First and foremost I havent seen him once since my trip which was two weeks ago and he only contacted me to say whats up but never once asked me to hang and was acting strange like he became distant and not attentive which is such a 180 because prior to my trip he was acting lovey dovey and it felt PERFECT
I decided to ask him to hang out but he never responded
So I got really sad I'm a sensitive soul and couldnt take the distance anymore
I decided to text him this last night:
For the past two weeks since my vacation i haven't seen you once and honestly it would be nice to know your perception on this relationship if you are not going to put any effort than i dont see us continuing on and if you feel you dont want to be together than i much rather you end it so i can move forward
he hasnt replied yet and its been a day
is it over?
jynja I'm sorry I am very new to this
backstory: we have been seeing each other (not official) for about 4 months
In the beginning things were I know nothing is perfect but it sure felt like it than he did the famous cancer man dissappering act but surely we communicated and things were back on track and better than ever and than I went on vacation came back and he dissappered yet again and idk this time it felt different since he wasn't up to par to hang out thus I sent him that message which he has yet to reply to i'm not sure if that is his way of saying goodbye so it hurts cause I just need clarification for closesure purposes
I don't know my natal chart but my birthday is Feb. 28th as for him his birthday is July 19th
i sure hope he isn't done I truly did develop a liking to him
i'm going to just be patient. but how long is too long to be?just in your perspective