I need some more advice on Cancer guy !! ...

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by CapricornGirl24 on Saturday, March 9, 2013 and has 14 replies.
So , I was on here not to long ago about this same guy . He's my co-worker & I'm really under the impression that he may like me , but I'm not 100% sure if that's legit or if this is all self-inflicted in my mind. In my previous topic I posted , I explained how he acts towards me & around me . I can tell he likes working next to me & he's even made jokes about how none of the other employees/managers wants "us to be together" (work together) . I think there may be some truth to that that b/c all the other female employees seem to have a crush on him , lol . He's always talks to me in a way that's very different from how he speaks to everyone else , too . I've also noticed how he'll do/say things out of no where like he's trying to get my attention . He's been doing this for a while , but I'm just now picking up on it . I'll admit , I'm always on the move so there's times when things like this will literally just fly over my head , lol . But if he does like me even a little bit , I don't wanna give him the impression that I'm not interested b/c I definitely am . I'm just not the "in your face" kind of girl . I'm reserved & very cautious when it comes to relationships . How can I show him that I'm interested w/o having to step out of my comfort zone too much ? And if any of you have experiences with Cancer male & Capricorn female relationships or know someone who does how did it work out ?
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Girl its simple. The most you have to do is just be 'Nice & Sweet' ! Nothing else lol. Basically just be friendly !!
Do not ACT interested in him right away. Let him win you over. My crab and I met at our workplace too. Lets just say I was more reserved than you!! But the one thing I did was stimulated his eyes. I looked & dressed feminine & beautiful everyday. I created an aura of beauty, peace, & happiness. He couldn't resist & he had to approach & ask my phone number. Even when we 1st started talking I still acted uninterested...But I was very friendly....very Nice & Sweet to him! And we're happy together now.
But overall, You don't have to change, he 's already liking you just the way you are!!!! The one thing a cancer man that's interested does is always shows-up wherever you are. Not necessarily to pounce on you, but to just be near you or to just get a glimpse of you. This guy likes you. Remain who you are smile
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One more thing. You notice how the other girls at your job openly like him & you act like he's average ???? Yea, that alone makes you standout!! Don't be like the others. It's the one thing that draws him in. Good luck
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Posted by Rapunzel
Girl its simple. The most you have to do is just be 'Nice & Sweet' ! Nothing else lol. Basically just be friendly !!
Do not ACT interested in him right away. Let him win you over. My crab and I met at our workplace too. Lets just say I was more reserved than you!! But the one thing I did was stimulated his eyes. I looked & dressed feminine & beautiful everyday. I created an aura of beauty, peace, & happiness. He couldn't resist & he had to approach & ask my phone number. Even when we 1st started talking I still acted uninterested...But I was very friendly....very Nice & Sweet to him! And we're happy together now.
But overall, You don't have to change, he 's already liking you just the way you are!!!! The one thing a cancer man that's interested does is always shows-up wherever you are. Not necessarily to pounce on you, but to just be near you or to just get a glimpse of you. This guy likes you. Remain who you are smile


Lol I'm always nice & sweet ; Everyone tells me that . As far as "stimulating his eyes" , I never leave the house looking any kind of way , I'm not too dressed up either ; just decent . But he compliments me on my wardrobe quite often . Lol. He's been working with me at my job for almost 2 years now & I've always sensed he was attracted to me a bit . Now he's showing it a little more to the point where it's obvious for me to catch the hints , lol. I'm really becoming attracted to him so acting uninterested is becoming difficult , but I'll try & see what happens. Lol. Thanks !!
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Oh wow !!! Two years !! I thought you was talking about a few months lol
Looks like you have to just push him against the wall & kiss him for him to get the point your interested lol. Joking.
But yes, maybe some innocent flirting could help you out & Lots of eye contact. Hopefully others here can give you some feedback..... smile
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Posted by Rapunzel
Oh wow !!! Two years !! I thought you was talking about a few months lol
Looks like you have to just push him against the wall & kiss him for him to get the point your interested lol. Joking.
But yes, maybe some innocent flirting could help you out & Lots of eye contact. Hopefully others here can give you some feedback..... smile


Lol not exactly 2 years .. more like ... a year & 3months . He started working at my job around Christmas time in 2011 . We make lots of eye contact throughout our shifts , lol . And innocent flirting ? ... Yea, I think I can do that . Lol .
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Yea We must go to Plan B to speed things up lol.
HOW you flirt is the most important thing. You say or do something flirty then go off somewhere & get busy with your work. Keeping it nice & short makes him come back for more.
You can also touch him when you are talking to him.........well I don't know, he'd probably get so excited he'd faint if you did this lol. When they like you, lots of times they're secretly nervous (not all crabs though) Mine "looked" confident but when I got close to his body or face at work his whole body tensed & his voice trembled. He even started to sweat once lol lol. It was attractive to me.
You already know what's best to do.... You're a Capricorn ! Winking
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Posted by Rapunzel
Yea We must go to Plan B to speed things up lol.
HOW you flirt is the most important thing. You say or do something flirty then go off somewhere & get busy with your work. Keeping it nice & short makes him come back for more.
You can also touch him when you are talking to him.........well I don't know, he'd probably get so excited he'd faint if you did this lol. When they like you, lots of times they're secretly nervous (not all crabs though) Mine "looked" confident but when I got close to his body or face at work his whole body tensed & his voice trembled. He even started to sweat once lol lol. It was attractive to me.
You already know what's best to do.... You're a Capricorn ! Winking


Lol saying something flirty & then walking off should be easy . This guy I'm talking about sound a lot like yours , lol . I remember he called the job once to let the managers know he'd be a few minutes late . I answered the phone & his voice started to shake once he realized who he was talking to , but most of the time he appears very confident . I've never actually touched him , but I swear he reached for a hug once & he does tense up a bit when I get close to him . Lol . I think his actions are cute , lol . I'll definitely try the innocent flirting , though . I get a feeling that's what he's looking for from me ; some kind of hints to show him I'm interested too . But I won't be too clingy , its not in my nature . Lol .
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Wow thats so cute. That's amazing how similar they are lol
Being so reserved like you, I realized Its just best to give hints rather than act aggressive like other girls. And much like us, it also takes a lot of courage for the crabs to come out their comfort zones too. They need some sort of GO traffic sign so they can & proceed to the next traffic sign lol.
So I agree with you, avoid being clingy. That's what he seems to like about you. You're going to be fine smile
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Posted by Rapunzel
Wow thats so cute. That's amazing how similar they are lol
Being so reserved like you, I realized Its just best to give hints rather than act aggressive like other girls. And much like us, it also takes a lot of courage for the crabs to come out their comfort zones too. They need some sort of GO traffic sign so they can & proceed to the next traffic sign lol.
So I agree with you, avoid being clingy. That's what he seems to like about you. You're going to be fine smile


Yes !! The fact that I don't have to be aggressive makes me sooo happy , lol . Every other guy that I've come close to being involved with behaved as if I was suppose to behave like every other girl who threw themselves at them , but not with the Cancer guy !! Lol . And thanks !! :-)
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Posted by CluelessCancer
I personally think it's takes a very long time for Cancers/Capricorns to get their groove together..but once they do..its a match made in heaven.
I dated a Cap guy, he wanted to marry me, he was the most stable relationship I have ever had. Unfortunately he was a Muslim and not of my ethnic background.


Aww , I'm sorry to hear that . Thanks for your input . I've been told they're very sensitive & I also have a sister who's a Cancer ; she's the same way . So b/c I've had somewhat of an experience watching what I say to her for the same reasons , I don't think it'd be a problem doing the same with him . I have a cool exterior but deep down I'm soft & squishy , lol . And I'm used to having to separate the 2 sides of my personality .
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Hi CapricornGirl24! I'm not sure if this applies to other cancers or even particularly your special cancer someone, but I'll tell you my experience just in case it may help. The truth is I tend to gravitate those who are set apart from the others and show me the most care and affection toward me. And I realize the reason for this is because I like to know who will do what I'll do for them-be there for each other, before I start to like them. Also, I am extremely attracted to those who are unique and well, bring something else to the table. I know this can be a bit demanding, but I like people who are constantly surprising me and this could be in well...their achievements, their kindness, their actions, anything. And we also love taking care of the people we love and care about so we make great friends and partners in life. ;D Oh, and I would also like to say once you capture a cancer's heart, please be very careful and try not to hurt his feelings, because while other people may get hurt, we feel it 10x more. BEST OF LUCK!! ^_^
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^^^^^ I always love a cancer's advice smile
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Hi MissyCancerX !!
Your info is very insightful , especially since your a Cancer yourself , lol . Part of my fear is the "showing care & affection" . As a Cap , I'm always on the move & may have times where others needs fly right over my head . Idk if its b/c of my responsible/disciplined nature , but its something I can't always control . However , for this guy , I'm willing to do that .... actually , maybe that's what I'm doing now since I'm actually paying attention enough to be picking up on everything he's doing & reading between the lines , lol . As I said before also , I'm somewhat use to watch what/how I say things so that I don't hurt the other persons feelings b/c I have a sister who's a Cancer sign & I know they can be very sensitive . As far as "surprising" him goes , I'm sure I won't have too much of a problem with that . I've noticed about myself that , I have moments when I go from serious , firm & disciplined to silly , playful & affectionate in the snap of a finger out if no where . Lol . But thanks for your advice , I really appreciate it !! :-)
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