Let Me Experience My Emotions
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by coldwater on Friday, October 19, 2012 and has 10 replies.
Im trying to figure out how to word this so I can get my point across.....
Do cancer males like to experience i.e live through their partners emotions?
For instance...if your happy then do they mimick that emotion and it creates happiness for them? If you are sad...does that cause for them to be sad as well?
You ever had a man stare deep inside your eyes and think hmmm .....whats he looking for....?Its like hes trying to "See You"...trying to see whats really going on. Sometimes, it seems to be invasive. Its like....get outta my head, get outta my emotions and let me experience them already. Its almost as if they react quicker to change then you do.
Sigh...maybe im just sleepy or maybe I need to start wearing sunglasses around the house.
Do cancer males like to experience i.e live through their partners emotions?
For instance...if your happy then do they mimick that emotion and it creates happiness for them? If you are sad...does that cause for them to be sad as well?
You ever had a man stare deep inside your eyes and think hmmm .....whats he looking for....?Its like hes trying to "See You"...trying to see whats really going on. Sometimes, it seems to be invasive. Its like....get outta my head, get outta my emotions and let me experience them already. Its almost as if they react quicker to change then you do.
Sigh...maybe im just sleepy or maybe I need to start wearing sunglasses around the house.
It gets worse, they cause massive emotional outbursts in you to enjoy it like emotional vampires. Cancer guys are dangerous, they fuck with you at a whole new level.
Now see...I would probably actually like that in some twisted deranged way. Ill go as deep as he wants to go. I dont like shallow emotions. Theres something about some men that make u stand up and notice. Some hidden facet of their whole persona that just screams ill take u there. Ive found this mostly in water men. Im not talking some kiddie ride that costs two fifty cents pieces to ride. Oh no...im talking the ride of a lifetime.
On second thought...ill leave the sunglasses off.
On second thought...ill leave the sunglasses off.
I guess what im saying too is can a cancer men handle other peoples emotions well? Or, are they so bogged down with their own emotional webs? For instance, ive had some male friends that love to "feel" They like feeling "alive". Good or bad emotions, they just like to experience the depth, the passion of that emotion. Love, hate, wraith, etc...
Cancer men will help you rationalize your emotions, it's their own emotions in love they may have problems dealing with appropriately.
I tend to feel the uneasiness of this mind reading with Scorpios. I know my Cancer does it but he's more subtle, more relaxed about it, so I don't feel threatened, I just feel understood and acknowledged. In my experience, scorpios have to let you know you what they've "taken" from you instead of just letting it be. I don't mind having my emotions read, but why be so freakin' obvious about it?lol Anyway I love that my Cancer does this, there is something very freeing and soothing about that telepathic connection...I feel it deeply and it's like crawling into a warm cocoon. My body automatically starts leaning towards him and I feel very safe.
Hahaha I will say that the only time his reading me bothers me, is when I'm trying to hide something...*one eyebrow raised*lol Like if something hurtful about my past comes up, he'll watch me very carefully and try and coax out my emotions (I usually become very stoic). Making me very nervous and irritable. One time I snapped at him "Can I be?! Can I live?! Damn!!". Really hurt his feelings
Yes it can be invasive, but so is sex, so is love. Intimacy is invasive *shrugs*
Hahaha I will say that the only time his reading me bothers me, is when I'm trying to hide something...*one eyebrow raised*lol Like if something hurtful about my past comes up, he'll watch me very carefully and try and coax out my emotions (I usually become very stoic). Making me very nervous and irritable. One time I snapped at him "Can I be?! Can I live?! Damn!!". Really hurt his feelings
Yes it can be invasive, but so is sex, so is love. Intimacy is invasive *shrugs*
Its exactly as u described Rose. I try to hide those emotions and he just watches me carefully. Then he gets hurt if I try to keep those emotions from him. He really is the sweetest thing I have ever met. Ive never experienced a man like him before, he is very very into his mate.
Incandesant...u are right about the rationaliztion. He does this for everything. Im more of a "it was meant to be" kinda girl and theres not always an answer. He does very well with his feelings in love. He told me" i love you within six weeks of dating." He says it alll the time. The man loves being in love. The more I give the more he gives back and the more I give him. Its a nice cycle.
Incandesant...u are right about the rationaliztion. He does this for everything. Im more of a "it was meant to be" kinda girl and theres not always an answer. He does very well with his feelings in love. He told me" i love you within six weeks of dating." He says it alll the time. The man loves being in love. The more I give the more he gives back and the more I give him. Its a nice cycle.
Posted by coldwater
Now see...I would probably actually like that in some twisted deranged way. Ill go as deep as he wants to go. I dont like shallow emotions. There's something about some men that make u stand up and notice. Some hidden facet of their whole persona that just screams ill take u there.... I'm not talking some kiddie ride that costs two fifty cents pieces to ride. Oh no...i'm talking the ride of a lifetime.
On second thought...ill leave the sunglasses off.
This is golden! Luv it.
Posted by coldwater
Incandesant...u are right about the rationaliztion. He does this for everything. Im more of a "it was meant to be" kinda girl and theres not always an answer. He does very well with his feelings in love. He told me" i love you within six weeks of dating." He says it alll the time. The man loves being in love. The more I give the more he gives back and the more I give him. Its a nice cycle.
Cancers love the game more than the players.
I can see the man is not stupid by any means, but neither am I. I can see him watching me watch him.
Leave Your Feedback
We'd love to hear your thoughts! If you're not logged in, you can still share your feedback below. Your input helps us improve the experience for everyone. To post your own content or join the conversation, please log in or create an account.
Related Topics
@ayhartyu
Joined: Oct 19, 2012 · Topics: 1 · Posts: 2
What's your dream career? Or are u doing your dream career? Name your sign and othe aspect that have to do with your car
@ecent
Joined: Jan 30, 2012 · Topics: 17 · Posts: 389
What pushes your buttons? And how do u get back on track when your buttons have been push? Ok have been strongly try
@ecent
Joined: Jan 30, 2012 · Topics: 17 · Posts: 389
Hey everyone :) This is my first post here, but I'm happy I found this place. I recently met an absolutely wonderf
@Yddeh
Joined: Oct 19, 2012 · Topics: 1 · Posts: 3
Just came across an on-line article that said December capricorns are more people pleasers and January capricorns were m
@truecap
Joined: Jan 25, 2012 · Topics: 685 · Posts: 20090
Good morning! Today I am my usual happy self and decided to throw this question out to my fellow Gems instead of trawli
@Lizuz
Joined: May 05, 2011 · Topics: 11 · Posts: 130
@dimitri
Joined: Oct 12, 2012 · Topics: 25 · Posts: 565
is anyone here to tell if ever this match is good or not.. it's about aries water monkey(woman) and taurus earth snake..
@selvina
Joined: Oct 18, 2012 · Topics: 5 · Posts: 10
is there anyone tell me if ever its a good match or not..it's about aries water monkey(woman) and taurus earth snake(man
@selvina
Joined: Oct 18, 2012 · Topics: 5 · Posts: 10
I've got a libra to add to the mix. Been doing the Eharmony questions thingy with this one. (The leo we went straight to
@BigGirlPanties
Joined: Jun 22, 2011 · Topics: 71 · Posts: 2346