Hey Cancers...

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Can you help me out with something?

Have you ever experienced a situation, where something happens that would on another time would set you off, but due to the time it happened, you weren't nearly as effected by it if at all? Think of raging after stubbing your toe on the bed one day, then the next day, just struggling if off and going on about your day without a feel.

Your intellectual side, how soon do you show it off to people?

Did you ever struggle with balancing out how much time you devote to yourself and to others? If so, how long did it take for you to resolve the issue? Furthermore, do did you feel guilt at all when you where learning how to balance it out?

Do you like to cook more of be cooked for more?
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Oh FOR sure this happens. All the time. It's difficult to gauge emotion, but if you've ever told yourself, "God if it wasn't for _________, this would SOOO piss me off right now!" It's basically the reverse of getting crazy upset over something you normally would shrug your shoulders at.

My intellectual side? I think my Gem moon makes that impossible to hide lol. My intellect is usually one of the biggest compliments I get from people.

Most of the people in my life have their own things going on, so there is no struggle with the time I devote to others. Now, there are times when friends want to hang out when I'd rather stay home, or be out on a date with someone of interest. In those cases, I will feel guilty if I tell them no, or if I cancel.

I'd rather be cooked for, but I can cook. I would much rather BBQ or bake though. Especially the latter. I LOVE baking.
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Posted by Crabra
Oh FOR sure this happens. All the time. It's difficult to gauge emotion, but if you've ever told yourself, "God if it wasn't for _________, this would SOOO piss me off right now!" It's basically the reverse of getting crazy upset over something you normally would shrug your shoulders at.

My intellectual side? I think my Gem moon makes that impossible to hide lol. My intellect is usually one of the biggest compliments I get from people.

Most of the people in my life have their own things going on, so there is no struggle with the time I devote to others. Now, there are times when friends want to hang out when I'd rather stay home, or be out on a date with someone of interest. In those cases, I will feel guilty if I tell them no, or if I cancel.

I'd rather be cooked for, but I can cook. I would much rather BBQ or bake though. Especially the latter. I LOVE baking.
Thanks for answering my questions!
Oh wow a Gemini Moon, did you ever have to get used to having a mind that never stops thinking or was it something always there?

Baking? Oh what's your favorite thing to bake?
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Posted by Aggrippina66789
Situations — Well yes..i feel diff at diff times

But some things are always wrong and will piss me off.

Also diff people. If you don't know me .....then don't act like you know me or anything i do is your business or is ever going to BE your business...... You don't get the same reactions with the same people.

I don't feel guilty over the time thing....i am a good friend to people i like ...they know it ...i know it...

How smart do you think I am?
Thanks for the reply.

Yes people are different, always in transit, no matter how many wish they could stay place in life.

Well I've only seen you around today, but you seem smart from the one thread I've seen you reply in. Also compassionate.
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Posted by Crabra
Oh FOR sure this happens. All the time. It's difficult to gauge emotion, but if you've ever told yourself, "God if it wasn't for _________, this would SOOO piss me off right now!" It's basically the reverse of getting crazy upset over something you normally would shrug your shoulders at.

My intellectual side? I think my Gem moon makes that impossible to hide lol. My intellect is usually one of the biggest compliments I get from people.

Most of the people in my life have their own things going on, so there is no struggle with the time I devote to others. Now, there are times when friends want to hang out when I'd rather stay home, or be out on a date with someone of interest. In those cases, I will feel guilty if I tell them no, or if I cancel.

I'd rather be cooked for, but I can cook. I would much rather BBQ or bake though. Especially the latter. I LOVE baking.
Thanks for answering my questions!
Oh wow a Gemini Moon, did you ever have to get used to having a mind that never stops thinking or was it something always there?

Baking? Oh what's your favorite thing to bake?
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That's an interesting question. Finding out my moon was in Gemini when I was born actually brought a lot of perspective and insight into my life, and I fell in love with my moon sign almost immediately! I don't struggle with my moon traits like Gem suns do with theirs. I don't know if this has to do with the house it's placed in, but I noticed that Gem suns will think so much that they exhaust themselves both physically and mentally. This is not the case with me despite how active and restless my mind is. I've noticed a similar notion with Cancer moons. As a Cancer sun, the constant energy of 'feeling' is what brings me struggles, but Cancer moons seem to know how to compartmentalize all of their feelings without missing a beat.

Currently, I make the best oatmeal raisin cookies on the planet. Easily my fav when I look at the faces of the people eating them. 🙂
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Posted by Crabra
Now, there are times when friends want to hang out when I'd rather stay home, or be out on a date with someone of interest. In those cases, I will feel guilty if I tell them no,

I'd rather be cooked for, but I can cook. Especially the latter. I LOVE baking.
This, sometimes i have to force myself to leave the house, because i like staying home. I loveeeeeeeee to bake to !
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Have you ever experienced a situation, where something happens that would on another time would set you off, but due to the time it happened, you weren't nearly as effected by it if at all?
yes i have. But i think it depends a lot of how i feel at that moment. Like when everythings great, no problems, then its something minor. But when something already did happen that day that wasn't nice or something that could trigger the raging. We bottle things up instead of speaking it out at that moment until EVERYTHING comes out at once.

I try not to bottle up, sometimes it works sometimes it don't...