How to get this cancer man notice me and interested in me at all??

So there's this cute barista at my favorite coffee shop. I've been crushing on him since day one. He's always been nice and polite at me (or every other customers) but that's about it.

The other barista knows about it and we're pretty close so she's been telling me some things about the guy like how he's weird, moody, all those cancerian thingy.

I really really reaaaaaally like him and I wanted him to notice me, I don't mind asking him out first but well he needs to notice my existence first. So how do I do that—

Also, what are signs that telling cancer man is into me?

BTW, I'm a pisces with libra moon sign

Cancers are playful and fun. Pisces works! Definitely. Unfortunately, for as outwardly changeable or adaptable we are to better suite the situation, we're also in our shells quite a bit. The fact that you like him will be obvious, but we don't know what to do with that. Maybe for him, it's safer for him not to do anything. He might have a routine that he's in at the present time. I've had to be cornered into dating someone I LIKED. I doubt you'll get a bad response if you ask him to chill. Make it comfortable for him though. Go to his place / your place. Don't take him anywhere wild lol

Posted by Zanbee
Cancers are playful and fun. Pisces works! Definitely. Unfortunately, for as outwardly changeable or adaptable we are to better suite the situation, we're also in our shells quite a bit. The fact that you like him will be obvious, but we don't know what to do with that. Maybe for him, it's safer for him not to do anything. He might have a routine that he's in at the present time. I've had to be cornered into dating someone I LIKED. I doubt you'll get a bad response if you ask him to chill. Make it comfortable for him though. Go to his place / your place. Don't take him anywhere wild lol

Haha thank goodness. Chilling at home is my thing so that should be easy.

Although for now it's kinda impossible for me to ask him to hang out and stuffs while he doesn't know me that well. Although today he smiled at me soo many times, he even waited by the counter and greeted me when I'm about to leave the place (which he never did because usually he's too focused brewing coffee). That's a good sign, right?

How do I approach him without making him feel overwhelm or creep out?

Ah, gotcha...

Well, it's good that he's engaging with eye contact / smiling. It's going to take all of your bravado to make this next move, since we'll never put ourselves in a situation to be rejected. You're going to need to spark up a conversation that leads you into getting his SNS. You can be super casual about it, like, 'Hey you... are you on the internet somewhere or will I have to keep buying coffee?'

WE LOVE WITTY PEOPLE. We love it. We love someone we can banter with. A line like that will do the trick.

Good luck !!

Posted by Goldigold
And don't wait for him to make the first move..

Yea I heard cancerians never really make the first move so I'll have to approach him first.. that wouldn't be hard for me I guess. Thanks!

Posted by Zanbee

Ah, gotcha...

Well, it's good that he's engaging with eye contact / smiling. It's going to take all of your bravado to make this next move, since we'll never put ourselves in a situation to be rejected. You're going to need to spark up a conversation that leads you into getting his SNS. You can be super casual about it, like, 'Hey you... are you on the internet somewhere or will I have to keep buying coffee?'

WE LOVE WITTY PEOPLE. We love it. We love someone we can banter with. A line like that will do the trick.

Good luck !!

Haha okay got it. Thanks a lot!

Posted by SensitiveBlues
So you want heartache, headache, and a bruised soul?


Good luck

Lol what's that supposed to mean?

Posted by americanono

Posted by SensitiveBlues
So you want heartache, headache, and a bruised soul?


Good luck

Lol what's that supposed to mean?

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It means she got burned lol

Update:

Following to the earlier story, so my friend decided to being bold about me liking that barista and actually told him. His response was that he knew I like him because it's so obvious (oh snap!).

Anyhoo, he then told my friend which also his work mate to give me his number and give him mine. So now we have each other numbers.. I guess I should just wait for him to contact me..that's the right thing to do, right?

Posted by americanono
Update:

Following to the earlier story, so my friend decided to being bold about me liking that barista and actually told him. His response was that he knew I like him because it's so obvious (oh snap!).

Anyhoo, he then told my friend which also his work mate to give me his number and give him mine. So now we have each other numbers.. I guess I should just wait for him to contact me..that's the right thing to do, right?

lol Leave him a missed call