in MAJOR need of some help with cancer girl!!..

Wow, I have a similar situation with a Cap guy. I think she is scared or doesn't know how you feel, in which case you should slowly build that foundation of friendship, but slowly is a key word. You have to work for her trust.

not exactly. in the past (6 months ago) we said we were both not looking for a relationship, which was true. she was more adamant about it. a month ago she told me she trusts me and i'm the only one she really trusts. i know how u cancer's like security and she even told me one day when we were hanging out.."it's weird but i kinda feel safe with you" she knows im stable and i said stability is bad but she's like no what you have is good, stability is good. she even tells me about what other guys say when they text her cuz i was getting a little jealous. but at the same time lately shes ignored some of my texts and well i kinda have changed my view on the relationship thing but im afraid to bring anything up cuz i dont want to scare her away. we're already such close friends, closer than with anyone else for sure. not sure how to bring it up. what attracts a cancerian to a cap? ill tell you i loove how adorable you guys are and how sweet and innocent you are. always taking care of ppl and now i want to take care of her so bad type thing lol

As a cap, you should be able to attract her by being there for her, which it seems you already have. Capricorn guys to most of us are the near perfect guy for us, also depending on the other signs on both charts. Everyone one is different, but to me it seems like the ball is in her court, she is probably bouncing the idea of you two back and forth daily. The best thing for you to do now(my opinion) is to wait for her and continue to build something. Us cancers are also known for saying things to get a reaction, testing the limits, so it sounds like when she is telling you about the other guys, she is observing how much you care. I also think that if she starts to get too comfortable with you waiting on the side, you should be straight up with her and tell her what you feel. She may have changed her views on relationships also, but is too afraid you will run, because that's what is natural for many guys,(normal for caps too). And if she has the same feelings for you, she should be turned on by you stepping up and being the initiator. Cancers are not initiative, we are better to sustainers.

I honestly think she is scared though. We like to take our time and worry about everything, past,present and future.

I am a Cancer man and I feel you bro. Being a Cancer aint easy for the one who is and the one who is a Cancer and the one trying to understand. It is this fear of not having a certain longevity that is always looming in my mind with anyone, a Cancer thing. Which is odd to have because life is always changing. I would recommend keep on "keepin on" but if she keeps pushing you away you may be in for the long haul to failure. You sound like a cool dude and probably are a catch, but Cancers and their whole "being led by emotions" gig is a tricky thing. Taurens have the trick usually, I don't necessarily understand why other than they are just super sweet and set in their ways which proveides for a nice secure predictability. Most Capricorns I meet I have a hard time "feeling" which makes me wonder what they are thinking or causes me to not feel foundation under my emotional feet. I have seen a Cancer man and Capricorn wife that were Uber happy so who knows. I will tell you one thing, if it happens I hope you can handle a constant stream of inscure energy that wont let up. We are intense lovers and super giving, but have an abundance of insecure energies that only get stronger in a relationship.

It sounds like a super cute friendship. And this can lead to a great love story! You offer her stability and trust, two important things. Maybe you just need a little more time next to her to figure out what she feels about you.

How would she react if you would just hold her hand and nothing else or play with her hair for a second or two. Body language can help a lot in expressing your feelings without being "over caring" by words and text messages.