How About Pisces Men and Women for Cancer?

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Posted by pisceanpisces
As far as I remember, this topic is already discussed and agreed that pisces are just too good for a cancer. They should rather choose other signs where they could play on their famous 'shell act' and use up all their hot-ice manipulative techniques, to get into or out of their partner's bed. Because with us it is just simply impossible.



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Hah! This sounded so cold, I was shivering... Well, this is for people who are dealing / have dealt with pisces: we are like surrealism. So, you don't have to understand us, it is more than enough if you just love us.
our bad move is when we don't make decision, we rather give options to people. Hence, they think we are indecisive... No. If we are like this we want you to rule us. The biggest compliment we could give and the biggest fail, as usual... Because we just make people 'think' and this leads to a whola lotta shhit...



Part of the head games was a jealousy play - a week 3 incident that sent it over the top for me.
Then, beginning of week 4 we have a conversation (text, despite my insistence any relationship discussions should be by phone or in person) and she said the magic words "I'm leaning towards taking a break".
So, I broke it off that evening.
She gets all butt hurt, then contacts me a month later, which I ignored.
I'd hardly think any of the behavior on her behalf was complimentary, in fact it was messed up.

Considering that I made the plans, was deferential until I put the foot down--I don't think it was very cold at all. Just a rational decision not to waste any more time with that situation.

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I think it's a wonderful match as long as both parties are a little more evolved or the Pisces has at least a little bit of earth in their chart. Bieber and Gomez are cute together and good if he were a little more mature. I think his youth and the fact he does not have any good influences in his life hurts his chances with Gomez atm. I think they would work if he were older and got all his bs out before he settles down. Another pairing that comes to mind the djs Annie Mac and Toddla T. They just had a kid and are freakin adorable together. Pisces and Cancer couples always seem to end up photographed with each other in the water. Johnny Cash and June... etc. Trust me there are Pisces out there who don't always have their head in the clouds. I have a good mix of everything in my chart which is why I think I'm not so up in the air but I have faith one day you will find a good Pisces that changes your mind ; )
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I haven't dated pisces or Cancer. Pisces always seem super sweet but they don't go after what they want and I prefer guys with a bit more gumption and drive. They stay too quiet and shy and hell, I'm Cancer so I GET IT, but when a water sign is ready to throw their hands up with another water sign in exasperation then you know it's not going to work well if only one side will communicate and its like pulling teeth to get the bare minimum from the other. I'd have to check their charts but it makes me wonder if they didn't have a bit of earth in them.

Dealing with a fellow moody Cancer might be like putting siblings in the same cramped car for a cross country trip. But I haven't dated any so I can't say for sure. Scorpio is strong enough and grounded enough to handle me and not drive me nuts....most of the time.
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As it was said in a song one time by Bing Crosby

A fish won't do anything, but swim in a brook
He can't write his name or read a book
To fool the people is his only thought
And though he's slippery, he still gets caught
But then if that sort of life is what you wish
You may grow up to be a fish


As a Cancer Man having a Pisces Baby Mama and Pisces Best Friend they truly don't give a crap about anyone else except their own happiness when it comes down it. They basically feed off people until the person wises up. I have a Pisces Moon so its fun to joke around and be irresponsible with them at times but they really for the most part are horrible at handling money and usually can't keep their living environment very clean. To be fair they aren't judgemental as Cancers are as long as you don't judge them.

Don Draper from Mad Men is the perfect representation of a Pisces Man in my opinion. The Cancer side of me relates to his emotional side very well and being stuck in a dreamworld and also having to deal with real life, but I can also see how selfish and good he is at lying like most Pisces. Again Cancer's have their own list of many con's as shown in other threads.
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Just because you have had a bad experience with two means they all don't care? I beg to differ. Yes I have met a fair share of Pisces who can be liars, drama causing and selfish but I have also met some who are not. Me, my guy Pisces friend as well as quite a lot of my co workers are Pisces and we are some of the most supportive, giving, free flow and non judgemental people I know. I have met quite a few Cancers who are manipulative and selfish but I have also found some that would make great partners and have been good friends. It all depends on their chart or how mature they are. My Pisces guy friend is one of the more ambitious at least academically and spiritually I have seen in a water sign.
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The thing with a Piscean is they see many different possibilities in any situation/goal etc. They will envision how they WANT things to be (talk about it etc.) and follow that path passively until they either let it go.... or make an aggressive move to make it a reality.

During this time, their environment (including partner) is either supporting them or not. Support doesn't mean giving tips, making appointments for them, nagging and questioning them about what they accomplished that day or what steps they have taken to achieve their goal. A Pisces is not going to attack life the same way as a Cancer and Cardinal Cancer who is more "me" focused has a hard time understanding this.

What a Pisces needs to turn those fantasies into reality is belief.

The number of possible outcomes start to collapse within themselves as 1 outcome is decided upon. But who makes this final decision? Is it you, is it the Pisces or is it a fated outside source?





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I have to agree with shellshocker. My family gets so annoyed with me because I seem to not have a plan all the time or seem random. Nothing in my long term goals are random. I have ideas or situations I want to happen, I just may not know directly how to go about them. Once I have decided on a course of action and what I want you can come with me, make suggestions or not but either way am rarely taken off course once I have picked a course. Just because we don't always voice it or go about it the same way as you would doesn't mean we don't have plans. Sometimes I'll want something to happen but feel somebody else would do it better or is better suited so I let them take the reigns and lay back.
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Part of the head games was a jealousy play - a week 3 incident that sent it over the top for me.
Then, beginning of week 4 we have a conversation (text, despite my insistence any relationship discussions should be by phone or in person) and she said the magic words "I'm leaning towards taking a break".
So, I broke it off that evening.
She gets all butt hurt, then contacts me a month later, which I ignored.
I'd hardly think any of the behavior on her behalf was complimentary, in fact it was messed up.

Considering that I made the plans, was deferential until I put the foot down--I don't think it was very cold at all. Just a rational decision not to waste any more time with that situation.



Wo.. I see. I hope you ll have better experience next time.
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Don't make the mistake that I'm embittered.
I wasn't made jealous (contrary to the common perception that Cancers are intensely jealous, I'm not. It might be from having a Venus in Gemini )by that stunt that was posed. I saw right through it and it just put icing on the cake.

The physical aspect is just fine.
But the drama can get out of hand.
And to be fair, I've known my share of Cancers who are prima donnas and drama queens (guys and girls).

Just a little circumspect about the rainbow and unicorn stories about Pisces-Cancer.
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Posted by pisceanpisces
All I can say is from my little childhood only those people could support me the best (and caused lots of improvements and main changes in my life) who were cancers or has had cancer moon and venus. Just recently I have found this out. 🙂 I am happy for you and hope, there are lots of other pisceans who can say this and agree with me.



you just made my day 🙂
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That's why I like most Cancers. Yes they can be moody but if you find a more evolved one or who has a chart with a bit of earth then they are stable. I think somebody on another thread posted something like Scorpio is the fire in water signs, Cancer is the earth and Pisces is more like air. I would agree with that. Cancers to me even the slightly crazier ones have always felt like home or earthy. Anytime I go back to places I have lived to visit I have at least one Cancer friend I still keep in touch with who gets together with me. They always seem to be people I have worked with too!
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I'd have to agree. Going off my thread about powerful water signs. I think that's the reason why some of the front runners in the Democratic party right now are water sign women. I still think though you two need to find yourselves an earthy or more mature Pisces. Pisces will listen to all your bs, problems and concerns, give you foot or back rub and then lay you back and give you the best multiple orgasms you could want ; ) Case in point

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I think the key is open communication. Both signs have a tendency to hide things or not be completely open about feelings... rather smooth it over. Thats really the biggest problem I have come across. As long as you are ok with the up and down of Cancer moods which I have learned to be ok with then it's great. I have realized once you truly get to know a Cancer and their reactions to things you can figure out the moods and how to react/handle them whether or not you should run and hide til they're out of it or if it's a mood you can coax them out of.
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Posted by MidwestGirl
Ok maybe not all feet! That picture was gross. You'll at least get a back massage haha. I went to massage therapy school so all my pisces friends ask me for tips on how to give a good massage. I'm telling you though... you find the right Pisces the Cancer/Pisces bond is something else.




Me and my Father (a Pisces) has a very nice team up... me , the boss 😛
Mom is Gemini so they are both mutable, so we , their offspring ( Scorpio, Capricorn, Leo and me Cancer) are the boss 😛
Kidding aside but there are some truth in that case, specially when we talked about astrology ayt?..
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No. I was just thinking ab this the other day. I've had a lot of fun with Pisces but the strong romantic intimate feeling/connection isn't there. Can make great friends or buddies, but I wouldn't say a lover for Cancer. Now maybe for the men Idk, possible.

Depending on the Cancer, a Scorpio may fit or a Taurus/Virgo earth sign. For myself, I've found Scorpio is better in another placement. I don't find Sun Scorpio or full breed Scorpio men as faithful/loyal as they are said to be. Although Cancer can be everything they're need looking for in a partner.
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It is weird because I have never felt a romantic attraction to Crab men....they are some of my best friends though. There always seems to be an attraction with me and Crab women. We both seem to gravitate toward each other and besides a Capricorn woman Crab women are the only ones thus far I could ever see something in the long run working out romantically/ life partner wise. I have noticed if single in regards to lesbian spectrum of things Crab women will have no problem telling you they like you if you are not taking the hint and they really like you! There is a lot of support and similar outlook to everything with all the cancer people I know.
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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
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So stay out of Pisces you say? I have yet to be with one. :/



I wouldn't say "stay out" of Pisces.
Physically there's a lot of compatibility 😄

Seriously, I think the relationship is more of a challenge than most of the websites I've come across say.
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Most people are idiots, as are the websites they inhabit with their foolishness.

Since when is popular opinion the most valid one?
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I'm still voting for Scorpio/Cancer pairing.



Why?



Because I'm the most at ease with them and vice versa.



Scorpio guys? Have fun with that.

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lol That hasn't been my experience with them. Only ONE was way too pushy and nearly mauled me and he was flat out drunk at that point. I exited quickly and refused to answer his calls. The creepiest that might fit that above pic was a Sag. After the first date and he asks if there was chemistry and I gave him an honest answer: I enjoyed your company and you're a great conversationalist but, no, there was no chemistry. He proceeded to tell me how he had envisioned me naked, making love to me, having my babies, and I'm a fool to let Mr Right get away.
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Ok maybe not all feet! That picture was gross. You'll at least get a back massage haha. I went to massage therapy school so all my pisces friends ask me for tips on how to give a good massage. I'm telling you though... you find the right Pisces the Cancer/Pisces bond is something else.




Me and my Father (a Pisces) has a very nice team up... me , the boss 😛
Mom is Gemini so they are both mutable, so we , their offspring ( Scorpio, Capricorn, Leo and me Cancer) are the boss 😛
Kidding aside but there are some truth in that case, specially when we talked about astrology ayt?..
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Did your parents have favorites among the children?
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Im new here so hi all 🙂 I have just come across this site and this board. Never really been active on any site before really. So yes I'm totally a newb.

Ive been into western and vedic astrology for over a decade and human psychology too because both are utterly fascinating to me. Im not going to go into a long 'my story' or anything-promise-but hopefully I can learn some things here &help others as well.

**Now to actually address the whole Pisces men/Cancer women thing: in my experience &like my mom always says (yes typical cancerian thing to say Im sure-Sun sign here!) "there is good &bad in every color" just like there is in every sign. Thats just people..and the human condition. But lets not throw out the whole sign or rather compatibility of two signs just b/c of a bad experience. Or even a few of them. There can be great opportunities missed if that happens! (Thats my Sagg moon talking 🙂 I have met a pisces or two that seemed to only want one thing and then others who were darling! My fianc? &I are crazy in love which neither of us planned and to the extent thats frankly scary &which I personally didnt
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Uh oh accidentally hit post :/

heres the rest:

think I was capable of after all Ive been through. He is gentle, kind, honest and just beautiful to me (faults and all). This June will mark 4 yrs. since we've been together. As you can tell I adore my Pisces man.

I hope this helps someone or at least gives them hope instead of thinking the P/C relationship is doomed or something lol Feel free to ask me any ?s or msg me 🙂
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Ok maybe not all feet! That picture was gross. You'll at least get a back massage haha. I went to massage therapy school so all my pisces friends ask me for tips on how to give a good massage. I'm telling you though... you find the right Pisces the Cancer/Pisces bond is something else.




Me and my Father (a Pisces) has a very nice team up... me , the boss 😛
Mom is Gemini so they are both mutable, so we , their offspring ( Scorpio, Capricorn, Leo and me Cancer) are the boss 😛
Kidding aside but there are some truth in that case, specially when we talked about astrology ayt?..



Did your parents have favorites among the children?
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Uhm ,as for my mom, She said I'm Dads fave, and as I notice , She spoiled the boys which are the Capricorn and Leo.
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Posted by Lovelyevenstar
Im new here so hi all 🙂 I have just come across this site and this board. Never really been active on any site before really. So yes I'm totally a newb.

Ive been into western and vedic astrology for over a decade and human psychology too because both are utterly fascinating to me. Im not going to go into a long 'my story' or anything-promise-but hopefully I can learn some things here &help others as well.

**Now to actually address the whole Pisces men/Cancer women thing: in my experience &like my mom always says (yes typical cancerian thing to say Im sure-Sun sign here!) "there is good &bad in every color" just like there is in every sign. Thats just people..and the human condition. But lets not throw out the whole sign or rather compatibility of two signs just b/c of a bad experience. Or even a few of them. There can be great opportunities missed if that happens! (Thats my Sagg moon talking 🙂 I have met a pisces or two that seemed to only want one thing and then others who were darling! My fianc? &I are crazy in love which neither of us planned and to the extent thats frankly scary &which I personally didnt
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I am a pisces woman dating a Cancer guy. Its been really slow moving with him. Slow moving like its been 4 months til we went on a "real date" other than just hanging out.
I understand his emotional roller coaster. One night I explained how I feel up and down sometimes, and it is similar to him. I think he felt a little closer with me sharing. He has not been one to share his emotions. Very guarded, and I am more open book.
We are starting to spend more time together, and that I am happy about. But it has taken 4 months and he does keep saying he is not sure he wants a relationship. I have had to hold myself back from not pushing. I am a relationship girl. Still keeping my options open til he tells me, we are exclusive.
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