to be a difficult romantic combination, but I have many friends and family that are fire signs and that works fantastic.
In this situation I would apologize if I were you. If he's the shy type, you might risk a bit more and ask if you could buy him a cup of coffee as an apology. There's no way he will pass this up if he's interested.
In this situation I would apologize if I were you. If he's the shy type, you might risk a bit more and ask if you could buy him a cup of coffee as an apology. There's no way he will pass this up if he's interested.
I know a Pisces woman and she has been involved with an Aries man for 5 years. Shes finally has a ring on her finger, she gave him an ultimatum. She told me he is a man you HAVE to be pretty firm with and not let him take you for granted.
if an aries guy likes a woman he'll go after her like there is no tommorrow. i've had 2 aries guys after me at the same time. they do not take no for answear and don't give up unless you tell them to their face that it's over. they're very strong headed.
my best friend is a pisces and she's married to an aries man. they have one of the best relationships i've ever seen. also, she compromises a lot but she manipulates him in return. it's all about give and take.
my best friend is a pisces and she's married to an aries man. they have one of the best relationships i've ever seen. also, she compromises a lot but she manipulates him in return. it's all about give and take.
He did sort of ruffle my water sensibilitie. And I know I am more so of the Problem with us not speaking than he did, for example when the whole situation occured he came to my desk to ask me about something but he stopped for a few second looked at me and I kept my eyes on my work the entire time hoping he'd say something but instead he gave up and went back to his work.
There is a part of me that feels she did nothing wrong (this is not the cancer pride speaking but logic) because they were really affecting my ability to work, but I seemed annoyed and rushed the entire time so I could tell they were hesitating to say anything to me the rest of the day or everytime I went in there area they would stare.
I find it hard to have a conversation with someone when we spent the last year not saying much, especially when I can see the awkwardness in his actions when ever we are talking. so our interactions are kept to hello and goodbye. I want more but cna't seem to find the courage. I am also a fire sign in both my ascending and moon.
I want to apologize but I don't know how he will react and that scares me. He may just think I am weird.
There is a part of me that feels she did nothing wrong (this is not the cancer pride speaking but logic) because they were really affecting my ability to work, but I seemed annoyed and rushed the entire time so I could tell they were hesitating to say anything to me the rest of the day or everytime I went in there area they would stare.
I find it hard to have a conversation with someone when we spent the last year not saying much, especially when I can see the awkwardness in his actions when ever we are talking. so our interactions are kept to hello and goodbye. I want more but cna't seem to find the courage. I am also a fire sign in both my ascending and moon.
I want to apologize but I don't know how he will react and that scares me. He may just think I am weird.
just come up to him and say that you overreacted to whatever situation and want to clear the air. see, you as cancer already starting a drama where it doesn't exist at all
that's one of the big issues you'll encounter in this relationship.
that's one of the big issues you'll encounter in this relationship.Well, I wouldn't ignore him or give him the silent treatment. I have found out during my days of love and romance that we women need "watering". We need love, attention and affection and the only way that a man can give it to us is if we open up our hearts and let them "in". You can be soft on the "outside" but set boundaries on the inside. If he is reaching out to YOU, you should just let him in with your heart or he will find it impossible to love YOU and move on. OPEN your heart just keep some pretty strict, tough boundaries on the "inside".
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