Is this scorpio man playing with this cancer?

Hi guys I'm new and confused about a scorpio man who's driving me nuts. This is gunna be a long one:
I'm in toronto and he's from Bermuda but he's studying in Toronto.
At the time I met him on one of those websites where you connect with old friends and connect with new ones. I saw his pic on a friend of mine's list so i commented on it (good looks) and he msged me back. Anyway we added each other to msn messenger and chatted for a few days. He was in Bermuda (his home -visiting- he had took a semester off). This was in June 2006.

In conversation I learned that I had ended my relationship with my ex and he with his around the same time (he in late december 2005 and I in early january 2006)- He ended up tellin me what happened with her and how she hurt him - said he wanted to be honest with me. she got preggers, then realised she didn't want the child and went out one night got drunk and had a miscarriage - i know that's sick- what an evil bitch! anyway he said he really wanted the kid. that's y he took the semester off.

he had to come to toronto for a wk to settle things for the new semester and said we'd spend the whole wk together (since all his friends were away for summer- he had no one here)- things changed when his best friend also bermudian ended up cuttin his trip short in cuba and ended up in toronto- staying with my scorpio crush - for that week i only saw him like 3 times - the first day he came in to toronto- the second time i picked him and his best friend up and we went to a bar and the third time to say goodbye. the sexual attraction was strong n we did do the dirty deed the first two times we saw each other (i kno i'm a bad girl) but wow scorpios are really into the cuddly stuff like cancers- anyway even durin his trip we were arguin but for some reason we still ended up apologising to each other. we seem to really know how to piss each other off.

here's another thing, on the friday my friends n i went to a club- as i was walkin in - who do i almost literally walkn into on his way rushing out? HIM and walkin out was his ex (at the time he had no idea i knew who she was)- i was so hurt and shocked- it was too quick to react -I mean there are soo many clubs in toronto- what r the odds of me bumpin into HIM - i've never bumped into anyone i know at a club-jus weird we showed up at the same club

so the next day he calls n i was like "so how come u were leaving?" he said he was rushin after his best friend. i asked who else he had gone to the club wit i was surprised he was being honest when he said his ex. (here's my confession - i have absolutely no feelings for my ex but he and i still hang out sometimes mostly with other friends- suprisingly i'm friends with him)- anyway i asked if they slept together - he said "yes" but only on the same bed - he said nothing happened - they were too busy arguing. i was a little annoyed either way.
so i visited him saturday to say goodbye- he was leavin on sunday - did i mention scorpio love to play games - he pretended he was mad at me.

anyway so we went into the bedroom and had some alone time (there was no sex)- we jus talked and bed wrestled- lol -we talked n he told me that he was confused bout everything (i'd like to mention that all along i had been tellin him this - he's so transparent sometimes)he said his ex said she didn't want a relationship with him but jus sex and he didn't want that - she's a sag by the way. anyway i figured ok i'm glad he's being honest so i said my goodbye- n i noticed he had tried to avoid kissin me. but b4 i left i got him to gimme a real one 😉.

ok so that's bout it - he's back in bermuda but he still calls me - one night he called me and asked me which man's house i was at - "i was like are you crazy"? see the thing wit me is that i get really aggressive wit him - i stand up to him i don't let him talk to me any way he likes- but it's weird how his mood changes - his calls are usually short - he calls n we talk for 5 or 10 minutes and den he says he's goin to bed -even when i call which has been few he cuts it short - always some excuse-

why does he seem interested and not interested all at the same time - i emailed him the other day and told him i don't wanna play his mind games and reminded him that i don't play wit his mind- then the night before i turned my phone off -jus cus i had a feelin he'd call - then las

Although,im female,I agree with DB.Seems like he likes you but the "ex" is causing a not free status for him yet.He won't be able to give you what you want until the rest of it is taken care of...depends on if you want to risk being patient and be open to getting hurt by dumb possibilities or just call it off or just change your "idea" to him being someone to have fun with or whatever,just don't get your emotional hopes up yet is my only advice...doesn't seem like its a game,just a messy situation between a bitch who he loved and nice,buddy type girl he only likes right now :S

thanks alot for ur input -

here's an update: about 2 nights ago out of frustration i called his cell n left a msg - saying i was tired of playin his games and told him to jus delete me phone number and jus to stop calling me. i regretted it a few days later.

yesterday he was online - i msg him - he said i shouldn't be talkin to him because i told him to leave me alone - i explained that i was extremely pissed n that's y i left the msg - anyway we argued a little - he said i wasn't interested - i told him i wouldn't be tryin to talk to him if i was - he said i was kickin him outta my life -(which i wasn't since i was still tryin to talk to him) -so i told him to jus let me know right now if i should move on - cus when i make up my mind to move on i don't look back. anyway he said he can't handle me n i piss him off - so to make things short - we said our goodbyes - i told him that i hope he would have a good life and that was it.

so right now i'm goin to try my best to jus move on n do what's best for me - if i only hold on then i'll end up hurting myself - i don't want to be in the middle of him and his ex's drama - i need a free man - anymore advice would help - i like to hear ppl's opinions

-cancer12

great move, in time you'll be fine and you deserve more then that =)

I really hate feelings - guess what? He called last night - early thing time to apologise - i aopologised as well. does this mean that's he really sorry?
I mean i'm confused because i know they tend to avoid ppl they really interested in. i told him i was really sorry n he said he was too - i said i was jus very angry n he said he was too - then he said he'd call me later - told him "ok but don't call too late" - told him i'd be expecting his call - he never called back.

now i'm fighting how i feel for what is best for me - maybe i will jus take it slow - one day at a time - i dunno what r ur opinions———?

thanx so much for ur input - it's really appreciated

-cancer12

Well I can tell you I'm a scorpio, and I don't apologize unless I mean it. He probably
didn't call because it must've got to be too late... It would be a great idea to take it slow, slow and steady is always the better bet when your considering someone seriously...
there's my two cents 😉
Storm

keep em comin u scorps - it gives me peace of mind when my imagination isn't running wild - thanx