Libra woman/Cancer man

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by libra1076 on Saturday, November 5, 2011 and has 8 replies.
I've known my cancer guy back in high school.. I always though he was a great guy but didn't really get to know him until recently. We have kept in touch through social sites and have become close. The last time he was in town we went out a few times and I have become head over heals for him. We live in different states but he comes home for holidays and other times during the year. I am a VERY loyal person and I know this is what I want. I am all for traveling to go see him as well. We both care deeply for each other and we both know we could be really happy together. We both have been hurt in the past by past relationships and me with my divorce. I totally trust him and feel I can tell him everything and I know he is trying to trust me, he says he does anyway ..LOL.. the last time he was home, which wasn??t all that long ago, we has so much chemistry, he didn??t want to leave and I so hated to see him go. He is coming home for Christmas and we plan on spending a lot of time together again. I am excited to see where our journey takes us. I can not wait to see him again.. is there any advise you cancer guys can give me.. he is shy but so am I. I really want him to know that I am and want to be invested in this relationship with him. How do I know he is as into me as I am with him? He calls just about every night and we text all the time. Any advise will help.. Thank you!! ??_
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How do I know he is as into me as I am with him? He calls just about every night and we text all the time. Any advise will help.. Thank you!! ??_


you won't know...but if you're questioning him it's best to go with the flow. don't have too much riding on this, just enjoy your time together.
just bear in mind our doubts often create the outcome we least want...so if you like him, accept him fully. dismiss the past, don't build castles out of sand. he'll see that in you, that you're relaxed and optimistic and if he's the right guy for you he'll respond in kind smile
I don't know. Not everyone burns the same way. My cancer pretty much never texted, called, emailed, etc. and he always wanted to be with me even after just a couple of times of hanging out. I initiated most of the contact in the beginning.
So, you never really know what's on their mind until you're face-to-face. Then you can read 'em like a book because they can't keep their emotions hidden. It's all in the face.
he has been so easy for me to open up to.. I have some medical issues from a birth difect and he has been so understanding and supportive even though he's in another state. He is such a busy man with school and work but he makes a great effort to call me every night before he goes to bed and we end up talking for hours. Most of the time I am the one that texts him during the day but he always responds. He does seem to be the type of cancer that seems strong on the outside but during converstations about us I see his soft side and I LOVE IT!! Is it wise to tell him I miss him? I really want to do something nice for him when he comes home for the holidays.. any suggestions?
thank you both very much for responding!!
oh, and how do I learn what his chart is and how mine compares to his
does it really matter if I know what time he was born.. because i have no clue and would feel strange asking him
thank you all for the useful advise.. I will keep you all updated because I am sure I may need more advise later.. thanks again!!