A few weeks back a boy (cancer), who I am real interested in, flirted with me...kinda put me in a "Woah, what?!?" mood as I did not think my feelings could possibly be mutual. I could have responded with something genuine and sweet yet I asked if he was high lmao. Oh my god...yes, I know...big mistake. Like I said, I was really shocked and thought maybe he wasn't sober or something...it was the first time he had ever made some sort of move that wasn't subtle. He has not flirted with me since but has said things such as "I really appreciate you" and "I was looking forward to seeing you". Since then, when we hang out, he stills sits close to me. Close enough to touch arms. I think he's trying to tell me to make a move but I absolutely WON'T >: ) I'm not trying to be evil or play games I'm just shy as hell and can't even face the embarrassment of attempting to kiss someone and being rejected by them....
Should I bring up the flirting thing to him over text...in person? I have this gut feeling he would not want to be on the spot and would want time to think about his feelings. But texting it seems very silly. I want to see his body language..that speaks more to me :-\ I guess I just want to apologize for possibly hurting his feelings and let him know I am comfy with us flirting with each other. Someone help my virgo self, I am a very blunt person yet I'm holding back because i feel like he is not
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Apr 14, 2014Comments: 0 · Posts: 1077 · Topics: 33
Stop being a Virgo like that. Just enjoy his attention while it lasts, will ya?
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Sep 07, 2011Comments: 298 · Posts: 5049 · Topics: 48
Why analyze? This ain't One Tree Hill. Just flirt back.
I wouldn't necessarily talk about the flirting, since you seem embarrassed by that type of thing and he may be as well. Talking about it makes every little gesture more stressful.
Flirt back. And it's okay to flirt through text, even though I have a hard time doing that myself with certain guys (like a Cancer, lol) because he seems more conversational and less flirty. I love talking on the phone and turns out that everyone else likes texting much better.
Do it on your own terms... if you're close enough to touch arms, then just slightly lean into his. You can do it. You give a little and you'll get a little!!