Is this normal?

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Gemini.its.true.
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Okay, so there is this cancer guy that I've had a thing with many different times.
We'll get really close and become 'best friends' for a couple months, then hang out alot and then we'll end up having a thing for awhile, then we'll separate for about five months and do the same cycle over again. we've done it about four or five times now and now we're at the 'best friend' stage again. Whats going on in his head? is this normal? you cancerian men are so darn confusing. :p I'm a taurus-gemini cusp by the way.
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i dunno. this might be a guy thing. i had the same exact cycle with a cap man. we wouldn't go for 5 months at a time though. it would only be a month or 2 but every single time, without fail, we'd get super close then he'd sort of disappear for a little while. he did the whole hot and cold thing so i cut it off. he had a gf anyway which i think is why he was doing that. we'd lose ourselves in each other for a while then he'd remember he was attached and try to pull away. he ALWAYS came back to me though. no, there was no cheating involved for i don't condone nor enable it but we would just be attached to each other. i had to cut him off in the end because it was too much for me emotionally. i couldn't handle the constant push and pull between us. i wanted us to be friends but it was obvious neither of us could deal with our feelings properly. that was one of the hardest things i ever had to do but it was for the best. maybe it would be best for u if ur feeling the same way. we have to protect ourselves first.