I love you cancers

I've been going thru a lot of difficult situations and the one person I can always depend on is my cancer friend. He is so amazing...he knows just what to say..just what to do etc. Everytime I'm around him..he calms all this virgo nervousness...he even can feel it lol. He tries to help me in anyway possible...even though I stubbornly decline lol. I don't deserve him...

You cancers are truely amazing people ...biggest hearts...really will do anything for the people you care about. I'm just in awww 🙂
Don't let the negative get you guys down cause at the end of the day...you are the brightest light in the darkest tunnel...at least for this virgal 🙂

but the world is not you...virgo. the world thinks i m a cold hearted emotionless and detached sob. will anyone actually understand us....

Posted by krebbsmann
but the world is not you...virgo. the world thinks i m a cold hearted emotionless and detached sob. will anyone actually understand us....

If they think that...then they shouldn't be in your life anyway!

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but the world is not you...virgo. the world thinks i m a cold hearted emotionless and detached sob. will anyone actually understand us....

No.

Thank you, LostInMyMind but I think it is because you're a good person.

I can't catch a break recently. A friend that I cared very deeply for betrayed me. I don't think he fully understands or appreciates how much he hurt me. I guess he didn't feel the same way.

Keep your Cancer friend close. A trustworthy Crab will walk into hell and back with you. 🙂

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Aww I'm sorry to hear that...everything imo happens for a reason...so try and look at the bigger pic in that situation (easier said than done)

Yes they most certainly will...and some will walk into hell for you without you....just so you don't have to feel that pain 🙂

(((hugz))) lostinmyMind... you are awesome

I usually give up on Virgos because they end up feeling like users, but I get what you mean.

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(((hugz))) lostinmyMind... you are awesome

*blushes* thank you 🙂

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Posted by krebbsmann
but the world is not you...virgo. the world thinks i m a cold hearted emotionless and detached sob. will anyone actually understand us....

No.

Thank you, LostInMyMind but I think it is because you're a good person.

I can't catch a break recently. A friend that I cared very deeply for betrayed me. I don't think he fully understands or appreciates how much he hurt me. I guess he didn't feel the same way.

Keep your Cancer friend close. A trustworthy Crab will walk into hell and back with you. 🙂

Aww I'm sorry to hear that...everything imo happens for a reason...so try and look at the bigger pic in that situation (easier said than done)

Yes they most certainly will...and some will walk into hell for you without you....just so you don't have to feel that pain 🙂

* hug *

For the right people, we will do this and more.

I'm going to respond to your other thread.

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🙂

Posted by mr.crabby
I usually give up on Virgos because they end up feeling like users, but I get what you mean.

See I don't want him to feel that way ever...so I make sure he knows I'm not trying to use him or if he feels that way to please let me know...its totally not my intentions.

Not all virgos are like that...so dont discard us all 🙂

Posted by xMoonMan
Yeah, you Virgo's are oright too.
🙂

I just wish I could find me a Virgal for realz.

*Universe, please send an intelligent, sexy Virgal...thanks*

Aww maybe one day moonman 🙂 sending virgo energy your way...maybe it will help 🙂

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Posted by mr.crabby
I usually give up on Virgos because they end up feeling like users, but I get what you mean.

See I don't want him to feel that way ever...so I make sure he knows I'm not trying to use him or if he feels that way to please let me know...its totally not my intentions.

Not all virgos are like that...so dont discard us all 🙂

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It's more like an emotional misunderstanding, really.

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I usually give up on Virgos because they end up feeling like users, but I get what you mean.

See I don't want him to feel that way ever...so I make sure he knows I'm not trying to use him or if he feels that way to please let me know...its totally not my intentions.

Not all virgos are like that...so dont discard us all 🙂

It's more like an emotional misunderstanding, really.

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Ah I can see that... most definitely! Well at least I think I know what you mean...us virgos and cancers are def on the opposite side of the spectrum with emotional things.

Posted by CluelessCancer
I agree with your initial statement, can you expand on your thoughts regarding its an emotional misunderstanding?

I won't get into it too much, but what I understand about Virgos is that they have a different timing, that they require a longer period of proximity before they're comfortable, and it sometimes look like insulting aloofness and a cold shoulder. It's actually pretty easy for me to get close to someone I admire or like, but not for them. Relying on someone or going to them for help is their way of showing how trustful they are, and in a way, how much they like you.

"Being allowed to take care of a Virgo is a great privilege and it makes you feel important. " - Mr. Crabby

My dad is a virgo and i have never hated anyone more...deceitful. betraying.liar.

Thank you so much Lostinmymind Virgo lady. That was soo nice. I'll probably keep that in my pocket forever 🙂 I love Virgos! Cancer and Virgo pairings of any kind creates magic🙂 I could probably love any Virgo woman. I was also raised by a Virgo. Lol that's a lot of Virgo talk. I forgot that I'm on my Cancer thread lol

Posted by BlackIndian22
@LostinmyMind11 Aww Thank you soo much for your kind words about us Cancers =). It made me soo happy to read that. You aren't using your Cancer friend ok. Don't let people negative thoughts cloud your judgement ok. You came here to show your love for us, & i appreciate it. Your Cancer cares alot for you. He doesn't wanna ever see you sad. Just don't go disappearing on him. Be good to him & yes you deserve him =). Virgo & Cancer is a great pairing. I only met 1 virgo lady & she was awesome person. I have no problems with a Virgo. I love the Virgo women

I try not to disappear on him but he knows when I do...it has nothing to do with him...same for when he does. We know each other pretty well...I agree cancer and virgo are a good pairing...whether romantically or friends.

I just wish I could do half the things he does for me...he says that I do but I really don't. Maybe one day ill be able too...just don't want him to think I use or take him do granted...which I think he knows but I know how you cancers are lol. Wont say anything until wayyyyy later lol

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Posted by CluelessCancer
I agree with your initial statement, can you expand on your thoughts regarding its an emotional misunderstanding?

I won't get into it too much, but what I understand about Virgos is that they have a different timing, that they require a longer period of proximity before they're comfortable, and it sometimes look like insulting aloofness and a cold shoulder. It's actually pretty easy for me to get close to someone I admire or like, but not for them. Relying on someone or going to them for help is their way of showing how trustful they are, and in a way, how much they like you.

"Being allowed to take care of a Virgo is a great privilege and it makes you feel important. " - Mr. Crabby

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Yep pretty much hit the nail on the head on that!

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
I've been going thru a lot of difficult situations and the one person I can always depend on is my cancer friend. He is so amazing...he knows just what to say..just what to do etc. Everytime I'm around him..he calms all this virgo nervousness...he even can feel it lol. He tries to help me in anyway possible...even though I stubbornly decline lol. I don't deserve him...

You cancers are truely amazing people ...biggest hearts...really will do anything for the people you care about. I'm just in awww 🙂
Don't let the negative get you guys down cause at the end of the day...you are the brightest light in the darkest tunnel...at least for this virgal 🙂

i've come to realize how wonderful virgos are. can't believe it took me this long lol. virgos and cancers have quite a bit of similarities. they calm me down and are my anchor.

there is a very special virgo in my life and they are wonderful people. so thank you. ^___^

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Yes I def agree that we have quite a lot of similarities...we just really seem to click. I love it!

Posted by krebbsmann
My dad is a virgo and i have never hated anyone more...deceitful. betraying.liar.

I'm sorry to hear that 😢 its not easy when a parent is not a parent...someone you're supposed to be able to trust and lean on and cant. 😢
Hopefully one day ..you can mend that relationship with him and move to a better place (if you want..it maybe too late in your eyes and i understand)
You never know when you wont have that time to do it...I've been there. I've had a hell of a road with my scorp father but I forgave him and we moved to a better place but unfortunately it didn't go any further...he passed away last week ...and I wish we had more time. I'm not saying you should forgive him...but why go thru life with hate in your heart...people fuck up...even parents! I don't know your situation but I know mine was pretty messed up and was on the mend...so I feel anyone's can be. Now I'm just rambling lol

Posted by Vero23
Thank you so much Lostinmymind Virgo lady. That was soo nice. I'll probably keep that in my pocket forever 🙂 I love Virgos! Cancer and Virgo pairings of any kind creates magic🙂 I could probably love any Virgo woman. I was also raised by a Virgo. Lol that's a lot of Virgo talk. I forgot that I'm on my Cancer thread lol

🙂 anytime!

hes a regular liar and he betrayed my mom and the whole family and you know ...once anyone betrays my trust, its done. no going back. when i m off someone i could be off for a long while till u prove you have changed otherwise and most dont get a chance.

Thank you so much for your sweet words. That goes straight to my heart.

Posted by Karka
Thank you so much for your sweet words. That goes straight to my heart.

Aww you're welcome 🙂

Cancerians represent Virgos 11th house, "The house of hopes, dreams, and friendships", it's a nice pair for friendships, and romance at times.

Posted by highlander
Cancerians represent Virgos 11th house, "The house of hopes, dreams, and friendships", it's a nice pair for friendships, and romance at times.

I agree! Btw...you and my friend have the same sun and moon sign 🙂

Posted by krebbsmann
My dad is a virgo and i have never hated anyone more...deceitful. betraying.liar.

Yeah, be careful with Virgos.

My friend's mother cheated on the father when my friend was really young, and it messed things up for the family.

I also had the odious displeasure of trying to date a Virgo who was secretly messing around with someone else.

Scorpios may be sneaky, but damn Virgos can be the master sneaks.

I love them too... Plus their libido is off the charts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hahahah lol sorry... Its just that my cancer and I are back to doing it everyday a couple times a day.. It makes my sexy Scorp asc veddy veddy happy. 😄

Posted by Peanutbutter
I love them too... Plus their libido is off the charts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hahahah lol sorry... Its just that my cancer and I are back to doing it everyday a couple times a day.. It makes my sexy Scorp asc veddy veddy happy. 😄

Hahaha pb! 🙂

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Posted by highlander
Cancerians represent Virgos 11th house, "The house of hopes, dreams, and friendships", it's a nice pair for friendships, and romance at times.

I agree! Btw...you and my friend have the same sun and moon sign 🙂

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wow I'm dumb...obviously the same sun sign lol

Cancer got your back 100% , unless you betray us, loyalty isn't cheap.

I love Virgos. I have a lot of virgo friends. Talking to a Virgo girl. I think how analytical you guys are stresses you out. How you look into every detail of things and you get lost. The same thing is with cancers except we get lost with our emotions. We feel so much we and we take in so much we get lost. I have a heart time opening my heart to this Virgo girl. She is definitely sneaky. Time will tell.

omg YES just wanna put in my two cents here - my vey very best friend EVER is a Cancer woman and she is so darn amazon and wonderful and dependable and I can always go to her and she can always confide in me. It helps I'm a Taurus with Cancer ascendant and we both have fire moons but basically we're fifty shades of adorable as she says. Oh yeah and she is funny as hell and cooks like a dream! She's seriously taught me so much about how to be a real friend. I'm so grateful to have her in my life!

Great I'm a Cancer Woman and I've been friends with a Virgo guy for almost 5 years since college.
He's a great guy, always there for me, listens to me, and knows how to make me laugh.
It's a bit different between us since i'm the one who always opens up and he appears to be the strong one and handles his problems without bugging anyone.

And with you as a Virgo woman and your friend Cancer--its vice versa.

Lostinmymind, we are very very good listeners and we do care alot for anyone going through a tough time. We are very open armed when we see someone is in need of a cuddle. That what we do.

Posted by Ruh
I love Virgos. I have a lot of virgo friends. Talking to a Virgo girl. I think how analytical you guys are stresses you out. How you look into every detail of things and you get lost. The same thing is with cancers except we get lost with our emotions. We feel so much we and we take in so much we get lost. I have a heart time opening my heart to this Virgo girl. She is definitely sneaky. Time will tell.

I second that. I love, love Virgos. Their presence just makes me calm and happy. I open up to them pretty quickly. They're so friendly. We have so many similar views and I've found them to be sensitive. They just aren't as giving and can be sneaky somewhat and sometimes a bit selfish materialistically but it's not like anyone's perfect. Their good attributes outweigh the bad.

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Posted by CluelessCancer
I agree with your initial statement, can you expand on your thoughts regarding its an emotional misunderstanding?

I won't get into it too much, but what I understand about Virgos is that they have a different timing, that they require a longer period of proximity before they're comfortable, and it sometimes look like insulting aloofness and a cold shoulder. It's actually pretty easy for me to get close to someone I admire or like, but not for them. Relying on someone or going to them for help is their way of showing how trustful they are, and in a way, how much they like you.

"Being allowed to take care of a Virgo is a great privilege and it makes you feel important. " - Mr. Crabby

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yeah... Some people take our aloofness the wrong way :/