Im a newbie hear ARE ALL CANCERS WACK 1

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by eastsidehair on Saturday, September 24, 2011 and has 14 replies.
Im gonna make this as short as possiable. met cancer in may 2011.... I had been attacked a year ago in august of 2010 so i had not gotten involved with anyone for that long.... Had no intentions of getting involved . but Cancer guy broke me down over a period of 3 months i finally gave in . he said all the right things. love you .. called almost 24 seven. up my ass non stop. then we had a little disagreement after hooking up. well he disapeared for 2 wks. i finally got in touch with him . he said he had a lot going on, so i said ok.... I explained to him what happened to me last yr. he said he understood. plus in the last three yrs MY FATHER GRANDFATERH DIED. THEN 2 YRS AGO MY MOTHER AND GRANDMOTHER DIES. LOST MY HOUSE. 2 BARBER SHOPS. I LOST EVERYTHING. And i kinda of new i was a walking time bomb. I told cancer guy i just want a friend i dont have it in me right now to love anyone. he kept at it . so i finally opened up... and over a period of weeks i started drinking alot. got drunk one night and all the poisen of the attack last yr came out. and he was the one I directed it to.. woke up nextday couldnt believe what i had done ... apologized over and over and over. so finall gave up on relationship. texted lets just be friends. i never heard a word for 6 wks... so i said to my self ok . enough focus on yourself get into counseling. and thats what i have been doing. one little problem he lives 2 houses down from my barber shop. so I have seen him 4 times. and each time he gives me this almost smirking big smile. not a real smile . i cant even describe it. but yesterday i went to corner store i didnt see him he started talking real loud to his friend to make sure i turned and looked at him. and when i looked he was giggling and smirking... what the fuck]] I get that everything that i said and did. wasnt right. im not right so i have left him alone. why why the smirking giggling grin from him..... i did everything possiable to make it right . but he ignored for 7 weeks. so why the almost hatred towards me . I dont understand . any ideas from anyone would help
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Posted by Maddy
Don't chase him, let him be. You apologized for whatever you said and it's up to him to suck it up be a man either forgive you or he can walk away.

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No i have given up and left him completly alone.... i just dont understand the big ass cheesy smiles and smirks and giggles . and his going out of his way to make sure i see this
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i think your life might be in danger
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gay?
are you a dude?
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Posted by eastsidehair
got drunk one night and all the poisen of the attack last yr came out. and he was the one I directed it to.. woke up nextday couldnt believe what i had done ... apologized over and over and over. so finall gave up on relationship. texted lets just be friends. i never heard a word for 6 wks...


seriously? you attacked this guy based on your past experience...
you blow him up with apologies but he hasn't responded to you since then..
yet, YOU continue to go two doors from his home...
where he probably gives you the smirk, smile cause you are practically stalking him and he may be a bit scared of you...
yet you ask if HE is whack?
go to another barber shop!
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
I thought the barber's shop was theirs ?


i thought the OP lost his own barber shop(s) but gets his hair cut at one that happens to be two houses away from the Cancer in question...
idk? please clarify OP
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Knock the smirk off his face ?


yup. not much smirking you can do with a swollen face
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Posted by eastsidehair
got drunk one night and all the poisen of the attack last yr came out. and he was the one I directed it to.. woke up nextday couldnt believe what i had done ... apologized over and over and over. so finall gave up on relationship. texted lets just be friends. i never heard a word for 6 wks...


seriously? you attacked this guy based on your past experience...
you blow him up with apologies but he hasn't responded to you since then..
yet, YOU continue to go two doors from his home...
where he probably gives you the smirk, smile cause you are practically stalking him and he may be a bit scared of you...
yet you ask if HE is whack?
go to another barber shop!
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ok
I was. Raped and beaten a yr ago and did not face it until that nite ehich i tild him this. And u i own that barbershop. And i don't stalk anyone these are chance run ins my barber ship id two houses away from my shop. I do everything pissable to stay clear he knows this so why the smirking and giggling. Iam a 46yr old d woman i own my shit. I needed help now I'm getting it. He doesn't want me fine but its not cool to. Laugh at someone trouble exspecialy somrone ur intimate with. I just don't get the looks he's a 50 yr old man were grown enough to just look away and move on
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Posted by shellshocker
Posted by everevolvingepithet
I thought the barber's shop was theirs ?


i thought the OP lost his own barber shop(s) but gets his hair cut at one that happens to be two houses away from the Cancer in question...
idk? please clarify OP
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its my barbershop. He lives in a apt two doors down from my shop. I had three shops lost 2 after my parents dire. Gott real depressef. This id my last one and I'm a womanytr
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Posted by caligula
gay?
are you a dude?

I'm a woman barber he's a man
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Sorry to hear what you've been through, good to here you're getting help with it though.
I'd just cut him out or get someone to smack him if that's his attitude and reasoning for his actions tbh.

thank u for your kind words. I'm just amazed at the meaness from someone i cared about. But this to shall pass I'm not going to let anyone take me down. Enough shit already
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confusing...
It is terrible what you went through and I'm sorry it happened. The way this guy pursued you, even though he knew your story sounds like he may be a bit of a emo vampire? you know, likes to get all wrapped up in deep traumatic stuff. He may just be getting joy out of messing with your head with all the laughing and smirks. Some people like to take pleasure from other's pain.
What do you want from him, forgiveness for your misdirected anger? Kindness and consideration for your situation? Idk if that will happen...
The thing about forgiveness is it has to be given on its own accord. No amount of apologizing or sorry will get it from him. The best thing you can do is I hold your head high and pretend like he doesn't exist. You're getting therapy to heal, you've apologized and it is now out of your hands. screw him
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Posted by shellshocker
confusing...
It is terrible what you went through and I'm sorry it happened. The way this guy pursued you, even though he knew your story sounds like he may be a bit of a emo vampire? you know, likes to get all wrapped up in deep traumatic stuff. He may just be getting joy out of messing with your head with all the laughing and smirks. Some people like to take pleasure from other's pain.
What do you want from him, forgiveness for your misdirected anger? Kindness and consideration for your situation? Idk if that will happen...
The thing about forgiveness is it has to be given on its own accord. No amount of apologizing or sorry will get it from him. The best thing you can do is I hold your head high and pretend like he doesn't exist. You're getting therapy to heal, you've apologized and it is now out of your hands. screw him


thank u
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counds really immature just leave him alone and forget about him
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