is it true—

Is it true that most of cancer guys come back to their girls after a long time without any contact. And how girls react when ur cancer guys come back —
Plz tell me ur experience...Thanks

they are as surprised to talk to me as they were when i disappeared.... but not all the times. i just come back to check if she still gives a damn about me..and if shes cold..i disappear again! :/ past relationship could never be rekindled by me yet....

From experience, Cancers tend to go else where to see you are the right one or not.. But their departure can be long and drawn out and almost pathetic if your at the waiting end. It's best to move on until your Cancer decides to pop back in your life. By then you may of made your decision.

This is in the words of a past member (a Crab) who has since left, on the topic of 'Crabs and moving on' -


We cancers feel a lot, and we like that.
Our feelings are bookmarks to our memories and our memories are literally a catalog of feelings.
We are natural hoarders, we hoard our feelings, because we love feelings and that's why we tend to have great memories. We just remember how we felt in a specific moment in time and that's all we really need, really.

It gets messy when it comes to past relationships.
Because we feel so much and the feelings-memory association dilemma.

Basically, we will always have those memories and feelings, we can't get rid of them even if we wanted to.
but it doesn't mean we will always give those feelings/memories the same value that we once did.

One day, your friend will wake up and acknowledge that she does have feelings to past ex and acknowledge the irrelevance of those feelings. That's when she would have moved on, according to cancers.


Have any of you cancers ever not been able to let go?
No.

Even though you don't want or are in love with an ex, you still aren't/weren't over them/the relationship?
I think every cancer needs to be single for a very long time post break up. Roughly half the time of the entire relationship (If the relationship was a year, they need to be single for 6 months and so on)

Were you able to move past if, if so, how did you? What helped you?
Intellectualizing the relationship, understanding what actually happened and time, lots of time.


(I hope that helps somewhat in response to your OP)

In case you had forgotten to read this, since it seems likely the case from the thread in which you had created on the Relationship and Astrology Board.

Please read again, for your own sake.