him. Many of you are familiar with my story. Cancer man and I had issues last xmas, he pulled away, I felt rejected so I pulled away and went NC. Two weeks later he begins to contact me daily, just saying hello and checking on me. Of course my feelings were hurt but I responded to all his calls but kept my messages brief, void of emotions. this has gone on now for 3 months, him calling me, texting every other day. We haven't seen one another because we're 2 hours apart and live very hectic life style s. Last month he began to talk like the guy I fell for. Telling me how much he missed me and he even told me the reason he pulled away was because he was falling in love with me. I still don't understand his logic. When I'm in love I want to be closer to my object of affection. Says that he needs me in his life and I need him and a host of other things. Jan. and Feb. his messages were dry but all of a sudden it's like a flood of emotions just poured out of him. He's expressed a strong desire to see me, but I cancelled our last meeting because I am so afraid he'll push me away again and I can't deal with that pain. I know I need to give in a little to see where this is going, but I so scared. The last time we were together we had an amazing time and after that he became distant and of course his behavior floored me because I didn't know why. When I asked questions, he'd become agitated and became more distant, so I don't want to go there again. He has not allowed a week to pass without calling me 2-3 times a week, but I don't call him anymore. He's let me know in his own way that he'd like to get a "hello" sometime from me too, but I don't call. I'm stuck! As I stated, we were set to see each other last week and I cancelled and I haven't heard from him since. I wonder if he's giving up, I don't know, but he's the reason we're on this page, but I know I have to give him something to work with. Obviously, he's still interested because he has consistently contacted me for 3 months....What do you think I should do?
