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I just cant stay away from you guys!
Posted by mr.crabbyPosted by libra sun
I just cant stay away from you guys!
Please try harder.click to expand
I cant help what I attract.
Posted by libra sunPosted by mr.crabbyPosted by libra sun
I just cant stay away from you guys!
Please try harder.
I cant help what I attract.click to expand
You can push them away tho. It isn't hard.
I attract them becuase they like me and I like them too, so why would I want to push the guy away? The question isnt how can I keep them away from me. It was how does first Decan Cancer differ from the second Decan.
Look up decans...Jeeze
Thanks for link but was lookng more for insight from any First Decans?
Well, I'm not a cancer here, but I've dealt with first and second decans, so this is just based off my experience.
The first decan, to me, was very emotionally driven, but generally expressed it through other mediums, like art. Very loving, but there were many dark moments; moody. Sociable, fun, infectious almost. Very comforting too.
The second decan is a bit more mysterious. Doesn't always let his heart rule him; analytical, almost psychic. Still emotional. Fun. Empathetic.
That's what I can think of now. Again, this is just from my personal experiences.
The first decan, to me, was very emotionally driven, but generally expressed it through other mediums, like art. Very loving, but there were many dark moments; moody. Sociable, fun, infectious almost. Very comforting too.
The second decan is a bit more mysterious. Doesn't always let his heart rule him; analytical, almost psychic. Still emotional. Fun. Empathetic.
That's what I can think of now. Again, this is just from my personal experiences.
Thanks treefrogger and Candeh
Yeah the guy is quite moody but not with me, im guessing more of that would be directed my way if we were in a relationship though. We seem to click better then I have with second decan and he's a lot more sociable, Cancer guys I've been with have always been homebodies which was nice at times, but i like to go out quite a lot, and would be nice if my partner wanted to join me.
The indirectness and his way of expressing emotions could be an issue. As I could be thinking everything was going fine when it wasnt. Atleast with the second decans even though I didnt feel the emotions the way they did they could explain it to me, because they didnt hold back. I'm not very good at sympathy but I am a VERY empathetic person.
Obviously I'm not going to completely right him of just due to his sign as that would be crazy lol but just trying to get a bit of a heads up 🙂
Yeah the guy is quite moody but not with me, im guessing more of that would be directed my way if we were in a relationship though. We seem to click better then I have with second decan and he's a lot more sociable, Cancer guys I've been with have always been homebodies which was nice at times, but i like to go out quite a lot, and would be nice if my partner wanted to join me.
The indirectness and his way of expressing emotions could be an issue. As I could be thinking everything was going fine when it wasnt. Atleast with the second decans even though I didnt feel the emotions the way they did they could explain it to me, because they didnt hold back. I'm not very good at sympathy but I am a VERY empathetic person.
Obviously I'm not going to completely right him of just due to his sign as that would be crazy lol but just trying to get a bit of a heads up 🙂
Posted by libra sun
Obviously I'm not going to completely right him
Subconscious slip?
haha no just in bed and typing sloppy, libra's are lazy remember 🙂
Posted by libra sun
haha no just in bed and typing sloppy, libra's are lazy remember 🙂
I know, I loved one.
Posted by mr.crabbyPosted by libra sun
Obviously I'm not going to completely right him
Subconscious slip?click to expand
You know Crabby, Im starting to like you so much...I love your remarks, sarcastic ones and all...your virgo moon shows in them!!!
🙂
Posted by pushitPosted by libra sun
Ok so I have a Cancer dad, one failed 2 year relationship with a Cancer guy, one Failed 3 year engagement with a Cancer guy and I promised myself that I will NEVER get with another Cancer again but here I am! lol
It sounds like it would be healthy to spend some time alone until you figure out what you really want in a relationship. You're only 23.click to expand
I've spent time alone and I know exactly what I want from a relationship, which Is why I am not with the two previous guys. 23 is young but just because I'm young doesnt mean I cant have a relationship lol.
Posted by wineaux
there is a thread on here about cancer decans - go back awhile and search. traits for first, second & third are all in there. that should help you out if you haven't already found the info you are looking for. best of luck!
Cheers I found the thread, was quite helpful.
Posted by PiscesArgiePosted by mr.crabbyPosted by libra sun
Obviously I'm not going to completely right him
Subconscious slip?
You know Crabby, Im starting to like you so much...I love your remarks, sarcastic ones and all...your virgo moon shows in them!!!
🙂click to expand
I wonder if the Moon sign shows up later in life, I used to be such a lamb when I was young.
Posted by PiscesArgiePosted by mr.crabbyPosted by libra sun
Obviously I'm not going to completely right him
Subconscious slip?
You know Crabby, Im starting to like you so much...I love your remarks, sarcastic ones and all...your virgo moon shows in them!!!
🙂click to expand
I definitely have to say dittos to that one PiscesArgie! I've been meaning to tell Mr. Crabby that I get so many chuckles and grins out of some of his sly, wry, wily and sarcastic comments, too...catch myself LOL quite often! 🙂
Libras and Cancers have weird shit going on between them.
Posted by pushitPosted by libra sunPosted by pushitPosted by libra sun
Ok so I have a Cancer dad, one failed 2 year relationship with a Cancer guy, one Failed 3 year engagement with a Cancer guy and I promised myself that I will NEVER get with another Cancer again but here I am! lol
It sounds like it would be healthy to spend some time alone until you figure out what you really want in a relationship. You're only 23.
I've spent time alone and I know exactly what I want from a relationship, which Is why I am not with the two previous guys. 23 is young but just because I'm young doesnt mean I cant have a relationship lol.
It doesn't sound like it. You sound very confused in your original post (and the following ones in this thread) about what you want. And when did you spend time alone? When you were a teenager? When I said you were young, I meant that there's no rush to jump into another relationship. You asked for insight from first decan Cancers (which I am), and so I gave you some advice that I thought would help. *shrugs* But feel free to ignore me because I don't really care that much.click to expand
I have been alone for the last 7 months since I seperated from my ex. I feel I am ready for another relationship, I know exactly what from a guy I jut am not 100% sure yet if this guy can give me those things. Thanks for your advice but I was not looking for someone to tell me whether or not to have a relationship, I was looking more for first decan traits and how they differ from the other Decans.
Cheers for info, sounds a lot like him apart from the homebody bit this guy is always out, infact he is usually the one who convinces me to go out too!
Sun Cancer
Moon Cancer
Mercury Cancer
Venus Cancer
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Capricorn
Saturn Scorpio
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Pisces
Asc node Gemini
His chart is full of Cancer, so guessing he's going to be pretty much your typical Cancerian! lol
Sun Cancer
Moon Cancer
Mercury Cancer
Venus Cancer
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Capricorn
Saturn Scorpio
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Pisces
Asc node Gemini
His chart is full of Cancer, so guessing he's going to be pretty much your typical Cancerian! lol
Posted by libra sun
Cheers for info, sounds a lot like him apart from the homebody bit this guy is always out, infact he is usually the one who convinces me to go out too!
Sun Cancer
Moon Cancer
Mercury Cancer
Venus Cancer
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Capricorn
Saturn Scorpio
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Pisces
Asc node Gemini
His chart is full of Cancer, so guessing he's going to be pretty much your typical Cancerian! lol
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holy crap... that's a lot of water! The Cancer Mercery probably makes him psychic. His Cancer Venus & Scorpio Mars will make him a FREAK in the sack, with the right person.
Have fun with this one...
I'm a first decan... and agree with all that's been said. the good is great, the bad a nightmare. really hard to pin down.
I don't think Cancers like people who show much emotion. I find it too overwhelming to deal with and I spend so much time hiding/controlling my own...
Cheers for insight guys. He sems pretty much like you lot described especially Cancer Venus/Scop mars 😉.
Will be taking things VERY slowly with this guy anyway as he only divorced last year after being married 8 years. Have known him 5 years and weve always liked eachother but obviously he was married back then and I was in a relationship.
@emotionalmoon, so true about the giving thing. He put everything into his marriage with absoloutely nothing in return, very negative environment for him, he was very unhappy but stayed there for the sake of his kids really.
"I don't think Cancers like people who show much emotion. I find it too overwhelming to deal with and I spend so much time hiding/controlling my own..."
Think this could be what attracts me to Cancers and them to me, the whole opposites attract thing, he has enough emotion for the both of us!
Will be taking things VERY slowly with this guy anyway as he only divorced last year after being married 8 years. Have known him 5 years and weve always liked eachother but obviously he was married back then and I was in a relationship.
@emotionalmoon, so true about the giving thing. He put everything into his marriage with absoloutely nothing in return, very negative environment for him, he was very unhappy but stayed there for the sake of his kids really.
"I don't think Cancers like people who show much emotion. I find it too overwhelming to deal with and I spend so much time hiding/controlling my own..."
Think this could be what attracts me to Cancers and them to me, the whole opposites attract thing, he has enough emotion for the both of us!
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I dont know why but I just cant stay away from you guys. I know the relationship wont work so i'm hesitant to even start it but it just always feels so right. I have a Cancer moon so maybe that is what draws the Cancers to me but I'm just so damn unemotional! Everytime i'm with a Cancer they just see me as cold and heartless, im really not though. I have emotions, I get hurt. If you cut me I bleed but I just put a bandage on and get over it lol.
I know that I am never going to change, and I know the new guy is never going to change either so realistically there is no way of the relationship working out, so why cant you guys just leave me alone 😛 haha.
However though all the other Cancers I've had relationships with have been second decan, (birthdays either the same or a day apart) but this guy is a first Decan, think i'll have any better luck with him, or is there not much difference between Cancers?