How to get back a cancer I lost
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by cappygirl11 on Wednesday, July 16, 2014 and has 9 replies.
Following my post I pissed off a cancerian. He has decided to half heart speak to me and said he doesn't want to be with me. Understandable after what I did.
But I am hopelessly in love with him.
I want to win him back. Even his hurtful words r only making me care more.
How to get him back
But I am hopelessly in love with him.
I want to win him back. Even his hurtful words r only making me care more.
How to get him back
Following my post I pissed off a cancerian. He has decided to half heart speak to me and said he doesn't want to be with me. Understandable after what I did.
But I am hopelessly in love with him.
I want to win him back. Even his hurtful words r only making me care more.
How to get him back
But I am hopelessly in love with him.
I want to win him back. Even his hurtful words r only making me care more.
How to get him back
Following my post I pissed off a cancerian. He has decided to half heart speak to me and said he doesn't want to be with me. Understandable after what I did.
But I am hopelessly in love with him.
I want to win him back. Even his hurtful words r only making me care more.
How to get him back
But I am hopelessly in love with him.
I want to win him back. Even his hurtful words r only making me care more.
How to get him back
Here is what happened
So we been together 5 years. But he hasn't bother to introduce me to his family or anyone....and then picked a fight with mine.??
So eventually it was all just to much.... i exploded....i brought up every issue for the last 5 years told him he ruins my relationship with everyone I'm close to. That's he's cold and calculating. That he ruins all special moments etc. Plus more and more.
He said he thought I was happy and didn't know I was this unhappy. And we should split up. I agreed.
Then to make it worse I summarised all of the above and sent it to him in an email. Then I sent 10 texts saying I was happy he was gone.
Then 3 days later when my rage was over I realised I f...Ed up. And all the good bits came back to my mind_??_??
So to fix the damage I sent 2 sweet emails and then I texted him 20 times saying sweet things. Then I sent him chocolates.??
I hadn't gotten a single reply.
Then he said he will call me to discuss stuff or get closure when he is ready.
Now this was yesterday. I texted him asking if he's ready today. And got no reply.??
How long do cancers take. I want to get a move on and know if it's thru or not.
Also how do u make amends when u take a sensitive cancer ( and he's very sensitive) and completely screw them up like i just did
So we been together 5 years. But he hasn't bother to introduce me to his family or anyone....and then picked a fight with mine.??
So eventually it was all just to much.... i exploded....i brought up every issue for the last 5 years told him he ruins my relationship with everyone I'm close to. That's he's cold and calculating. That he ruins all special moments etc. Plus more and more.
He said he thought I was happy and didn't know I was this unhappy. And we should split up. I agreed.
Then to make it worse I summarised all of the above and sent it to him in an email. Then I sent 10 texts saying I was happy he was gone.
Then 3 days later when my rage was over I realised I f...Ed up. And all the good bits came back to my mind_??_??
So to fix the damage I sent 2 sweet emails and then I texted him 20 times saying sweet things. Then I sent him chocolates.??
I hadn't gotten a single reply.
Then he said he will call me to discuss stuff or get closure when he is ready.
Now this was yesterday. I texted him asking if he's ready today. And got no reply.??
How long do cancers take. I want to get a move on and know if it's thru or not.
Also how do u make amends when u take a sensitive cancer ( and he's very sensitive) and completely screw them up like i just did
@ScorpioHarmony Is right, it sounds to me like he's the one with the problem. Now if he hasn't introduced you to ANYONE, especially his family, & he disrespected yours too. Then you have every right to be upset like you was. But if he did all those bad things, he doesn't care about you. His actions alone, show that. So really, he should be the apologizing, & begging YOU to stay. Get rid of him, because you do better than that. Listen to @ScorpioHarmony. She's right in her last sentence. I sure wouldn't cry over his azz lol
Plus usually a good Cancer Man who really Likes & wants you, can't wait to tell his family about how great you are. He also can't wait to meet yours just like @ScorpioHarmony said. I know i'm that way. When i met a lady, i really got the butterflies for lol, i usually tell my grandma 1st because i be happy. I have to tell someone you know. But anyways, your Cancer guy obviously isn't that type of guy. So you deserve better. If he can't honor, & respect you or your people; then he don't deserve you. It's simple as that. Anyways, time for me a Snack LOL.
Let him come to you. Leave him alone.
If you made me go away, you will need to give me TIME and to work HARD to get me back. That's if I want to be back.
And that is especially if my feelings were hurt in the process.
If you made me go out, and I realized I had no feelings for you/the situation, I'll be long gone.
If you pushed me out but I have feelings for you, I will be in pain, and hesitant to jump back in because of the possible pain it may cause me.
If you made me go out, and I realized I had no feelings for you/the situation, I'll be long gone.
If you pushed me out but I have feelings for you, I will be in pain, and hesitant to jump back in because of the possible pain it may cause me.
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