im seriously considering...

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by JJ141214 on Tuesday, January 20, 2015 and has 4 replies.
Ok ....here we go...I have this other Cancer ' friend' who is a cutie... I think he is really interested in me..... his eyes light up eveytime he speaks to me .....wont try to kiss or suggest sex.... gets really shy around me and I asked him out for a date (flats out) he said yes..... reason for this madness.... the cancer man I'm really crazy in love with is playing too many emotional games ....it hurts.... I not sure anymore which way are we heading with the I love U ...silence.....I miss you .silence....and I thought of having a plan b .to distract me from the pain.... thoughts on this....I'm not trying to play with cancer b feelings ....as I'm open to whatever may happen... and Cancer b already knows about cancer a and tells me he is a d@#ck....but cancer A will never know about Cancer B ....
I think it'll be good for you but if you're crazy in love it might actually do more harm than good. If cancer b doesn't meet up to the standards, feelings or good times of cancer a then you will feel more alone and more pain and more frustration. Plus you might end up hurting cancer b. And what if cancer a really does love you and want you then finds out about cancer b then decides to cut you off for good?Either stop talking to people and give yourself time to heal, cut cancer a off and get closure from that, or explain what's going on to cancer a and see what you two can work out between the two of you and try to aim higher.
I rather be all over the place than have a cancer fxxck with my head .... I REFUSE .... TO GO DOWN... in agony....I refuse ....lol
Posted by Zatte
Do what you have to do I guess.


I will agree, although, make sure you are not planning on EVER look back to the other cancer guy you where with... it is not fair for the 3rd party to be used, and then disposed because you still have open business with another person...