Any other fellow crabs know how annoying we are? People come to me for advice quite often about their Cancer friend/significant other, and I always explain with empathy, because I know we're not easy to deal with. I don't even understand my Cancer man sometimes. Half the time I love him, and the other half is spent wanting to strangle him. I find it easier to disappear while I have my "moment" in an effort to minimize my own level of pain-in-the-@ $ $ ness.
I know I'm a handful but I make up for it by being a sweetheart sometimes. I feel bad for the dudes that have me to deal with because Im an emotional mess at times..I am also very unforgiving and manipulative.I also have a wicked temper.Those are my bad traits and I'm happy to say that I'm working on being a better person.My good traits are compassionate, dependable, loyal, caring and loving,go getter, fun and thoughtful amongst other things. I feel like the good outweighs my shitty ways.
I'm very irritating at times...to my wife...but at the same time I'm cute...she's always torn between smacking me upside the head of giving m a hug lol I don't think I'm irritating. I explain my concerns clearly and concisely 🙂
Hey where's the love some of us are irritating yes but hey ho learn to love urself. I hate our depression such a horrible thing but I came here and there's a lot of good people about and it's helped me a lot. I'd say the worst thing about me is I can be cold when I just want space. Just being with the Mrs is enough sometimes and even a hug can overpower me. But u know what I'd move Fucking mountains to be with her and 90% of the time I'll do my best to do anything for her I like cooking her meals, having her head on my chest and putting 100% effort into doing my best with her. Don't hate urself dude learn to just love the good side we can't help the way we are sometimes.
I find it easier to disappear while I have my "moment" in an effort to minimize my own level of pain-in-the-@ $ $ ness.