Intuitive?

I heard Cancers are highly intuitive. And they "know" people? Ive known them/you to never be surprised at someone's actions. It's like Cancerians can read people and automatically guess their intentions.

But can they determine and guess if someone has feelings for them? Even though it's hardly shown. I'm a Leo woman. He's a Cancer.

BUT I've refrained from being too upfront. I'm also very good at suppressing things because I used to be very bold and direct. I'm calming down these days. And I just want to be respectful to this crab.

He's special to me, but I've never given a sure answer that I'm feelin him.

I just didn't know if they ever sense that someone is into them, with even the slightest hints? Are some things just obvious to you Cancerian people?

Hi., I cant help you but I hope you find your answers.

Posted by alynland
I heard Cancers are highly intuitive. And they "know" people? Ive known them/you to never be surprised at someone's actions. It's like Cancerians can read people and automatically guess their intentions.

But can they determine and guess if someone has feelings for them? Even though it's hardly shown. I'm a Leo woman. He's a Cancer.

BUT I've refrained from being too upfront. I'm also very good at suppressing things because I used to be very bold and direct. I'm calming down these days. And I just want to be respectful to this crab.

He's special to me, but I've never given a sure answer that I'm feelin him.

I just didn't know if they ever sense that someone is into them, with even the slightest hints? Are some things just obvious to you Cancerian people?

Almost always... and I can tell how much a guy is into another girl usually. We look at non-verbal, tone, body language it's a big picture thing and pay attention to the little things that confirm our suspicions.

They are typically 'people smart' and emotionally intelligent. They are intuitive, but they can also be very good at reading body language. It isn't some kind of supernatural ability anymore than how someone can immediately pick up difficult math, or an instrument, or sport. All signs can do this, but crabs just seem to be the elite when it comes to it.

As for personal intimate feelings towards them, this seems to be a blind spot in their otherworldly emotional insight. But fear of rejection also plays a big part. This fear can be so overwhelming that a person into them can be known by everyone except the damn crab.

The first part is true for me. I can see people coming a mile away. Sometimes I choose to act against my better judgement because I don't wanna kill hope that someone could rise above their primary insecurity (which is what i see when i see someone -- not what they show, but what theyre trying to hide by showing what they show) but that never works...people are consumed by their insecurity and it ruins their lives.

But back to love. I have a blindspot when it comes to figuring out if someone likes me. I'm never really sure. I think:

"Do they like me or they just being nice?"

I've noticed recently however that when someone does like me like *that*, I'll start to react (get very moody) around them. In psychology its called reaction formation (I do the opposite). I remember my crush would next to me on the couch and I would move to the farthest chair in the room, and once we had to share a bed, and I slept right on the edge, in the fetal position with my shoes on like a nerd. I also start being a little rude and dismissive when I'm around them. I don't plan all or any of this, it just happens (its almist like when someone likes me, it triggers this programme in my brain that im unaware of) and I think I do it in order to see if they will be brave and show strength of character by sticking with their amorous feelings for me despite my behaviour. If they pull away, I feel like I averted potential future heartbreak, and I can move on. If they keep interest, then I wait for the Escalation (a direct move).

Posted by charliemanner
The first part is true for me. I can see people coming a mile away. Sometimes I choose to act against my better judgement because I don't wanna kill hope that someone could rise above their primary insecurity (which is what i see when i see someone -- not what they show, but what theyre trying to hide by showing what they show) but that never works...people are consumed by their insecurity and it ruins their lives.

But back to love. I have a blindspot when it comes to figuring out if someone likes me. I'm never really sure. I think:

"Do they like me or they just being nice?"

I've noticed recently however that when someone does like me like *that*, I'll start to react (get very moody) around them. In psychology its called reaction formation (I do the opposite). I remember my crush would next to me on the couch and I would move to the farthest chair in the room, and once we had to share a bed, and I slept right on the edge, in the fetal position with my shoes on like a nerd. I also start being a little rude and dismissive when I'm around them. I don't plan all or any of this, it just happens (its almist like when someone likes me, it triggers this programme in my brain that im unaware of) and I think I do it in order to see if they will be brave and show strength of character by sticking with their amorous feelings for me despite my behaviour. If they pull away, I feel like I averted potential future heartbreak, and I can move on. If they keep interest, then I wait for the Escalation (a direct move).

That literally describes me full heartedly! It's like I can tell whether or not a person is seriously into me, then I will really push them to see if they are someone worthy of all the emotions,dedication,time,and money I'm about to invest in them!

As for the intuition things I usually could always figure anyone's intentions out but at one point I just could only hope for a change in their personality. Never happened though always right and let down. We tend to be more in touch with our emotions because for 1. We are water signs and 2. We observe everything from the safety of our crab shells and gather our intellect and store it for later use to analyze 'intuition' how other people may act.

We are literally like the same person!