Just another follow up.

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by heliumfiasco on Saturday, April 1, 2017 and has 7 replies.
So, this dude really unblocked me today to ask if he would see me at a friends party tonight, that he hoped so, and then sent me a picture of a truck he bought. I simply replied--

"Congrats on gaining some independence. I'm sure it makes you feel good. Proud of you. I gotta go, running 15 minutes late and I have no idea where this restaurant is. TTYL"

In actuality, I'm laying in bed eating almonds.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
i told you he'll come around, you're just annoying, as usual...i told you he's in his shell and dealing with whatever

give it time...

i think crabs should just date one another and leave the rest of ya'll alone.
Why you gotta call me annoying CC? Damn? Haha ?
Posted by heliumfiasco
So, this dude really unblocked me today to ask if he would see me at a friends party tonight, that he hoped so, and then sent me a picture of a truck he bought. I simply replied--

"Congrats on gaining some independence. I'm sure it makes you feel good. Proud of you. I gotta go, running 15 minutes late and I have no idea where this restaurant is. TTYL"

In actuality, I'm laying in bed eating almonds.
Weeeeeell done. Honestly you can do so much better than this guy. Prepare for him to start chasing you HARD though. If I had to guess, certain things in his life didn't play out the way he expected and now he's turning back your way. Don't encourage his behavior by letting him back into your good graces. Just be cordial and deflect his advances.

Expect him to say "I was thinking about you" and "You are the best" and "I realized that (insert innocuous cliched revelations about himself and your relationship)"
Almonds are the shiznit

But balls are better - be smart.
So, I went to the party. He was there and waved me down outside while he was having a cigarette. We had a light conversation, it was nice. But since he had been ignoring me and I didn't know what to do, I said " it was nice talking to you, I'm gonna head inside" and walked out. He called out for me as I was walking away, ran up to me and asked if I brought his stuff, and if so could we go to the car and get it. I said "no, sorry"... he politely said "ok". The rest of the night was awkward. We didn't speak again and I left early without saying bye.

On my way home I was tipsy and text him "it was nice seeing your lil Cancer face. I missed ya homie"... he never replied.

My friends said he got trashed and had to leave his car and be driven to a friends house. He doesn't really drink like EVER, so I was very surprised to hear that.

I didn't think seeing him would be so sad. But it was.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
You're so cruel

Poor crabby

But he deserves it

We self sabotage alot


Insecurity
I honestly didn't know what to do. You think that was cruel?
He left a few records and a sweat shirt at my house. I think he figured I'd have brought them? I did tell him before the next time I saw him I'd give it back. I honestly just forgot. He only asked as I was walking away. We talked for like 5 minutes about his car and our kids... just small talk. I could see pain on his face. I tried to be as cool as possible. Poker face.