It all makes sense now...

So I did some digging and I found out something about my Cancer bf (you know, the one I've posted a ton of stuff about on here). I found out that he's Cancer sun and Sagittarius moon. That explains virtually everything - doesn't it?

The whole "not wanting to get married, want my freedom, not sure about living together, don't want you to meet my family" stuff. Sag moons are all about being uncommitted to anything and anyone. They think you're sufforcating them when you ask where they're going out with their friends. They've got a "Well, I'm doing this, and if you want to do it too that's cool, and if not, well, I'll see you later" kind of attitude towards their loved ones. Everyone is on a need-to-know basis, and for most people, they don't need to know (ie/ my guy's family about me).

So that's where we're at. Now, I know you're going to say "well there's real life when it comes to love too - not just astrology," which is true, but I believe in astrology and I can only think of the internal struggle my guy must go through being a Cancer sun and a Sag moon. Stability or freedom? Emotions or coldness? Stay or go? He dated someone for 5 years and one day was like "Oh, I got a job in another city and I'm moving - so are you coming? No? Ok, well, it was nice knowing you..." I have it hanging over my head that the same thing is inevitably going to happen to me if I invest too heavily in this and I'll get heartbroken (Ugh, I've got the worst abandonment issues ever).

And I can't tell if I'm freaked out because I'm some spoiled brat who has a temper tantrum when she doesn't get what she wants, or if I'm genuinely immersed in something where the other half will always be blunt and (for lack of a better word) inconsiderate when it comes to situations like these. 9 times out of 10 everything is amazing and he's totally loving - but it's that one time that kills me.

Anyone got any thoughts on this?

Here's our brief chart, btw... Someone on Yahoo! Answers told me we're totally compatible.

Me: Pisces sun, Aquarius Moon, Pisces Venus, Pisces rising
Him: Cancer sun, Sagittarius moon, Gemini Venus, ? rising

"The whole "not wanting to get married, want my freedom, not sure about living together, don't want you to meet my family" stuff. Sag moons are all about being uncommitted to anything and anyone. They think you're sufforcating them when you ask where they're going out with their friends. They've got a "Well, I'm doing this, and if you want to do it too that's cool, and if not, well, I'll see you later" kind of attitude towards their loved ones. Everyone is on a need-to-know basis, and for most people, they don't need to know (ie/ my guy's family about me). " Yeah that is the sag way of thinking. Having a gem venus probably also makes him even more detached and a cancer sun makes him changeable hmmm I dunno.

As a cancerian with saggy rising and a gemini moon, I like security and freedom.
I want a safe, secure place to come home to when I'm tired but not somewhere that restricts or controls me.

The trick with me (and other Gems and Saggys I believe) is that the more freedom you give me the less I want. If someone clings too tightly and I feel restricted then I'll find ways of feeling like I have more freedom, I fight against the restriction by doing what I want, when I want.
But if someone trusts me and lets me have things that are just mine and doesn't question or control me all the time, then I'll enjoy their company and feel they understand me - so I'll spend more time with them and do things for them.

I don't need or want freedom from people who make me feel free.

u forgot aquas. i dunno though. i'm a leo and that's exactly how i am.