in love wit a triple cancer dude..

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mpressjupita
@mpressjupita
12 Years

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haha its funny to come here and discover that the cancer man confusion is not exclusive to me!!

i love this man very much... i am a cap woman with an aries moon and scorp rising, so i am very independent and picky and he is the first man i have really let into my world... he has a cancer moon, gemini rising and also a mercury in cancer.

it has been serious for awhile now... he diligently pursued me for a year tho i was seeing other people... then january of this year i started exploring the possibility of a relationship with him... things got hot and heavy and we decided on exclusivity at the end of may. it has been passionate and genuine and supportive and my dream come true.

and SUDDENLY, he is 'sleeping through' dates, blowing me off, not following through on things he said he would do, too busy to hang when i try to make plans, blatantly ignoring my requests for him to text instead of call (been trying to recultivate some authenticity), and teasing me in regards to love making.

is he hitting a stage where he is testing how much i want to be with him? or did he just like the chase of making an extremely independent girl fall for him and now he could care less? does it sound like he is hurt about something and doesnt know how to tell me? or that he has moved on and doesnt know how to say it? really - WTF?
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mpressjupita
@mpressjupita
12 Years

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all i wanna do is have wild passionate sex all day (note aries moon n scorpio rising) and we were until recently, where it feels like he is talking about it but keeping it out of my reach.

did i come on too strong with sex?

and there is no excuse for treating me disrespectfully.. if he needs space he can say it, and if he finds me too demanding he can say it! otherwise it feels like mindgames.

but tell me more about your cancerman-capwoman experience
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Sunnyscorp
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Oh my!!! I have dated a few cancers and the one I'm with right now is the same way. I find that the more I ignore him and act like I have a lot going on... The more he wants to see me. I also find that calling him out on his bull makes him think about his behavior and not repeat it. It has been 7 months of confusion, but when we are together the chemistry is unreal.
I bet if you mirror his behavior it will make him turn around. It has worked with my cancer.

I do know that cancers have a hard time getting out of relationships when they are done. You should talk to him honestly and express your needs. If he cared he will try to make you happy... If not then move on!!!