Kryptonite

If we are kryptonite to Scorps, why? Or how so? Why not Pisces? Or Leos?

Which sign serves as kryptonite to us?

I thought so to until recently

Aries Men for Cancer women(for me in particular). Never dated one but I was intensely infatuated by one for 2years. It's over now though. I swear they don't give up the chase, aggressive when they want something and I love it.

lol nice touch

Posted by Kim31
I thought so to until recently

You are right, I'd rather date a boring Cap, Unemotional Aqua, Flaky Gemini than date a Pisces. When a Scorpio is in love..well..too intense. I love Scorpios though.

The reason I changed my mind is because of comments like that, Namy.

Why are cancers so against Pisces around here?

Why is Cancer/Scorpio stronger than Cancer/Pisces? Or is it just me?

I don't want Scorpio. I want Pisces. Personally, the Scorpio is bat shit crazy over me the way I am bat shit crazy over Pisces.

Water drama at the workplace is no fun by the way...

I think the reason Cancers and Pisces don't work out as well as Pisces/Scorpio or Cancer/Scorpio is because mutable and cardinal seem to go better with fixed than they do with each other.

Posted by Kim31
The reason I changed my mind is because of comments like that, Namy.

Why are cancers so against Pisces around here?

Why is Cancer/Scorpio stronger than Cancer/Pisces? Or is it just me?

I don't want Scorpio. I want Pisces. Personally, the Scorpio is bat shit crazy over me the way I am bat shit crazy over Pisces.

Kim, so since you are a cancer, you'd be comfortable with being the one who wears the pants in the relationship? Pisces men are a lot like cancer men. They are not leaders. You would be the one making the decisions in your relationship, completely managing the household, and since most Pisces men are total lazy procrastinators, you'd probably also be the breadwinner.
If that's what you're attracted to, then good luck!

Posted by MoonArtist
I think the reason Cancers and Pisces don't work out as well as Pisces/Scorpio or Cancer/Scorpio is because mutable and cardinal seem to go better with fixed than they do with each other.

Though scorpios are a water sign, they are very dominant, the men and women are. They are also natural leaders. Us cancers and Pisces need that type of dominance in our lives. Cancer/Pisces relationship is like the blind leading the blind lol

I don't think Cancers need leadership. In many ways we ARE the leadership. Cardinal energy is one that forces change, is an instigator. We help keep the fixed signs from getting too rooted, and they help ground us a little more. It's a balance.

Ahhh makes sense

Posted by MoonArtist
I don't think Cancers need leadership. In many ways we ARE the leadership. Cardinal energy is one that forces change, is an instigator. We help keep the fixed signs from getting too rooted, and they help ground us a little more. It's a balance.

I'm saying it wrong, not leadership but someone to keep us focused. Two dreamy people with their heads in the clouds isn't gonna work.

Do you mean Kryptonite in weakness or strength?

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Posted by MoonArtist
I don't think Cancers need leadership. In many ways we ARE the leadership. Cardinal energy is one that forces change, is an instigator. We help keep the fixed signs from getting too rooted, and they help ground us a little more. It's a balance.

I'm saying it wrong, not leadership but someone to keep us focused. Two dreamy people with their heads in the clouds isn't gonna work.

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Yes, exactly!

Posted by LunarMaiden
Do you mean Kryptonite in weakness or strength?

Both.

lol

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Posted by cancergoddess143
...Pisces men are a lot like cancer men. They are not leaders. You would be the one making the decisions in your relationship, completely managing the household, and since most Pisces men are total lazy procrastinators, you'd probably also be the breadwinner.

...Though scorpios are a water sign, they are very dominant, the men and women are. They are also natural leaders. Us cancers and Pisces need that type of dominance in our lives. Cancer/Pisces relationship is like the blind leading the blind lol

I've quoted you from two separate posts, for efficiency.

You are trolling.
This is rubbish.

I'd like to add, I've always been suspicious of women on internet forums who use the term 'goddess' or 'princess' in their usernames.

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Well make sure you get in line with the rest of the other niches who also don't like my name. And why on earth would u be trolling? I'm a cancer just like you are, this is a cancer thread that I am posting to... Get a life moon man. You're just upset about what I said and the fact that I never responded to the personal message you sent me. My bad 😛

My point is, cancer/cancer relationships don't work. It's my opinion. Don't like it, who cares?!?! 🙂

Niches = bitches

"I be trolling" lol damn iPhone auto-correct

pisces play too many mind games... waaayy too many. they dream about love but tend to be wishy washy.

As for cancer and cancer we love fucking each other...but beyond that meh who knows.

I have to agree Cancer Cancer not a good match, I have a Pisces friend she's attractive but there is something about her. It's not about sex appeal its something to do with the Pisces traits that doesn't excite me. I have two Pisces male friends they have the same traits I can't explain it.

I have two Leo friends, one of them her and I can talk she's down to earth I could have a relationship with her if she was single. The other one is shy around me its hard to get her to talk. I get a good vibe from Leo women the only thing would be can they handle Cancers mood swings. I find Leo women to be confident even a little intimidating but exciting.

So you said on the other thread.

Posted by PVandJellay
I hate to be the bearer of bad news but Scorpios are Cancer kryptonite, not the other way around. Pisces women tend to be Scorpio male kryptonite and Taurus men tend to be Scorpio female kryptonite. No other sign brings Scorpio to their knees worst than these two. If you spend any time on the Pisces or Taurus board you would see this.

Although I agree this thread is a bit arrogant for my liking and only Cancer women seem to make these threads not the Scorpio males. In fact the Scorpios on this site are not very fond of Crabs altogether.

However, is bringing a guy to his knees a sign of deep connection and commitment?
Most Scorpio males are married to in long term relationships to Cancer women. According to a study that has been posted here several times.
Furthermore, most Scorpio males who are married to Cancer women, flourish and enjoy a very long, deeply committed, sexual, productive, warm and loving relationship.

Eck! It was a question!

A why the eff question might. Thought it was humbling to ask for the truth. And to have the truth about our own weaknesses! Or did you people miss that part? Hmph.

The kryptonite comment Kim quoted was meant as a cheeky, bratty joke by me on another thread, but there is some truth to it. I'm just going by my own personal experience, as a Crab interacting with Scorpio men, and my observation has been that there's always a huge attraction from one side or the other, sometimes both, that the understanding is very mutual and easy, communication is easy, and comfortable, and that there are traits that are loved, and that can be annoying. Having a Scorpio friend spend 20 yrs never letting on that he had the raging hots for me (because I was married), and then letting me know within 2 months of me leaving my ex, in vivid detail, must count for something, and I still don't know how he found out that I had left my ex. There's others, but suffice to say that I've never had problems with Scorpio men.

How Pisces and Scorpios interact, I can't say, as I'm not a fish, or a scorpio. I imagine it's similar to Cancer and Scorpio, since the water/water thing is there. Why does anything to do with Cancers and Scorpios seem to irritate you so much, PV?

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How Pisces and Scorpios interact, I can't say, as I'm not a fish, or a scorpio. I imagine it's similar to Cancer and Scorpio, since the water/water thing is there. Why does anything to do with Cancers and Scorpios seem to irritate you so much, PV?

If you're insinuating that I'm some how jealous of the "special comnection" between Scorps and Cancers, you've definitely got the wrong fish. LOL. I'm not at all irritated, I mostly date earth signs. If crabs and Scorpios get together I'm happy for them. 🙂

I was just stating my opinion. Crabs seem to really love Scorps and sing their praises. The infatuation looks one sided though, on dxp atleast. So I pointed out that to me, it looks like Scorps are Cancer kryptonite, but not the other way around, because no other sign on dxp makes as many threads or posts praising Scorpios. Scorps , on the other hand, seem to obsessively make threads about Pisces and Taurus. That's all I was pointing out.

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No, I wasn't insinuating anything, it just seemed that you were targeting certain threads with certain opinions, so I was commenting on how it came across, as an irritation.

I haven't really seen that any of the dxp scorpios praise any one sign. They seem to sing the praises of whatever sign they happen to be involved with at the time. Rein has his fish, Rabbit has his virgo, Impulsv had a bull, etc. A few of the single guys have mentioned several signs they seem to prefer, some being cancers.

Posted by caster721
My Scorpio cousin bro just got engaged to a female Crab after a life long of being a player, getting women as easily as he can. He's smart, intelligent, hardworking, charismatic, a leader..... How he met her? At a party, he was tipsy/drunk...they danced together and he was picking up on her just like he gets any other girls. Did his charms but couldn't get to her. She only left him with her name lol! Told him if he will be up to his mind the next day, he should find her and maybe she would consider a proper date.

The next morning he woke'up his mates to help him find this girl on facebook. He narrowed the search down to 10s. He sent one message to all the possible candidates and made reservations at a great restaurant so that the right one would get the msg...... Anyways, long story short...a few months later, he flew her all the way to introduce her to the whole family. They are now engaged.

That's one of the sweetest things I've read in a while. Congrats to your cousin 😄

My very personal opinion...

Pisces are just tooooo dreamy for me. eek!
Scorpios toooo intense.
Honestly, If I were to choose, I'd rather date a another cancer.

I don't think water signs are for me. I gravitate towards fire and Earth.

I think my dream guy would be a Taurus, I can see that working. I've only dated a Gemini, Cap and now a Leo. Had something with a Scorpio but he was trying to control me( on the low). I can't be tamed unless I want to, so it ended.
My kryptonite ? I swear I don't know..lol...

Posted by Kim31
The reason I changed my mind is because of comments like that, Namy.

Why are cancers so against Pisces around here?

Why is Cancer/Scorpio stronger than Cancer/Pisces? Or is it just me?

I don't want Scorpio. I want Pisces. Personally, the Scorpio is bat shit crazy over me the way I am bat shit crazy over Pisces.

I do have the same question? I'm pisces, and the way we are describe in this forum is not a cool one... don't get me wrong, im fully aware there are some Pisces that i will love to stay away from, crazy as shit, some times i feel weird because I should get along with my own kind... but some of us are not that bad...

I hate drama although sometimes is unavoidable, some people use that drama thing to avoid being accountable for shit, " I don't want drama" meaning I don't want you to tell me when I suck...

any rays my krytonite are you guys, crabs and some scorpios too!! water water water....

Posted by PVandJellay

Posted by Arielle83
yes i agree....i attract heaps of pisces and aqua men.
And yes, I'm always interested in scorpios, but not pisces

Yeah that seems to be the nature of things:

Cancers are infatuated with Scorpios
Scorpios are infatuated with Pisces
Pisces are infatuated with Cancers

This way we all have a chance of being heart broken. 😆

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I now believe this is very true!

@FWP Well there's some pretty horrible people from all signs.
I've noticed with yours, there's a lot of hypocrisy, wishy washy foolishness, and lying. There's tons of impersonation too. Like pretending to be one way when you're really another. Or chasing different flavors of the month every month and not understanding why people don't take them seriously or get fed up.

The better Pisces would never do those things! Those seem to go under appreciated around this area of dxp. I for one love, love, love a fish and am very confident he wont disappoint.

Posted by Kim31
@FWP Well there's some pretty horrible people from all signs.
I've noticed with yours, there's a lot of hypocrisy, wishy washy foolishness, and lying. There's tons of impersonation too. Like pretending to be one way when you're really another. Or chasing different flavors of the month every month and not understanding why people don't take them seriously or get fed up.

SAD but all true, and that's the irony with me... that's why I don't get along with some Pisces they annoy me for those exact trails. something must be wrong with me because im fully loaded with pisces in my chart, and also I did my % and pisces where my highest.... so :/

Nothing wrong with you. Something wrong with them!

The quintessential Pisces loves truly. The shitty Pisces make a hobby out of it falling for every pretty face they see.

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Posted by Arielle83
yes i agree....i attract heaps of pisces and aqua men.
And yes, I'm always interested in scorpios, but not pisces

Yeah that seems to be the nature of things:

Cancers are infatuated with Scorpios
Scorpios are infatuated with Pisces
Pisces are infatuated with Cancers

This way we all have a chance of being heart broken. 😆

some how I felt you are looking for threesome 😄.

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Threesome? Holly shit... I can picture the scene... The sex addict, the closet freak and the pleaser... Explosive!!! Emotions pouring like crazy

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How Pisces and Scorpios interact, I can't say, as I'm not a fish, or a scorpio. I imagine it's similar to Cancer and Scorpio, since the water/water thing is there. Why does anything to do with Cancers and Scorpios seem to irritate you so much, PV?

If you're insinuating that I'm some how jealous of the "special comnection" between Scorps and Cancers, you've definitely got the wrong fish. LOL. I'm not at all irritated, I mostly date earth signs. If crabs and Scorpios get together I'm happy for them. 🙂

I was just stating my opinion. Crabs seem to really love Scorps and sing their praises. The infatuation looks one sided though, on dxp atleast. So I pointed out that to me, it looks like Scorps are Cancer kryptonite, but not the other way around, because no other sign on dxp makes as many threads or posts praising Scorpios. Scorps , on the other hand, seem to obsessively make threads about Pisces and Taurus. That's all I was pointing out.

No, I wasn't insinuating anything, it just seemed that you were targeting certain threads with certain opinions, so I was commenting on how it came across, as an irritation.

I haven't really seen that any of the dxp scorpios praise any one sign. They seem to sing the praises of whatever sign they happen to be involved with at the time. Rein has his fish, Rabbit has his virgo, Impulsv had a bull, etc. A few of the single guys have mentioned several signs they seem to prefer, some being cancers.

Targeting? I commented on only two threads about Cancer/Scorpio, but that's only cause she made the same thread twice. I honestly think Cancer/Scorpio is a better long term match than Pisces/Scorp or Cancer/Scorp. I'm pro this pairing. Yes the Scorps on the board have relationships of people of all different signs. I was just stating what I noticed in my observation with Scorps in general.

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True, she did make the same thread on both boards. I think she's looking for both sides opinions? My quote that got used wasn't meant to be taken completely seriously, it really was a bratty

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Posted by Arielle83
yes i agree....i attract heaps of pisces and aqua men.
And yes, I'm always interested in scorpios, but not pisces

Yeah that seems to be the nature of things:

Cancers are infatuated with Scorpios
Scorpios are infatuated with Pisces
Pisces are infatuated with Cancers

This way we all have a chance of being heart broken. 😆

I now believe this is very true!

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All the Pisces women I personally know are super sweet, funny, and loving. I adore them. Dating the men, however....haven't dated one, but there is some intense attraction, but every fish man I know is too flakey, and by flakey I mean that they don't stay constant enough for me, they disappear and go off in la la land too easily. This is a mutable thing, though, this feeling of flakey, and flakey is such the wrong word for it! I think it's more that "flakey" is how they seem, but it's not true flakiness. Gems have so many pots on the stove that they are like ADHD people and dart from one interest to another, usually have a ton of duties or projects going and that's why they seem flakey. Virgos try to be diplomatic, but if they find something "better" they want to do, they have a hard time letting you know they won't make it, and will just not show up, and later give a convincing but false excuse for why they didn't show. Pisces do the dreamy thing and float from one place or another, from one person or another, and that comes off as flakey....the reality is none of the mutables are truly flakey, it just seems like it. For me, I like a more grounding aspect to balance my cardinal energy.

Posted by caster721
.........She only left him with her name lol! Told him if he will be up to his mind the next day, he should find her and maybe she would consider a proper date.

.

Totally something I would do. 😆

Posted by Reincarnation
Interesting thread.

Didn't you say you were obsessed with a Crab girl at one point?

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Posted by Arielle83
yes i agree....i attract heaps of pisces and aqua men.
And yes, I'm always interested in scorpios, but not pisces

Yeah that seems to be the nature of things:

Cancers are infatuated with Scorpios
Scorpios are infatuated with Pisces
Pisces are infatuated with Cancers

This way we all have a chance of being heart broken. 😆

I now believe this is very true!

All the Pisces women I personally know are super sweet, funny, and loving. I adore them. Dating the men, however....haven't dated one, but there is some intense attraction, but every fish man I know is too flakey, and by flakey I mean that they don't stay constant enough for me, they disappear and go off in la la land too easily. This is a mutable thing, though, this feeling of flakey, and flakey is such the wrong word for it! I think it's more that "flakey" is how they seem, but it's not true flakiness. Gems have so many pots on the stove that they are like ADHD people and dart from one interest to another, usually have a ton of duties or projects going and that's why they seem flakey. Virgos try to be diplomatic, but if they find something "better" they want to do, they have a hard time letting you know they won't make it, and will just not show up, and later give a convincing but false excuse for why they didn't show. Pisces do the dreamy thing and float from one place or another, from one person or another, and that comes off as flakey....the reality is none of the mutables are truly flakey, it just seems like it. For me, I like a more grounding aspect to balance my cardinal energy.

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I cannot agree more with this... I'm starting to believe that we water girls can't stand some water guys (i haven't meet and deal with a Scorpio guy yet, but crossing my fingers for one soon to see if all they say about them is true) but im talking specially about my fellow Pisces (man) so flakey, players, pathological liers, hard to pin down, complete headaches, don't have a clear path in life, some without ambition... I have forbidden myself from dating Pis

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Posted by PVandJellay
I hate to be the bearer of bad news but Scorpios are Cancer kryptonite, not the other way around. Pisces women tend to be Scorpio male kryptonite and Taurus men tend to be Scorpio female kryptonite. No other sign brings Scorpio to their knees worst than these two. If you spend any time on the Pisces or Taurus board you would see this.

Although I agree this thread is a bit arrogant for my liking and only Cancer women seem to make these threads not the Scorpio males. In fact the Scorpios on this site are not very fond of Crabs altogether.

However, is bringing a guy to his knees a sign of deep connection and commitment?
Most Scorpio males are married to in long term relationships to Cancer women. According to a study that has been posted here several times.
Furthermore, most Scorpio males who are married to Cancer women, flourish and enjoy a very long, deeply committed, sexual, productive, warm and loving relationship.

She didn't ask about deep connection or commitment. She asked if Cancer was Scorpio kryptonite. The answer for me is no, because kryptonite evokes the idea of obsessive attraction imo. I've only seen that level of obsessive attraction from Scorpios when it comes to female Pisces and male Taurus. That doesn't mean that Cancer women do not have healthy fulfilling long term relationships with Scorp men, I just don't see the level of obsession from Scorpios when it comes to Cancers that fits the mindset that Cancers are Scorpio kryptonite. That's all.

+1 and to PV&J's original post as well. Yep, Kryptonite indicates obsession and Pisces & Taurus can get that out of us. Not necessarily healthy. Cancer & Scorp get along wonderfully... But it's more controlled, friendly, nurturing energy IMO. Not so obsessive on Scorp front. More energy coming from Cancer camp IME.

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Then you are both wrong, and clearly not a Cancer woman nor Scorpio male. The attraction is extremely intense to the point of speechless. From both ends.

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Interesting thread.

Didn't you say you were obsessed with a Crab girl at one point?

Maybe. ^^

I don't remember.

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Selective memory?
Never mind, it's not important.

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Interesting thread.

Didn't you say you were obsessed with a Crab girl at one point?

Maybe. ^^

I don't remember.

Selective memory?
Never mind, it's not important.

Maiden - of course I remember.

Sonia.

But I should not think or speak of her. I'm in a relationship.

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Rein, will you stop it!! 😆
Whisper it in my ear, I won't tell anyone.

Posted by Reincarnation
She was special. Very beautiful. Taiwanese.

Loved Tarantino movies and organic food. I think I may have posted about her before.

I got mixed up with a female room mate because I arrived late for summer session.

She would feed me all this gourmet food and then clean the dishes with this Dr. Bronner soap. Lol - I still remember.

Yeah - we did a lot of studying together.

Jesus she and I like the same stuff. Tarantino films, organic food and Dr. Bronner soap. 😆
Thank you for sharing this Rein, I appreciate your input.

What was your attraction like to this woman?

Posted by CluelessCancer
Everyone trying to be PC. IT's true. Scorpios go nuts over pisces. Period.com

i don't know about the women, i don't pay attention to them at all, i in fact try to run away from them, before they put a hex on me.

LOL No one said they don't go nuts over Pisces.
But it has been said they don't go nuts for Crabs.
I guess you agree with that too.

This is a dead issue for me now but I gotta call a spade a spade anyhow.

pade a spade anyhow.

Why are so stuck on the water signs in here? All other signs were open to this debate! Or is it that the only ones obsessing over the us watery folk are us? I personally have to duck and dive to get away from Aries and Libra. Those mothertreetrunkers are good for the chase. Geez.