Is he really done??

So long story short a guy I've known for about a year and a half has just gotten out of jail coming back to online reality him and I play. he's a Cancer *rolls eyes* Not knowing this he used to joke around about his zodiac all the time. me being an Aries very impulsive, pushy, and outgoing, while him on the other hand not the complete regular cancer, very loud obnoxious rude to others I describe him as Kanye to everyone else but nice to me haha. recently entering the relationship he was nice in the beginning very sweet called me everyday texted me, was always around me, but as time progressed we'd argue a lot because of him accusing me of cheating and always talking to a guy he didn't like! Now he would joke around with a girl that he dated in the past and it made me hesitant and he would just brush it off saying he didn't care for her. him always telling me he loves me and cares for me and misses me and wishes I was there for him in real life. He likes to be babied meaning coddled, have things pushed under the rug for him. he blames me ALOT in every fight we have literally. He even has people "watching me" because of an ex that cheated on him in the past it is not completely weird to me! getting the point he'll usually say things like "I'm tired of dealing with its either you love me or you don't" soi suggested we take a break and finally he was open to it! so now we are on a break but he keeps coming back every 2 days with some excuse trying to " budget" his head in to check on me constantly! he says things like "let me be a man" so i don't know what to do any longer I've grown tired of the chasing games so today I cut him off telling him either you end the break and work it out or we just keep going! he responded with "if you want to fuck around then go ahead" another test ladies and gentlemen! he always is testing me, he'll tell me things like " I'm not your counseler| if I tell him my problems,in the past, he's brought up I don't care about his feelings when in reality I DO!

Now reading every other post on this topic seeing how cancers get really distant he is the complete opposite he actually told me I remind him of his mother time and time again, he fantasizes about me , and gets off to my pictures and things of that sort kind of obsessive! I don't know what to do and my hands are tied I would love any advice on how to play this!

RUN FOR THE HILLS!!! My sister (Aries) married and divorced her ex-husband (Cancer). He was VERY possessive at the beginning of the relationship. My sister, the airhead, would be at his beck and call. He controlled her. Told her not to get fat and she'd watch her weight. Eventually, he was afraid of her bitching and he spoiled her; so she took advantage of everything he gave her (materialistic). He cheated on her. She FINALLY divorced him. Cancerian men are just like that (manipulative and jealous). Is this love? You shouldn't be treated like this. Cancerian men are also "moody". When they get depressed you can feel it/see it on them. When they are hurt, they crawl back into their shells and all you see are their beady eyes sticking out (cautions to even come outta their shells). Haven't you completed high school where you took your last test? You're not in school anymore, little one. Stop having this guy "test you". Sever the relationship for good! You're a strong Aries woman; just like my sister. Drop him.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

What did he do to get thrown in jail?

Seems like a toxic relationship. Not one I'd ever want to be in. Go on, meet a gentleman somewhere else.

Posted by EvatheDiva
RUN FOR THE HILLS!!! My sister (Aries) married and divorced her ex-husband (Cancer). He was VERY possessive at the beginning of the relationship. My sister, the airhead, would be at his beck and call. He controlled her. Told her not to get fat and she'd watch her weight. Eventually, he was afraid of her bitching and he spoiled her; so she took advantage of everything he gave her (materialistic). He cheated on her. She FINALLY divorced him. Cancerian men are just like that (manipulative and jealous). Is this love? You shouldn't be treated like this. Cancerian men are also "moody". When they get depressed you can feel it/see it on them. When they are hurt, they crawl back into their shells and all you see are their beady eyes sticking out (cautions to even come outta their shells). Haven't you completed high school where you took your last test? You're not in school anymore, little one. Stop having this guy "test you". Sever the relationship for good! You're a strong Aries woman; just like my sister. Drop him.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Thanks! after reading this i feel that he is very manipulative and very wishy washy, sometimes happy and sometimes with a temper! very possessive as well and yes so true about the crawling back into there shells seen this way too often with him, its like he is a completely different person from when we met! and yes haha tests are no fun its over with now! im just scared he will pop back into my life SOMEHOW

Posted by aquanib
Coming back to online reality him and I play.

A snapshot of current times.

huh?

Thanks! after reading this i feel that he is very manipulative and very wishy washy, sometimes happy and sometimes with a temper! very possessive as well and yes so true about the crawling back into there shells seen this way too often with him, its like he is a completely different person from when we met! and yes haha tests are no fun its over with now! im just scared he will pop back into my life SOMEHOW



Well, he won't "pop" back into your life unless you put a stop to it! When I broke off the relationship w/the Sagg ex-bf I blocked him on FB, my phone, and when I went back to POF, he was there! He sent me a message and I blocked him on POF, too! Outta site, outta mind! 😡

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva