How to win this Cancer woman and what does she really want?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by lovehurtsalot on Saturday, January 5, 2019 and has 16 replies.
Hi,

I am an aqua guy in love with a cancer woman. She belongs to a very conservative family and her family does not approve of our relationship or marriage. And cancer woman (Birthday 7th July) wants to choose her family over me. She loves me and sends those miss you texts but she said just 2 weeks back that she wants her family because thats her priority even though she loves me.

What to do in this situation? She keeps on sending those miss you texts. I can not move ahead with her knowing that one day she will finally dump me and move on with her love. She told me long back that she will fight for me and our relationship and no matter what will not leave me. But now she says she wants to leave her relationship for her family.

That she is tired and can not fight anymore. How to convince this cancerian? Are 7th JUly born Cancerians born confused??? What to do? PLease help.
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Help!!!
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Good luck is all I'll say. I'm a pisces man and dated a cancer woman for over two years and she ended it with me in December and basically hasn't looked back. I knew she loved me but from what I learned dating her is cancer, females at least, retreat and withdraw once a situation gets uncomfortable. Twice she's left me because she was getting scared that she was falling in love with me so it made her step back and disappear for a few days. You just need to pretty much either wait around or move on; you can't really push them any which way.
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Posted by Neshama

She will come round. So will fam. These things have a way of working themselves out.
How can you be so sure? I mean I am asking this because I would like to believe this as well. She misses me a lot anc continuously texting me and putting those whatsapp status messages. But whenever the topic comes to marriage, she says, "as long as her family does not agree, we cant marry. Because family is her priority." It's not like I am doubting her or anything she does have a genuine reason for her family then where does our relationship going?

I do love her a lot but I don't want to waste time knowing that it will not end up in marriage.
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Can anyone give me an idea about 7th July born Cancerian females? I guess she's 2nd decan?
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Posted by Neshama

Posted by lovehurtsalot

Help!!!
Why don't her fam want her to marry you??? I bet they will come round.

I can understand it hurts to fall in love if you feel the final commitment can't be yours etc. I get that.
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It's caste/inter-cultural thing. Her family is pretty conservative. So it is stuck there. These people are very very stubborn when it comes to these things.

I just cant see a solution. Like what should be my approach? Should I just abandon everything and leave no matter how painful that is?
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Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by lovehurtsalot

Can anyone give me an idea about 7th July born Cancerian females? I guess she's 2nd decan?
What's her moon mercury Venus etc

You'll need to know year born
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I dont know rest of the details. but she is born 1997
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Posted by lovehurtsalot

Can anyone give me an idea about 7th July born Cancerian females? I guess she's 2nd decan?
Okay Dude,

1) Are you black?

2) Are you of a different religion?

3) Are you older/younger?

4) Are you poor/no college degree?

I ask because geez! (Eva looks at her watch) 2019!! This is not the STONE age where if you were all of the ABOVE the relationship/marriage cannot proceed.

Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Family is important to cancer.

Leave it alone like cc said.

Why fight for someone who won't fight for you.

She will always put her family first.
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why don't you fight for her too? Is she doing all the work? Why don't you try to convince her family?

Really I notice cancer women doing all the work in a relationship.. come on!
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Posted by lovehurtsalot

Can anyone give me an idea about 7th July born Cancerian females? I guess she's 2nd decan?
Hi , i am a 7/7 cancer female, and i would not choose my family over my lover, ever!

I have scorp moon and sag rising. Do you know her other placements?

If i love someone, nobody can stop me or change my mind, not even my family. Even though i love parents and family, i would do want my hart tells me to.

If you have any other questions, shoot!
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I'm a cancer woman and I dated an aquarius when I was in high school. My parents didn't like him but I still didn't leave him. If a cancer woman really loves you and really wants to be with you then she will fight for you. Yes family is important to us but we don't just give up on people we love.
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Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by Kittycat02

I'm a cancer woman and I dated an aquarius when I was in high school. My parents didn't like him but I still didn't leave him. If a cancer woman really loves you and really wants to be with you then she will fight for you. Yes family is important to us but we don't just give up on people we love.
What's your moon? You have fire placements?
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I'm cancer sun/capricorn moon/virgo rising
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Throw her in the bin and run away screaming like a bitch
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Cancer women value their families. Family makes her feel secure especially if she has a good one. She won't take the risk by ditching her family and ran away with you if she knows that she will be ostrasized by her family if she's doing that. She does love you. What you can do is to make her feel secure. If you can convince and show her that you are a good husband and father material and you can take care of her like or better than her family, it may ease her off a little bit.

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Posted by vivi4656

Posted by lovehurtsalot

Hi,

I am an aqua guy in love with a cancer woman. She belongs to a very conservative family and her family does not approve of our relationship or marriage. And cancer woman (Birthday 7th July) wants to choose her family over me. She loves me and sends those miss you texts but she said just 2 weeks back that she wants her family because thats her priority even though she loves me.

What to do in this situation? She keeps on sending those miss you texts. I can not move ahead with her knowing that one day she will finally dump me and move on with her love. She told me long back that she will fight for me and our relationship and no matter what will not leave me. But now she says she wants to leave her relationship for her family.

That she is tired and can not fight anymore. How to convince this cancerian? Are 7th JUly born Cancerians born confused??? What to do? PLease help.


Awh! I am so sorry to hear about this situation! My scorpio honey and I have the same situation; however, I've had to learn how to stick up for him regardless of my family's wishes (that's hard for us cancer women since we have so much loyalty and love for our family)! She definitely does love you but cancer women tend to hate conflict. I probably will focus on moving on for right now : )! She's texting you because she really truly does miss and love you... but, her family being the way they are, she may never go against them until she has to one day. If it's meant to be, it will be! But, you deserve to be happy as well! Sometimes, when a cancer knows they will fully lose someone is when they will do anything to not lose them (not saying emotional manipulation is okay because it's not). But she may not feel any urgency to stick up to her family because maybe she feels you'll always be around... Idk! But I know cancer women because I am one and I know that when we love, we love hard! It's like... we have such a hard time letting go regardless of the situation! Best of luck! xo
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