Hi everyone! I need a little help understanding what the hell is going on with my Virgo ex who has Venus in Cancer. I ended our relationship in December due to his alcoholism. He was SOO romantic and such a sweetheart when he was sober but his "habits" would change him into a completely different person when he was drunk. I loved him to pieces and to be honest I still love him to pieces which is why I continue to worry about him even after the breakup. I've been trying to contact him to make sure he's okay and let him know that I'll still be there for him as a friend. He's been completely ignoring me though. We used to work at the same place which is how we met but I got laid off last November. My best friend still works there with him and said that at first, right after our breakup, he would go out of his way to make sure she saw him flirting with other girls. I guess cause he wanted to hurt me. Now though, she says he looks absolutely horrible. He's lost weight, looks sad and depressed, doesn't talk to anyone anymore, and is dirty and unkempt. I've even had other coworkers call me and ask me if we broke up too because he's not himself anymore. What's the deal? If he's so miserable about us not being together then why not call me back or talk to me? It's not like I was mean when I ended things. I told him rationally and calmly why I couldn't be with him anymore. He was the one that replied "thank God cause you're nuts" out of anger. In actuality, he's the one that's a little off in the head due to his drinking. Yet, he turned it around on me. Even after that, I was the bigger person and told him that I was sorry the way that things ended and he apologized too and said we were good. Now everytime I try to contact me he ignores me and it hurts. Is this a thing with people that have Venus in Cancer or is it his Virgo Sun that's causing him to be such a prick? I'm an Aquarius Sun and I have Cap in Venus.
