Hot Topic: Cancer Confusion

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shellshocker
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I'm seeing a lot of Cancers behaving badly here! I for one, am also reclusive and unresponsive in life...

Jupiter has entered our 12th house and Venus is also going direct in our 12th house! Whoa! If you have any Neptunian friends... chances are you will be relating to them on a more spiritual level.

This could also mean your Cancer pal is even deeper into introspection and working things out behind the scenes. Busy, busy thinkers... You probably won't be getting much out of them for a good 6 weeks or so... or you will get more than you ever expected. The uncertain waiting may drive the Fixed signs cray, cray! (lots of Scorps, Leos and Aquas about)

can you handle the ride? 😛

Cancers.. how ya feeling?
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haha!

Venus Transits the Twelfth House

Venus is spending some time in "hibernation" in your privacy sector. Now, this doesn't necessarily mean that your love life is stagnant, but that your affection is expressed behind closed doors. Attraction to secrets and whispers characterize this period, although for some, it can also be a time of endings, relationship concerns, and wistfulness. Personal and social contacts may be secretive, and there can be secret love affairs, or at least very private love feelings and longings. Shyness can lead to some loneliness or romantic frustration.


Jupiter Transits the Twelfth House

Jupiter transits your twelfth house, benefiting activities that take place "behind the scenes" or otherwise privately. This is a cycle in which you become more compassionate, empathetic, and sensitive. Jupiter in the twelfth house is said to offer one spiritual protection. It's a cycle in which you can rid yourself of self-destructive tendencies, deep-seated fears, and deeply-ingrained tendencies towards guilty feelings, acting much like a guardian angel. You are more able to get in touch with your subconscious mind. Charity, giving anonymously, contributing to altruistic endeavors, volunteering, and helping others without expectation of reward will be most fulfilling during this cycle. Work that involves serving others may begin now and bring you much joy. Your dreaming world may be rich, lighter, helpful, and more intuitive. Meditation and retreats may be particularly beneficial to you now, acting to regenerate and invigorate you. You may pick up metaphysical studies, dream interpretation, or research during this cycle. Some people enter into a private romance during this cycle. In general, help seems to be there when you need it. You are building your faith now. This is a time of spiritual renewal.


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I'm a Pisces Female, so of course I'm a Neptune 🙂 I have been trying to talk to the Cancer guy in my life.. without being too pushy. He talks to me, but if things get too deep, he will withdraw. Things that I found negative before, I don't see that way anymore, but he probably will have a hard time trusting me for awhile, which is understandable. I don't know how to really show that my attitude has really changed, except giving him time.. but this is a great time for communication.. any advice I can give him that might allow him to feel safe enough to open up to me more?
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@rhaina, for the most part he has to convince himself. They say that silence is golden, and it would help you more if you are listening to him rather than trying to convince him that you're trustworthy. It will make you look LESS trustworthy, because you're like a sneaky car salesman, trying to get him to buy something that he doesn't want (or doesn't know he wants YET).
Just be secure in who you are and have fun in your life, and find ways to make your life fulfilled. He'll get the picture and increase his trust, especially when you're carefree and acting like you have nothing to hide.

My Crab told me this week he has much on his mind and I backed off immediately. It really helps, and it shows you are sensitive to their needs. It makes a Crab "FEEL" better, and that's what it's all about with them.
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@rhaina, for the most part he has to convince himself. They say that silence is golden, and it would help you more if you are listening to him rather than trying to convince him that you're trustworthy. It will make you look LESS trustworthy, because you're like a sneaky car salesman, trying to get him to buy something that he doesn't want (or doesn't know he wants YET).
Just be secure in who you are and have fun in your life, and find ways to make your life fulfilled. He'll get the picture and increase his trust, especially when you're carefree and acting like you have nothing to hide.

My Crab told me this week he has much on his mind and I backed off immediately. It really helps, and it shows you are sensitive to their needs. It makes a Crab "FEEL" better, and that's what it's all about with them.
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@rhaina, for the most part he has to convince himself. They say that silence is golden, and it would help you more if you are listening to him rather than trying to convince him that you're trustworthy. It will make you look LESS trustworthy, because you're like a sneaky car salesman, trying to get him to buy something that he doesn't want (or doesn't know he wants YET).
Just be secure in who you are and have fun in your life, and find ways to make your life fulfilled. He'll get the picture and increase his trust, especially when you're carefree and acting like you have nothing to hide.

My Crab told me this week he has much on his mind and I backed off immediately. It really helps, and it shows you are sensitive to their needs. It makes a Crab "FEEL" better, and that's what it's all about with them.
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@shellshocker

You mean Cancer Ascendant, because my ASC is in Cancer so the cusp of my 12th house is in Gemini, which is the sign where Venus and Jupiter are in now.

I've noticed I've become withdrawn over the last two week or so. I spend most of the day alone, talking to myself and meditating.

Also this post made me realize that my Jupiter Return is drawing closer :O
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Well I'm between two fixed signs and very frustrated and annoyed. I stopped communicating with one and the other stopped communicating with me. ARRRR I met a lovely Pisces and he was so charming and so cute it made my day. I really needed that. 🙂

Outside of the romance department I am even more frustrated. Just when things start going fine the hammer drops and I'm back to worried, frustrated and anxious. If only my shell were comfortable enough to hide in for the rest of the year I would do it. But the damn thing has thrones in it!
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RowTheBoat
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Oh dear. My cancer is somewhat confusing. Because he did respond in a positive way when I 'forced' myself onto him 3 months ago. (I stepped up to him when I saw him) He even unblocked me for a while of Facebook. (sounds so childish). I hope you do remember the intention someone has when they try to reach you? I don't mean no harm.

I'm a taurus, I've always been pretty solid and grounded but to tell you the truth I've never been this confused in my entire life.

But thank you for the insight. I always thought it was a character trait of my guy, but you all have it 🙂