I need help on this topic from Cancer-sun moon-scorpio men, please..

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by sonja44 on Sunday, March 5, 2017 and has 73 replies.
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I just started dating a sun in cancer moon in scorpio man and im a sun in aquarius Gemini moon woman. We texted off and on for two weeks then he decided for me to go to his house for dinner and watch movies. I has the time of my life I never thought sex and intimacy could be soo explosively dam hot, but it was all night long. in the morning we kissed each other as a couple would do and we each went to our jobs at work. His job is an e.r. doctor so his time with me is valuable I know this. I do give him his space.

but, now, im scared that since I met him online at a dating site when I began dating him he said for relationship. now his profile is stating for dating. Is this guy into me or not. Im age 46 and my man is age 40.

I love this man but scared to tell him.

Help..

Posted by sonja44

We texted off and on for two weeks then he decided for me to go to his house for dinner and watch movies.

I love this man



It's been two weeks and you 'love him'? You don't love him. You in love with his dick game, that's all.

he has a 10 yr old son from a divorce two yrs ago. I have two sons that lost their real father two yrs ago.

we had a lot of foreplay sex because he told me I was not on the pill. I got on the pill and told and showed him in a text message two days after us being together. and he wanted to know how I was doing.

I told him good and then he said he was busy with work.

Do I just wait on him to get back with me? He hasn't really told me how our relationship is either yet.

I will honestly say that we knew what each other wanted when we were together without telling each other what we wanted.

how do I get him to go on another date without pushing him?

He's a American/Thailand man. stocky muscle build from head to toe. I gave him several thirty minute massages that he loved a lot. I tried to make him comfortable with me.
he takes great care of his home and values his mom, sister, brother, and son greatly. his home was I mean spotless, it scared me.
Posted by sonja44
he has a 10 yr old son from a divorce two yrs ago. I have two sons that lost their real father two yrs ago.

we had a lot of foreplay sex because he told me I was not on the pill. I got on the pill and told and showed him in a text message two days after us being together. and he wanted to know how I was doing.

I told him good and then he said he was busy with work.

Do I just wait on him to get back with me? He hasn't really told me how our relationship is either yet.



Wow, so you rushed to get on the pill so this dude you've known for 2 weeks can fuck you raw and cum inside you. Did you even bother to get tested with him?

I enjoy being with this man a lot, but how long does it take for a cancer man to commit to his woman? If someone could give me a figure I can work with whatever I need to stay with this man. I don't want someone else dating him and then lose him to that person.

Before I met this man, I went on a date with an aquarius man that said after two weeks that I was everything he wanted in a woman but proximity and left me for someone else.

I don't want to date anyone but this man.
Posted by sonja44
I enjoy being with this man a lot, but how long does it take for a cancer man to commit to his woman? If someone could give me a figure I can work with whatever I need to stay with this man. I don't want someone else dating him and then lose him to that person.

Before I met this man, I went on a date with an aquarius man that said after two weeks that I was everything he wanted in a woman but proximity and left me for someone else.

I don't want to date anyone but this man.
Lol you have no idea who he is and what he's about. Two weeks isn't long enough to know someone, especially as when first dating you put on the facade of your best self.

What you should be doing is acting a lot less desperate. Date other men. If he wants you he'll lock you down.

I would think that he wouldn't be working as an e.r. doctor if he had a bad sexual disease or something, surely.

I can commit to him. I feel comfortable with doing that.
Posted by sonja44
I would think that he wouldn't be working as an e.r. doctor if he had a bad sexual disease or something, surely.

I can commit to him. I feel comfortable with doing that.
Lol wut. Do you even hear yourself?! Having herpes doesn't exclude you from the medical profession. Your medical history is private from your employer.

And as he obviously had no issues fucking you raw after knowing you for only two weeks and didn't confirm that you are disease free...you have to assume he's fucked other girls raw who may or may not have given him an std/s.
Im not used to dating. but im sure that he's dated more people than I have.

I loved the way this man kept asking me if I needed anything. most men don't care about a woman's needs. or, the one's ive been with hadn't.
I also work at a state job that I have to make sure I don't have any diseases to work where im at.

this man took great care of me all night long. I took great care of him too.

The man drives an audi car too. I thought was awesome.
Posted by sonja44
Im not used to dating. but im sure that he's dated more people than I have.

I loved the way this man kept asking me if I needed anything. most men don't care about a woman's needs. or, the one's ive been with hadn't.
I'm sure he also has several nurses at work he fucks casually on the side. We should ask @thelibramudra how it is. Are er doctors really as slutty as tv + movies portray?

he looked very clean in his manly parts to me. I didn't see anything unusual to me.
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Posted by sonja44
The man drives an audi car too. I thought was awesome.
So fukin what, you can own an used Audi, they're not that great of a car

Plus he's an ER doctor. He's got money

Which shows me he's kind of Good with his money he can get a better car
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not nessisarily. Some of them have crazy student debt. Hundreds of thousands. I dated a medical professional with 750k in debt.

The Audi might be a nessisary evil cause he owes his life to his debt.
The radiologist 22 days ago, left me for someone that is closeby his home, near his mother and sister.

I live 1hr30min away and I drove to meet him, so to me proximity was not a good excuse to me.
The good news is if (when) he gives you an std you can guilt trip him into writing you prescriptions for free.
Listen, my dudes a Cancer son and Scorpio moon.

But putting that all to the side, you are an idiot. "I love him, but I met him 2 weeks ago." Stop looking so god damn desperate. You probably scared his ass right off with all that shit. These dudes come on STRONG in the beginning, but when they get what they want, and then don't see much else for you to offer then what is in between your legs, they don't stay. This can apply to any man, of any sign. You're too emotionally retarded to get this dude, and will scare him off.

You're probably a stage 5 clinger, with stalking tendencies.
Posted by sonja44
The radiologist 22 days ago, left me for someone that is closeby his home, near his mother and sister.

I live 1hr30min away and I drove to meet him, so to me proximity was not a good excuse to me.
That was your mistake. Never drive to meet a guy, always have him come to you. Let him prove his interest to you.

I learned that the hard way.

Posted by sonja44
he looked very clean in his manly parts to me. I didn't see anything unusual to me.
How are you 40 and don't know how std's work?!! One can look clean inbetween outbreaks.
You better be a troll. Cause you make Gemitati's post look like they were written by a Pulitzer prize winning author.
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Posted by sonja44
The man drives an audi car too. I thought was awesome.
So fukin what, you can own an used Audi, they're not that great of a car

Plus he's an ER doctor. He's got money

Which shows me he's kind of Good with his money he can get a better car
not nessisarily. Some of them have crazy student debt. Hundreds of thousands. I dated a medical professional with 750k in debt.

The Audi might be a nessisary evil cause he owes his life to his debt.
750k that's ridiculous.

Where y'all live

Er doctors make 400 $ k in the west coast
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He was middle eastern studying here in LA. They charge more if your out of state/out of country. Plus all his living expenses for the years he was in school. He was doing his residency when I met him.

Posted by sonja44
The radiologist 22 days ago, left me for someone that is closeby his home, near his mother and sister.

I live 1hr30min away and I drove to meet him, so to me proximity was not a good excuse to me.
What do you do for a living?

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Posted by sonja44
The man drives an audi car too. I thought was awesome.
So fukin what, you can own an used Audi, they're not that great of a car

Plus he's an ER doctor. He's got money

Which shows me he's kind of Good with his money he can get a better car
not nessisarily. Some of them have crazy student debt. Hundreds of thousands. I dated a medical professional with 750k in debt.

The Audi might be a nessisary evil cause he owes his life to his debt.
750k that's ridiculous.

Where y'all live

Er doctors make 400 $ k in the west coast
He was middle eastern studying here in LA. They charge more if your out of state/out of country. Plus all his living expenses for the years he was in school. He was doing his residency when I met him.

That's killer. Dam.

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Females always get wet over medical profession dudes. But all the ones I've known/dated was in INSANE debt. Yes your earning potential is high but you spend the first 5-10+ years of your career paying off your debt. Yuck.

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Posted by sonja44
The radiologist 22 days ago, left me for someone that is closeby his home, near his mother and sister.

I live 1hr30min away and I drove to meet him, so to me proximity was not a good excuse to me.
That was your mistake. Never drive to meet a guy, always have him come to you. Let him prove his interest to you.

I learned that the hard way.

This chick is 49 years old

Lol women never learn
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@rockyroadicecream. Come here and see this. Hilarious ?

from what little I know about most men, in general, they do not have you go to their home for one night stands because all kinds of women would be showing up. so, im thinking he really likes me, I just have to give it some time for him to adjust.
That Napoleon complex doe. Gotta play God so that you feel less depressed about your 4 inches. Right?! @starwars
Posted by sonja44
from what little I know about most men, in general, they do not have you go to their home for one night stands because all kinds of women would be showing up. so, im thinking he really likes me, I just have to give it some time for him to adjust.
Lol that could be his apartment in the city for work proximity and side chick hookups. He could have a house in the suburbs with a wife and kids. You've known him for ONLY TWO WEEKS.


Wedding rings come off.
Love him?

Scared
Posted by sonja44
from what little I know about most men, in general, they do not have you go to their home for one night stands because all kinds of women would be showing up. so, im thinking he really likes me, I just have to give it some time for him to adjust.
Lol I can't get over how deluded and fucked up your logic is. 'He fucked me in his home, he must really like me'. Lol wut!!!
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Posted by sonja44
from what little I know about most men, in general, they do not have you go to their home for one night stands because all kinds of women would be showing up. so, im thinking he really likes me, I just have to give it some time for him to adjust.
Lol I can't get over how deluded and fucked up your logic is. 'He fucked me in his home, he must really like me'. Lol wut!!!
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But she loves him!
You said you lost your kids father? Were you with him for years and years? The dating game has changed A LOT since you were last single. You seem really naive and trusting, your gonna be hurt bad if you don't wise up.
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Posted by sonja44
from what little I know about most men, in general, they do not have you go to their home for one night stands because all kinds of women would be showing up. so, im thinking he really likes me, I just have to give it some time for him to adjust.
Lol I can't get over how deluded and fucked up your logic is. 'He fucked me in his home, he must really like me'. Lol wut!!!
But she loves him!
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And when a man sticks his dick inside of you it means he loves you back. Everyone knows this!

Op when's the wedding and are we invited??
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Posted by sonja44
from what little I know about most men, in general, they do not have you go to their home for one night stands because all kinds of women would be showing up. so, im thinking he really likes me, I just have to give it some time for him to adjust.
Lol I can't get over how deluded and fucked up your logic is. 'He fucked me in his home, he must really like me'. Lol wut!!!
But she loves him!
And when a man sticks his dick inside of you it means he loves you back. Everyone knows this!

Op when's the wedding and are we invited??
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I heard about some 64 year old woman in Aus having twins. I guess old people can still reproduce. Though I hope this OP can't. lol
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Posted by sonja44
from what little I know about most men, in general, they do not have you go to their home for one night stands because all kinds of women would be showing up. so, im thinking he really likes me, I just have to give it some time for him to adjust.
Lol I can't get over how deluded and fucked up your logic is. 'He fucked me in his home, he must really like me'. Lol wut!!!
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OP, you are 46? Why do you have this mind set at your age?

Don't you realize that lots of men will say or do anything to get sex....? Some will do it anywhere and with anyone

You seem somewhat naive for your age ?

Cancer sun, Scorpio moon seems like a hot mess combo for a man
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Cancer sun, Scorpio moon seems like a hot mess combo for a man
It is. Trust me. It is.
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Posted by sonja44
from what little I know about most men, in general, they do not have you go to their home for one night stands because all kinds of women would be showing up. so, im thinking he really likes me, I just have to give it some time for him to adjust.
Lol I can't get over how deluded and fucked up your logic is. 'He fucked me in his home, he must really like me'. Lol wut!!!
But she loves him!
And when a man sticks his dick inside of you it means he loves you back. Everyone knows this!

Op when's the wedding and are we invited??
I heard about some 64 year old woman in Aus having twins. I guess old people can still reproduce. Though I hope this OP can't. lol
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She said she has sons. The time of Idiocity is upon us.

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Posted by MyStarsShine
Cancer sun, Scorpio moon seems like a hot mess combo for a man
It is. Trust me. It is.
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You experienced it romantically, Nikki?

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Posted by MyStarsShine
Cancer sun, Scorpio moon seems like a hot mess combo for a man
It is. Trust me. It is.


You experienced it romantically, Nikki?

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My guy now is a Cancer Sun and Scorpio moon.
I would take care of him. moneywise, I don't make as much as he does, but I do what I can. Im an admin analyst for Arkansas, in Arkadelphia.
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Posted by sonja44
from what little I know about most men, in general, they do not have you go to their home for one night stands because all kinds of women would be showing up. so, im thinking he really likes me, I just have to give it some time for him to adjust.
Lol I can't get over how deluded and fucked up your logic is. 'He fucked me in his home, he must really like me'. Lol wut!!!
But she loves him!
And when a man sticks his dick inside of you it means he loves you back. Everyone knows this!

Op when's the wedding and are we invited??
I heard about some 64 year old woman in Aus having twins. I guess old people can still reproduce. Though I hope this OP can't. lol
She said she has sons. The time of Idiocity is upon us.

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DARWIN'S THEORY PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEASE
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Posted by sonja44
Im not used to dating. but im sure that he's dated more people than I have.

I loved the way this man kept asking me if I needed anything. most men don't care about a woman's needs. or, the one's ive been with hadn't.
I'm sure he also has several nurses at work he fucks casually on the side. We should ask @thelibramudra how it is. Are er doctors really as slutty as tv + movies portray?

Yes. Especially new residents and fellows. You'd think they wouldn't have the time for the nonsense but it happens.

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Hi babe!! How's all the wedding plans going?
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Posted by sonja44
from what little I know about most men, in general, they do not have you go to their home for one night stands because all kinds of women would be showing up. so, im thinking he really likes me, I just have to give it some time for him to adjust.
Lol I can't get over how deluded and fucked up your logic is. 'He fucked me in his home, he must really like me'. Lol wut!!!
But she loves him!
And when a man sticks his dick inside of you it means he loves you back. Everyone knows this!

Op when's the wedding and are we invited??
I heard about some 64 year old woman in Aus having twins. I guess old people can still reproduce. Though I hope this OP can't. lol
She said she has sons. The time of Idiocity is upon us.

DARWIN'S THEORY PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEASE
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Modern society ensures that all the weak survive and multiply. Damn.
This has got to be a troll lol

Two weeks and you love him?

Girllllll???
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Do you hang out at hospitals or something? You were in love with a radiologist 22 days ago...lol
Must be something in the hospital water! ?
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Cancer sun, Scorpio moon seems like a hot mess combo for a man
It is. Trust me. It is.


You experienced it romantically, Nikki?

My guy now is a Cancer Sun and Scorpio moon.
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Men with double water Scared



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