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Mar 24, 2006Comments: 163 · Posts: 6615 · Topics: 326
If someone has left you due to an argument, will you be the one to make contact first? Also, They say you are homely and will not disrupt your home life but is there an exception to this rule?
Just curious on your take of cancers...
Mine came back less than 2 weeks of disappearance, but I haven't return his message yet.
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Mar 10, 2012Comments: 136 · Posts: 9227 · Topics: 154
They all come back at some point.
The question is do you want them back?
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I've never dated cancer men...and the signs DO play out very differently between the genders...so I can't help you there. For me, I've never returned to an ex. My thing is I hold on way too long to a dead relationship but once I get the courage to leave, there's no going back. I left an abusive relationship over a year ago and at the very end my my gemini ex started listening to me and wanting to work things out, I told him it was 2 years too late for that conversation. I had been telling him about our problems until I "checked out" and then I went deadly silent and the "handwriting was on the wall."
Don't know if this will help but this is my sense of breaking then making up. If it happens once, you might be able to patch things up. I know lots of people who broke up. Took that time to re-evaluate their lives & what they wanted. And then decided they really did want that relationship. They got back and stayed together. This happened with my mom after my dad passed on. She met a nice man. They broke up briefly after a year and then he came back and stayed back.
If it's more than once, it's too unstable and best to move on.
Hope this helps. Good luck. And don't chase after him. Let him go. If he's yours. He'll scuttle back. If not. You prolly deserved better than a whiney mama's boy! Oh no she DIDN'T! Sorry but cancer men aren't my thing but good luck.