Let this Cancer go?

Are Cancer Moons inconsistent when it comes to replying to messages and giving you their attention? I have been talking to someone who (from what I have been told) has a chart that compliments mine almost perfectly, the person who looked at the synastry said that we were basically "soulmates" - I obviously don't believe that but I did feel a wonderful connection with this person and I enjoy talking to him.

We have been writing each other extremely long emails back and forth for a few weeks, and he has always been consistent in regards to replying. He has said stuff like "I am so excited to be talking to someone like you" and "I never take connections like this for granted for they are very raw and very real". I believe that he is being genuine because he is a person who is very compassionate and I felt the authenticity.

He brought up the idea of hanging out (we went to school together years ago and haven't seen eachother in quite some time) and said that he would accompany me to events I was interested in (we both said we rarely find the right person to go with) and I told him to let me know if he wanted company to one he had mentioned throughout the last few weeks. He never said anything back though! Its odd because he is liking other things of mine through other avenues (videos, photos, etc) but he hasn't replied to an email that warranted one (we had talked about a lot of other things, and I asked questions, so it wasn't just a 'let me know' kind of thing.)

I guess I figure - why would someone say "Well if you ever want company to an exhibit or an activity you're interested in going to I feel as if we would have amazing conversation!". Maybe I misunderstood but it seemed like a prompt to hang out and talk in person and continue this connection. However, no reply. Its been a few days and it seems so unlike him. Its also confusing because he is interacting and liking Facebook posts and so on.

Hm.

its really hard to answer ur question even im a cancer man. We think too much before we take action. though i am not sure what exactly in his mind, but if i was him, i would make a perfect plan to impressive the person that we first meet.

"perfect plan" for cancer men is quite hard to define. its depend on what they want. Let's say if i am very into a girl to have a long and healthy relationship, i will reseach what does this girl like and dislike, what she needs at this moment, what would impressive her the most, how can i steal her heart within 2-3 dates. Well, yes, i am telling you cancer men are very organize and well plan person. I suggest that u can wait until he text/call u. maybe he is planning something big for u. if not, nothing hurt. just let him go.

^^^ This is true. My crab seems to have planned me out. He studies my likes & dislikes. He would even KNOW my schedule without me even telling him. He's actions seem pretty organized with me sometimes... i feel like he daydreams about how he wants our dates to be & he WILL try to make them go according to his plan. So sneaky lol. So yes, if your crab moon is anything like a crab sun he will definitely follow through his plans, eventually.

They will daydream about dating you but if it only stays a dream, then he might not be that serious or he got ahead of himself & decided to back out.

Mmmmm interesting!

With me, the first date or just dates don't have to be perfect, I am fine with spontaneity, actually even something goes wrong (I am aware taking things fast and being spontaneous result this risk), I might find the situation interesting and even fun lol

The more I read post on this cancer forum, the more I am surprised, but it's all good surprises 🙂

Give him a a week to plan an actual date where you guys are seeing each other in person.
It doesn't take months to meet someone.
It's only been a few days so relax.
Send him another email asking how he is doing.

Posted by LunarMaiden
Give him a a week to plan an actual date where you guys are seeing each other in person.
It doesn't take months to meet someone.
It's only been a few days so relax.
Send him another email asking how he is doing.

Don't Cancer's easily feel cornered? I don't want to push. What if he is feeling like he got too deep too fast in relation to his daydreams and he wants to back out? Its odd because our conversations were so consistent and spot on and the connection was just... indescribable. However, he could have just been enjoying the conversation and thats that right! Its easy to read into these things.