How to deal with this cancer guy
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by confusedgurl on Wednesday, May 31, 2006 and has 3 replies.
Hi everyone !!!
i'm hoping to get some insight on this cancer guy born on 7/17/78 we met and it was instant attraction we had a few great dates,laughing and meeting everyone ... and i messed up the last time i saw him by hurting his "manhood" feelings i didn't really mean to it was a screwed up flow of circumstances ...and i think he felt rejected or stepped on i'm not sure Anyhow,after that day we played phone tag for a few days and after that he just stopped calling me and i'm missing him terribly
i just wanna see him one more time and hug him
i really miss hanging out with him and i've made a couple of attempts to reach him and invited him over for dinner but i just know that he's changed towards me... Last week his friend gave me a ride home and we ended up kissing and fooling around i'm not attracted to his friend AT all but a little part of me let the kissing happen just to get a reaction out of my cancer guy, any reaction >What can i do ???? to all of you cancer moody people what do you think?
A million thanks.
i'm hoping to get some insight on this cancer guy born on 7/17/78 we met and it was instant attraction we had a few great dates,laughing and meeting everyone ... and i messed up the last time i saw him by hurting his "manhood" feelings i didn't really mean to it was a screwed up flow of circumstances ...and i think he felt rejected or stepped on i'm not sure Anyhow,after that day we played phone tag for a few days and after that he just stopped calling me and i'm missing him terribly
i just wanna see him one more time and hug him
i really miss hanging out with him and i've made a couple of attempts to reach him and invited him over for dinner but i just know that he's changed towards me... Last week his friend gave me a ride home and we ended up kissing and fooling around i'm not attracted to his friend AT all but a little part of me let the kissing happen just to get a reaction out of my cancer guy, any reaction >What can i do ???? to all of you cancer moody people what do you think?A million thanks.
Well I am a cancer in a relationship with a cancer 7/17 as well. And one thing with cancers is that although we are really sweet people we often get those who take advantage of our kindness which causes us to go back into our crabby shells. At this point there is nothing you can do besides apologize, but since there is no way for you to get through to him you just have to allow him to have his time. But if you do end up getting back on good terms with this cancer man be prepared for things to be thrown into your face everytime there is an argument. We forgive but we never ever forget and because of that he may have a huge issue with trust. Trust, honesty and security is what matters to us most and once someone crosses that line it's hard to trust that individual again. So just give him his moment, he will respond to you at one point, if he's that into you if not don't expect a call again. Sorry, I know we are moody people. Good Luck, Keep us posted.
thanks that meant a lot to know
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