I want my relationship to work....
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by beautifulnpink22 on Sunday, June 11, 2006 and has 5 replies.
I want my relationship to work with my cancerian man. Although I have been through so much in this relationship, I still want things to work. I just need to know what can I do to stop myself from feeling so insecure about our relationship. The insecurity does have to do with situations that has occured but is up to me to stop myself from feeling insecure or is it his job to help me feel secure? I have very strong feelings for this guy and I know that things can work, I just hate this feeling that I have I want to feel that no matter what my boyfriend will be loyal and honest with me. I know that no woman can change a man but I just feel that if he was just more honest and open with me it could help. What shall I do? I don't want to always accuse him of things when it may not necessarily be what I think, but at the same time I don't want him to lie to me either. Help!
No one can makes you feel secure unless you want to feel it this way, stop being paranoid and don't torture yourself.
Realise that the source of insecurity is you, and in long run makes you both sick and tired of each other.
Realise that the source of insecurity is you, and in long run makes you both sick and tired of each other.
It's so bad because I came in this morning to work, and now I am wondering to myself no matter how much I want this to work will it work? It's like no matter what he says I cannot trust him, because he tells a lie about things where there is no reason to lie,and it's a proven fact that he lied about so many things. Also the situations that happened makes it hard for me to trust him still. I don't know I am really fighting with myself right now. I know it's really sad. I mean I try talking to him, but how much talking can you do for someone to actually undestand where you are coming from and willing to take your feelings into consideration?
Technically, I am not the kind of girl that asks of much. I just want to be in a relationship with someone I can trust to be loyal, honest, and faithful to me, show me a great deal of respect. I don't want to worry every moment we are not together he's doing something that he has no business doing. I want to feel comfortable and know that no matter what he's being good to me. I mean it's not like I want to feel this way, it's just a natural reaction from past events that has occured in our relationship, and lord knows I want it to all go away so I can have a clear mind look forward to this relationship working out.
Well you have every right to wish so and I wish you good luck?. but if this person in your life is starting to get under your skin. It is possible he exhibit one of your own faults!
Take this opportunity to change your behaviour or the way of thinking. Until you do, you've no right to complain. Devise a strategy to recognize your impulse to misbehave so that you can suppress it before it gets you into trouble.
Take a deep breath?.. gather your courage and start to think differently from today, it'll help I promise you that much.
As I said.. you are a victim of your own imaginations.
Take this opportunity to change your behaviour or the way of thinking. Until you do, you've no right to complain. Devise a strategy to recognize your impulse to misbehave so that you can suppress it before it gets you into trouble.
Take a deep breath?.. gather your courage and start to think differently from today, it'll help I promise you that much.
As I said.. you are a victim of your own imaginations.
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