If this Cancer man can be loyal to one woman only? If we are good match?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by findtruth on Sunday, January 21, 2018 and has 17 replies.
I need some smart people to help me to figure out if this Cancer man can be loyal to one woman only...here is a part of his chart:

Rising Sign is in 07 Degrees Libra

Sun is in 20 Degrees Cancer

Moon is in 24 Degrees Libra

Mercury is in 16 Degrees Leo

Venus is in 04 Degrees Virgo

Mars is in 25 Degrees Leo



And if we are good match...here is a part of my chart:

Rising Sign is in 26 Degrees Scorpio

Sun is in 23 Degrees Sagittarius

Moon is in 01 Degrees Sagittarius

Mercury is in 16 Degrees Sagittarius

Venus is in 20 Degrees Capricorn

Mars is in 23 Degrees Pisces



He said that he wants us to be best friends forever and love me always, so whenever I want to get married, I should marry my best friend----him!

But I'm afraid to lose my freedom by getting married Sad


Thanks a lot for all helps in advance!!!

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Posted by findtruth
I need some smart people to help me to figure out if this Cancer man can be loyal to one woman only...here is a part of his chart:

Rising Sign is in 07 Degrees Libra

Sun is in 20 Degrees Cancer

Moon is in 24 Degrees Libra

Mercury is in 16 Degrees Leo

Venus is in 04 Degrees Virgo

Mars is in 25 Degrees Leo



And if we are good match...here is a part of my chart:

Rising Sign is in 26 Degrees Scorpio

Sun is in 23 Degrees Sagittarius

Moon is in 01 Degrees Sagittarius

Mercury is in 16 Degrees Sagittarius

Venus is in 20 Degrees Capricorn

Mars is in 23 Degrees Pisces



He said that he wants us to be best friends forever and love me always, so whenever I want to get married, I should marry my best friend----him!

But I'm afraid to lose my freedom by getting married Sad


Thanks a lot for all helps in advance!!!

This post captured my attention because your cancer man shares almost the same chart as two cancer men I know. It's interesting you mentioned the best friend comment. I don't know what is it about these placements that makes the owner of this chart call anyone their bff. One of the two guys is an acquaintance of mine. We have good chats when we see each other once in a while and he keeps referring to me as his best friend, almost as if he's anticipating a certain response from me. When he drops the word "bff", it sounds contrived, doesn't flow with the sentence and he has this look on his face as if he's looking for a reaction. I have no clue what kind of reaction he wants. Initially, I thought that maybe he does it to passively convey that he sees me as a friend, but I've never flirted with him nor have I ever been romantically interested in him. I'll give you an example of what I mean. One time he said, when discussing an insider trade secret, "since you're my best friend, I'm gonna tell you something..." Mind you, I see him once in a blue moon.

The second one with this chart was someone I briefly liked based on physical attraction. It didn't go past that for me. We fell apart, but he had this weird habit of confiding really personal details to me right off the bat...since our first meeting. Anyway, he also used the best friend word.

Both of these guys are major commitphobes who do placeholder relationships. I see them once in a while and on a yearly basis, they have new gfs. New Year, new woman. LOL. The second dude is currently dating a sag and this is probably the longest he's been with a woman based on what I know of him.

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@aquarius09

Thank you for sharing such BFF type of stories! That sounds a great strategy from Cancer men. lol
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Posted by findtruth
@aquarius09

Thank you for sharing such BFF type of stories! That sounds a great strategy from Cancer men. lol
How old is he and yourself? What makes you ask that question if he can remain loyal? I feel like your intuition is going off about something.

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Posted by findtruth
@aquarius09

Thank you for sharing such BFF type of stories! That sounds a great strategy from Cancer men. lol
How old is he and yourself? What makes you ask that question if he can remain loyal? I feel like your intuition is going off about something.

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We are both mid-aged, but I look like 20's still--seem like I can never fully grow up. lol

I've heard about cancer people like keep connections with their Ex / Exes by their nature, that is what I dislike about. Who knows whom cancer really loves from his heart (even if he said "I love U" to me everyday)?

For me, I can be a happy single forever, and I definitely don't want to marry Mr. Wrong.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Nip it in the bud. I don't ship Sag women. You already trying to run


Bye


To be honest, for those around me (men & women), they all like me a lot.

However, I've never requested anyone to like me. If I'm trying to run away from someone, then there must be a "reason"! By my nature, I don't wanna hurt anybody as the same as I don't wanna be hurt from anyone else.
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Posted by findtruth
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by findtruth
@aquarius09

Thank you for sharing such BFF type of stories! That sounds a great strategy from Cancer men. lol
How old is he and yourself? What makes you ask that question if he can remain loyal? I feel like your intuition is going off about something.



We are both mid-aged, but I look like 20's still--seem like I can never fully grow up. lol

I've heard about cancer people like keep connections with their Ex / Exes by their nature, that is what I dislike about. Who knows whom cancer really loves from his heart (even if he said "I love U" to me everyday)?

For me, I can be a happy single forever, and I definitely don't want to marry Mr. Wrong.
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You can't worry about the future like that. Marriage will always be a gamble even if you know a person from childhood because humans are always evolving/changing. The thing about people who know how to be single is that if things don't work out or become bad, then they have no problem leaving. You have that to your advantage, so you shouldn't worry much.

No one on this website nor in real life can guarantee you if this guy will be loyal. You will just have to take a plunge and see what happens. Cancers can also be very loyal. Once again, you will never know. It's better to have loved than to not. Take the risk because it could turn out to be amazing.

I still don't understand why you're worried about him being disloyal? Has he done something to make you think that or worry about his loyalty?
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@UnicornSag

You are right, Sag buddy!

I don't really care what others think about me, especially strangers...but by nature, we are easy-going and also kind-hearted so that we always have lots of friends smile
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@aquarius09

"I still don't understand why you're worried about him being disloyal? Has he done something to make you think that or worry about his loyalty?"



For example, something happened that got my attention:

Once we went to a park by "carpool", we left before 8am, and I got a text message like "going to...now" from him right before we leaving, so I was surprised and asked him why he texted me since I was with him. Then he told me that was a mistake...he was going to text another woman who is one of his co-worker and just a friend.

Really? Do you believe that a guy usually tells his co-worker "where he goes" and considers that she is just one of his friends? Then how many such female friends does he have...?

I found that because he texted another woman but sent it to me by accident, otherwise, I would never know what's going on... I don't know if he is trustworthy. That's why I'm asking here.







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Posted by findtruth
@aquarius09

"I still don't understand why you're worried about him being disloyal? Has he done something to make you think that or worry about his loyalty?"



For example, something happened that got my attention:

Once we went to a park by "carpool", we left before 8am, and I got a text message like "going to...now" from him right before we leaving, so I was surprised and asked him why he texted me since I was with him. Then he told me that was a mistake...he was going to text another woman who is one of his co-worker and just a friend.

Really? Do you believe that a guy usually tells his co-worker "where he goes" and considers that she is just one of his friends? Then how many such female friends does he have...?

I found that because he texted another woman but sent it to me by accident, otherwise, I would never know what's going on... I don't know if he is trustworthy. That's why I'm asking here.

As sketchy as this sounds, understand that libra moon people are natural flirts, especially the men. It comes naturally to them. That cancer with libra moon combo men have quite a lot of female friends. She could very well be just a friend/co-worker. Are there any other incidents where his fidelity has come into question?

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Posted by OneKnight
You guys are perfectly matched, but like someone said, you will run. Either during engagement, marriage, or when dating. You will.

I know few things about Cancers and Sagittarius.


I may run if I was forced into a relationship that causes me to lose my freedom.

However, I do enjoy and value friendship.

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As sketchy as this sounds, understand that libra moon people are natural flirts, especially the men. It comes naturally to them. That cancer with libra moon combo men have quite a lot of female friends. She could very well be just a friend/co-worker. Are there any other incidents where his fidelity has come into question?



I read something about Cancer: they are very close to their family, especially their mom.

This cancer guy has serious problem with his family, and none of his family members wants to talk to him. And he always said bad things about his family. Is that strange? What's wrong with him?

So he has no connections with his own family, but he has kept close connections with his female friends.

He said a few times "Let's get married!" I disagreed because I'm not sure if he can be loyal and we don't have much in common (hobby & personality).
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Posted by findtruth


As sketchy as this sounds, understand that libra moon people are natural flirts, especially the men. It comes naturally to them. That cancer with libra moon combo men have quite a lot of female friends. She could very well be just a friend/co-worker. Are there any other incidents where his fidelity has come into question?



I read something about Cancer: they are very close to their family, especially their mom.

This cancer guy has serious problem with his family, and none of his family members wants to talk to him. And he always said bad things about his family. Is that strange? What's wrong with him?

So he has no connections with his own family, but he has kept close connections with his female friends.

He said a few times "Let's get married!" I disagreed because I'm not sure if he can be loyal and we don't have much in common (hobby & personality).
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Cancer men who don't have close ties to their family, like anyone in their family, are usually a nightmare. They resemble a train wreck. This sign represents all things familial, and when a Cancer doesn't have that very thing it represents to foster it's growth and strength, it takes away from all the positive aspects of that sign. I'd be wary just on that note.

If none of his family members want to talk to him, that's a huge red flag. My older brother has cut us all off and isolated himself because he's scared that we'll reveal who he really is to his fiancee or that his interaction with us, which is quite rude and condescending, would come to light in front of her.

The thing to note about Cancers like this is that when they are not close to their own family, they latch onto their partner's. It's an innate desire in them to have a family and be close to them. So when they don't have it, they try to get it elsewhere. This comes in the form of getting close to your family and or starting one of their own.

How old is this guy? Give me the figure.

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@aquarius09

"If none of his family members want to talk to him, that's a huge red flag."------this is really something that scares me!


He is 49 and divorced once. His parents, sisters (no brother), and his own child (20)------none of them wants to talk to him. He said he used to help his family a lot, but once he stopped helping them, then they stopped talking to him. One-side story!

Obviously, he is not a "normal" cancer! He can't get along with his own family.

That's why I want someone to look at his chart that may tell some reason...?

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A middle aged woman will most likely not run. She has some life & living behind her so I'm sure if it's genuine & moving at a respectable pace she'll sit still.
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Posted by tiki33
A middle aged woman will most likely not run. She has some life & living behind her so I'm sure if it's genuine & moving at a respectable pace she'll sit still.


I'm probably not one of most mid-aged women who wants to settle down by marrying someone, because I'm very independent. And I think that It's better to be a happy single forever than marry a wrong one and then feel like living in hell...

The point is if this cancer is good enough for me----I still doubt it!

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Phff. No shit they don't like him. He is divorced. I don't know many people after divorce that get along with family. Family most often not divorced, will never understand a divorced guy.



What do you mean exactly?

Or do you think this cancer is "nice & normal" even if he can't get along with all of his family members?
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