How do married crabs go in the shell?

Do I need to be concerned that if I marry my cancer guy he won't reply or call me back-what if I need to speak with him about something important with the home or kids etc? Could he not come home some nights cause he needs to be in his shell?

Brianna, I have asked this question myself so many times!
With their need for independence and space, I don't know how he will do that if we are together, and Im wondering this not only for him but for me as well, cos I have lived alone for so many years..I love my space!
I guess you can be together but doing each one your own thing...
What I ve learnt these months with my Crab is that he cant be forced to anything, if he doesnt want to talk about something , HE WONT. And this is worsened if you push him to do it...With these guys, it is all about adapting to their ways and not taking things personally....

Posted by PiscesArgie
Im wondering this not only for him but for me as well, cos I have lived alone for so many years..I love my space!

I've lived alone for so long also. I'm so independent and need my space so I would really be ok if he needs his private time, I will too. Just worry because he takes it to extremes now because we don't live together.