Left by my cancer lady of almost 6yrs
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by MrW on Saturday, August 19, 2017 and has 23 replies.
I'm having a lot of trouble of letting go of my cancer lady who has left me. I Am very confused as to why she left me as she says it's nothing to do with me and it's just how she feels. We have been in love since we first met. We have both taught eachother so much ive managed to open up to her all the way and it seems like when times were a bit hard for me she just packed up and left. I still love her but I want to move on with my life but I don't think I could or would ever forget about our relationship. We had it all going for us so I don't get how things changed so quickly. Any thoughts on this or is this a habit of cancer?
@MrW
So feeling your pain...
The phrase is that hit me is she left you when times became hard for you.
Financially! Health wise?
What happened?
It seems like maybe you were the one who loved and she was letting you love her...
So sorry...
So feeling your pain...
The phrase is that hit me is she left you when times became hard for you.
Financially! Health wise?
What happened?
It seems like maybe you were the one who loved and she was letting you love her...
So sorry...
She left u for someone else. That's my guess because all the cancers I know, including myself only move on from someone when they find someone new that they like.
Posted by GemitatiIve been going through a little rough patch and became a little depressed. It seemed that she didn't really care about how I felt just wanted to make me stop. I do love her a lot. And some times I do feel she just wanted to be fixed by me that's all. She was quite broken when I met her and sines then ive been there for her by her side throughout anything that's happened with her and her emotions. Throughout the years. This is the first time I've ever been really down so it wasn't an ongoing thing with me
@MrW
So feeling your pain...
The phrase is that hit me is she left you when times became hard for you.
Financially! Health wise?
What happened?
It seems like maybe you were the one who loved and she was letting you love her...
So sorry...
Posted by pinkbird03This help a lot there's is a third party a mutual friend of our I know they both like each other and she refuses that it has anything to do with us breaking up. I don't believe this one bit. I was not the only one commited to the relationship she was the one who brought up wanting a family and children with me and that took me a long time to sit on but at the end for me it was something I could see
She left u for someone else. That's my guess because all the cancers I know, including myself only move on from someone when they find someone new that they like.
Me. W. I am sorry I hope
You feel better... take some
Time to heal...
Piscemoon
You feel better... take some
Time to heal...
Piscemoon
You'll feel good again, give yourself time to heal. Not having closure can be cruel unless you decide you give yourself closure by realizing that it wasnt meant to be. Good luck
Thank you all yes the hardest part atm is letting everything just go and not looking back. She doesn't want my love so really there isn't much I can do is there?
Im sorry to hear that. I have seen few cancers and well they are not usually cheaters. They are very emotional and family oriented. However she did say that its not your wrong but her own wrong her own feels so she is moving. Maybe she feels like the third party is much blending with her emotional sea than you?!
Whats your sun sign and if you know the third man's?
Whats your sun sign and if you know the third man's?
Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesMaybe you are right! Im not a cancer. I just know few people and they are loyal to their partners.Posted by Taurus_mystiqueEvery single cancer i met is a cheater. Including myself.
Im sorry to hear that. I have seen few cancers and well they are not usually cheaters. They are very emotional and family oriented. However she did say that its not your wrong but her own wrong her own feels so she is moving. Maybe she feels like the third party is much blending with her emotional sea than you?!
Whats your sun sign and if you know the third man's?click to expand
Posted by MrWI am so sorry to hear that.Posted by GemitatiIve been going through a little rough patch and became a little depressed. It seemed that she didn't really care about how I felt just wanted to make me stop. I do love her a lot. And some times I do feel she just wanted to be fixed by me that's all. She was quite broken when I met her and sines then ive been there for her by her side throughout anything that's happened with her and her emotions. Throughout the years. This is the first time I've ever been really down so it wasn't an ongoing thing with me
@MrW
So feeling your pain...
The phrase is that hit me is she left you when times became hard for you.
Financially! Health wise?
What happened?
It seems like maybe you were the one who loved and she was letting you love her...
So sorry...click to expand
It is apparently not normal for Cancer to not to nurse those who need nursing.
She is probably had never healed from her own problems. You just patched it up for her but issue still there.
Posted by Arielle83Where ta heck swinging came from?
omg u got her into swinging?!
of course she's going to leave...you want to share...and fuck others and you think a cancer is going to keep you on that pedestal..
cancer wants only one...if you manipulated her or convinced her into swinging, you played that card...
it was what you wanted...she immediately put u below her standards and knew this wasn't going to last forever...
we just take a long time to leave...im sure it was done when she saw ur dick go in someone else wet spot
2 years of denial on her part
Have you been back on sniffing some shit?
Posted by Arielle83Where did he say he did hetmherninto swinging???Posted by MissGemmihe got her into swinging...what do u expect?
Yes Im sorry to say...but all the cancers I know are cheaters. They can get bored if things are going too perfect, or when the other party is going through a depression or some emotional turmoil. They are good friends though and would be a very good friend to those who go through bad times. When it comes to their SO they can be quiet selfish and start to look around for someone who can give them that emotional satisfaction. They find it emotionally heavy to take care of someone going through a rough time.
She's right to say that it has nothing to do with you. If there's a third party involved she doesn't even 'see' you right now. Once a cancer puts a breakup in motion there's nothing that can stop it. She has already made up her emotional mind.
You can try to re-win her heart and show her that you are a strongwilled alpha male who will not let this happen. Dont stalk or get abusive though... Make plans and sweet her off her feet. Do not I repeat do not try to be her friend. When it is clear that she's in love with someone else...BACK OFF and move on.click to expand
oh wow!
well as a cancer myself im going to have to say that I agree with whoever said it was over when she saw you put your wang in another wet spot!
im not sure how many cancers out there would be okay with that kind of relationship but i have thought about whether I would be okay with it and if I would stay..... the conclusion was NO!
I am a one man woman!
I only know of one Cancer woman that has cheated. I could never cheat personally.
well as a cancer myself im going to have to say that I agree with whoever said it was over when she saw you put your wang in another wet spot!
im not sure how many cancers out there would be okay with that kind of relationship but i have thought about whether I would be okay with it and if I would stay..... the conclusion was NO!
I am a one man woman!
I only know of one Cancer woman that has cheated. I could never cheat personally.
Posted by Arielle83Huh??Posted by Gemitatihttps://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=9062045Posted by Arielle83Where did he say he did hetmherninto swinging???Posted by MissGemmihe got her into swinging...what do u expect?
Yes Im sorry to say...but all the cancers I know are cheaters. They can get bored if things are going too perfect, or when the other party is going through a depression or some emotional turmoil. They are good friends though and would be a very good friend to those who go through bad times. When it comes to their SO they can be quiet selfish and start to look around for someone who can give them that emotional satisfaction. They find it emotionally heavy to take care of someone going through a rough time.
She's right to say that it has nothing to do with you. If there's a third party involved she doesn't even 'see' you right now. Once a cancer puts a breakup in motion there's nothing that can stop it. She has already made up her emotional mind.
You can try to re-win her heart and show her that you are a strongwilled alpha male who will not let this happen. Dont stalk or get abusive though... Make plans and sweet her off her feet. Do not I repeat do not try to be her friend. When it is clear that she's in love with someone else...BACK OFF and move on.click to expand
Holly shit!
And she wants family and he want swing!
Cool! I see a lot of potential! Not!
So you win!
I just never know what the story is!
Keep sniffing! It does you good! ???
Look for a third party ex.
Posted by Arielle83Slor? What? Be more presice! What is that you want to know?Posted by Gemitatiwhen you going to GET you cheating slorPosted by Arielle83Huh??Posted by Gemitatihttps://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=9062045Posted by Arielle83Where did he say he did hetmherninto swinging???Posted by MissGemmihe got her into swinging...what do u expect?
Yes Im sorry to say...but all the cancers I know are cheaters. They can get bored if things are going too perfect, or when the other party is going through a depression or some emotional turmoil. They are good friends though and would be a very good friend to those who go through bad times. When it comes to their SO they can be quiet selfish and start to look around for someone who can give them that emotional satisfaction. They find it emotionally heavy to take care of someone going through a rough time.
She's right to say that it has nothing to do with you. If there's a third party involved she doesn't even 'see' you right now. Once a cancer puts a breakup in motion there's nothing that can stop it. She has already made up her emotional mind.
You can try to re-win her heart and show her that you are a strongwilled alpha male who will not let this happen. Dont stalk or get abusive though... Make plans and sweet her off her feet. Do not I repeat do not try to be her friend. When it is clear that she's in love with someone else...BACK OFF and move on.
Holly shit!
And she wants family and he want swing!
Cool! I see a lot of potential! Not!
So you win!
I just never know what the story is!
Keep sniffing! It does you good! ???click to expand
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeelol true story
So this guy gets his dick wet in some other pussy doesn't give her the marriage and children she wants in the 6 years they spent together
And now he's crying? 6 years too long. She should have left long ago. You're a time waste
Posted by Gob_ShiteHey I totally get where you are coming from but in true honesty we both decided to swing. And there wasn't a problem with swinging for ages we spoke had boundries and explored together. And I have thought that might be the reason yes. My point is that I believed we were both in love to realise that lust is something that comes over everyone at some point. Honestly the whole story is super long sorry for not explaining that bit.Posted by MrW
I'm having a lot of trouble of letting go of my cancer lady who has left me. I Am very confused as to why she left me as she says it's nothing to do with me and it's just how she feels. We have been in love since we first met. We have both taught eachother so much ive managed to open up to her all the way and it seems like when times were a bit hard for me she just packed up and left. I still love her but I want to move on with my life but I don't think I could or would ever forget about our relationship. We had it all going for us so I don't get how things changed so quickly. Any thoughts on this or is this a habit of cancer?
Typical, especially from a Scorpio, to tell only a fraction of the story...
Could the fact that you cajoled your Cancer into swinging be a possible factor for the disintegration of your relationship?
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=9062045click to expand
Posted by MrWYes I understand but things change. People change, feelings change. Other people offer something new and different. It sucks, but it's happened to most of us at one point or anotherPosted by pinkbird03This help a lot there's is a third party a mutual friend of our I know they both like each other and she refuses that it has anything to do with us breaking up. I don't believe this one bit. I was not the only one commited to the relationship she was the one who brought up wanting a family and children with me and that took me a long time to sit on but at the end for me it was something I could see
She left u for someone else. That's my guess because all the cancers I know, including myself only move on from someone when they find someone new that they like.click to expand
Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesYhh I do feel like that now honestly I don't hate Her and I didn't force her to do anything the first year I didn't play with any women and she said randomly one day that she would like me to play with women also. But I guess she feels she needs to persue other things. She's not a liar or a cheater and neither am I. I just don't understand why she denies the relationship has ended because of her feeling for him. It's not like she stopped swinging either.Posted by MrWK but ime and as i said it doesnt actually matter if someone agrees to swinging. It always ends up someone gets hurt. Also i had a friend who hated swinging but did it because she didnt want to lose her man. They seperated after 10 years cause of it. Although its 100% her own fault for agreeing to it and pretending she liked it, she is scarred probably for decades now cause of it.Posted by Gob_ShiteHey I totally get where you are coming from but in true honesty we both decided to swing. And there wasn't a problem with swinging for ages we spoke had boundries and explored together. And I have thought that might be the reason yes. My point is that I believed we were both in love to realise that lust is something that comes over everyone at some point. Honestly the whole story is super long sorry for not explaining that bit.Posted by MrW
I'm having a lot of trouble of letting go of my cancer lady who has left me. I Am very confused as to why she left me as she says it's nothing to do with me and it's just how she feels. We have been in love since we first met. We have both taught eachother so much ive managed to open up to her all the way and it seems like when times were a bit hard for me she just packed up and left. I still love her but I want to move on with my life but I don't think I could or would ever forget about our relationship. We had it all going for us so I don't get how things changed so quickly. Any thoughts on this or is this a habit of cancer?
Typical, especially from a Scorpio, to tell only a fraction of the story...
Could the fact that you cajoled your Cancer into swinging be a possible factor for the disintegration of your relationship?
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=9062045click to expand
Maybe we both ruined it by becoming swingers but se spoke about this a lot before we started and during. The jumping to conclusions is a bit hard to deal with ask for more infor and I will hapilly share. Do you think she made her mind up a long time ago about us? As I feel that way too it was a bit cold how she left. Although she said I'd done nothing wrong. And I do feel like I've must of hurt her so bad that she didn't even want to try to fix things. I know why she's like will normally voice anything concernimg any problem she has. I don't believe that the love we had towards each other just went away like that. Do you think she might just be caught up in lust at the moment and a new experience? Ive helped her through many life problems in the past. Do you think that he may also feel that I just have nothing to offer her anymore?
I'm 25 and she's 22 yes a few years
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