Posted by Prince_Pisces
Oh and I love Lindsay
Yeah, I hope things get better for her. But given her push/pull affinity for crazy, I am skeptical.
Does Libra actually work with Cancer in terms of a relationship?
Posted by Prince_PiscesPosted by aquarius09
Astrology says no to this couple, however, based on my observation of these two signs, I think they are veryyyyyy similar in a lot of ways! Not to mention I've seen a lot of cancer woman and libra man hook ups. I can't comment on the longevity of such union, but based on what dxp and other forums indicate, it's short term. Tiziani can better explain the connection here as he's dated a cancer woman.
P.S. Pamela Anderson (Cancer) and Tommy Lee (lib) did it
Aww I love Pamela
LOL! Long time Prince, but I see you are hilarious as ever!click to expand
Posted by tw1nk1e
I think it's harder when the woman is Cancer.
Posted by aquarius09
Astrology says no to this couple, however, based on my observation of these two signs, I think they are veryyyyyy similar in a lot of ways! Not to mention I've seen a lot of cancer woman and libra man hook ups. I can't comment on the longevity of such union, but based on what dxp and other forums indicate, it's short term. Tiziani can better explain the connection here as he's dated a cancer woman.
P.S. Pamela Anderson (Cancer) and Tommy Lee (lib) did it
Posted by tw1nk1ePosted by CluelessCancer
"But Libra men do like happy! always positive! collected! women"
all men like this women, and they get her, until three weeks after the weddingThan the real woman arrives. lol
happy? that sounds like a disease
positive? What about? Life is not positive, it's mostly negative, where you have to look for few positive moments within your day to be slightly happy
Collected? I got 5 leo placements, collected, but if you push me, i'll Chernobyl..
Libra men to me are way too laid back, i can't deal with that, i need someone whose more passionate.
Of course men like positive people. Everyone likes positivity. But Libra men can't handle the grey, let alone the dark.
I've dated several Libra men, but they've never made it past a first date because they were as deep as a mud puddle. :x This coming from a Gemini.
I asked one of these what his dream for his life was.
-Take over father's company
-Have a beautiful wife
-Have beautiful kids
I kept waiting for something more, but there was only 2 minutes of awkward silence.click to expand
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by aquarius09Posted by tw1nk1e
I think it's harder when the woman is Cancer.
It's harder because cancer women will just keep on putting up with a libra male's garbage until he disappears into oblivion. Lol
Libra men seem extremely boring to me, i see them as not being able to handle cancer's woman's garbage, we can be a little too fiesty.click to expand
Posted by prettyladii
Libra men seem to have a strong attraction to us. I agree we're a little too fiesty for them. They are very sensitive, avoid much needed conversations if not pleasant, or confrontation in general, bad communicators, a little effeminate as well and for me personally I like a alpha- male. I think it's better if they have some earth or scorpio in their chart. A sign that won't run when problems occur or let them fester.
Posted by CluelessCancer
"But Libra men do like happy! always positive! collected! women"
all men like this women, and they get her, until three weeks after the weddingThan the real woman arrives. lol
happy? that sounds like a disease
positive? What about? Life is not positive, it's mostly negative, where you have to look for few positive moments within your day to be slightly happy
Collected? I got 5 leo placements, collected, but if you push me, i'll Chernobyl..
Libra men to me are way too laid back, i can't deal with that, i need someone whose more passionate.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by aquarius09Posted by tw1nk1e
I think it's harder when the woman is Cancer.
It's harder because cancer women will just keep on putting up with a libra male's garbage until he disappears into oblivion. Lol
Libra men seem extremely boring to me, i see them as not being able to handle cancer's woman's garbage, we can be a little too fiesty.
Libra men have their garbage and Cancer women have theirs, but yes, both can't put up with each other's garbage. I've never met a feisty cancer in my life. I've had a lot of cancer male/female friends and none of them had a backbone. They all got trampled on in their relationships.click to expand
Posted by prettyladii
Libra men seem to have a strong attraction to us. I agree we're a little too fiesty for them. They are very sensitive, avoid much needed conversations if not pleasant, or confrontation in general, bad communicators, a little effeminate as well and for me personally I like a alpha- male. I think it's better if they have some earth or scorpio in their chart. A sign that won't run when problems occur or let them fester.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by aquarius09Posted by CluelessCancer
"But Libra men do like happy! always positive! collected! women"
all men like this women, and they get her, until three weeks after the weddingThan the real woman arrives. lol
happy? that sounds like a disease
positive? What about? Life is not positive, it's mostly negative, where you have to look for few positive moments within your day to be slightly happy
Collected? I got 5 leo placements, collected, but if you push me, i'll Chernobyl..
Libra men to me are way too laid back, i can't deal with that, i need someone whose more passionate.
Haha! I totally agree. Libra men are very unrealistic about life and their incessant need to find that perfect partner. This is why they are notorious for being wishy washy. They see their partner under a rose colored microscope in the beginning and that's why they are over the top romantic at the beginning. Once the love dust settlers and they take partner out from under the rose colored microscope, they get scared because the partner isn't as perfect (happy, collected, calm, spontaneous, romantic) as they thought. Let's face it, there are not that many relationships that are hunky dory past the honeymooner phase, and libras are made for honeymooner phase only. After that phase is over, libras begin their disappearances and aloof behavior
Sounds like my Virgo X, he sounds like he got those damn Libra traits. His birthday is today.
this makes sense.click to expand
Posted by nycancergalPosted by prettyladii
Libra men seem to have a strong attraction to us. I agree we're a little too fiesty for them. They are very sensitive, avoid much needed conversations if not pleasant, or confrontation in general, bad communicators, a little effeminate as well and for me personally I like a alpha- male. I think it's better if they have some earth or scorpio in their chart. A sign that won't run when problems occur or let them fester.
How are they effeminate? They are after all a masculine sign. Scorpio men are alphas? LOL. Scorpio is a feminine water sign. They have the most feminine qualities in them. Their jealousy and backbiting. The way they go about getting even with people. They don't do it straight up but through very sneaky ways. I have yet to meet a masculine alpha Scorpio male.
Anyways, I dunno about this guy and Lindsay, but I for one loooove Libra men. I am not so big on Libra women but the men are awesome. I've found every Libra man I have met to be a true gentleman and sensitive. They are very courtly and know how to treat a woman. Although they are not very emotional like water signs, they do have a certain sensitivity about them. They are very logical and cool headed during times of crisis . They are everything you want in a man. Strong but sensitive.click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by aquarius09Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by aquarius09Posted by tw1nk1e
I think it's harder when the woman is Cancer.
It's harder because cancer women will just keep on putting up with a libra male's garbage until he disappears into oblivion. Lol
Libra men seem extremely boring to me, i see them as not being able to handle cancer's woman's garbage, we can be a little too fiesty.
Libra men have their garbage and Cancer women have theirs, but yes, both can't put up with each other's garbage. I've never met a feisty cancer in my life. I've had a lot of cancer male/female friends and none of them had a backbone. They all got trampled on in their relationships.
not true for everyone. While we can argue back and forth who and who did what, we can say that Libra Singer Sting who is married to a Cap woman has a backbone, or Cancer Martha Stewart, if she focused on marriage instead of career, she'd be incredibly sharkish. My bff was similar like me, learned heartache early in life, but we all grow and LEARN. (there are plenty of men/women who NEVER learn and keep making the same mistakes) but guarantee, many of us are much the wiser. Astrologers even say that it's your lilith that can put cycles in a woman: making the same mistakes over and over again.click to expand
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by aquarius09Posted by prettyladii
Libra men seem to have a strong attraction to us. I agree we're a little too fiesty for them. They are very sensitive, avoid much needed conversations if not pleasant, or confrontation in general, bad communicators, a little effeminate as well and for me personally I like a alpha- male. I think it's better if they have some earth or scorpio in their chart. A sign that won't run when problems occur or let them fester.
Lol! I could totally agree with that especially the part about cancer women/men wanting someone strong. My bro is an alpha male. His cancer was madly attracted to him no matter how much my alpha bro trampled on her. My bro in law, a cancer married my Virgo sister because she's such a bossy badass or comes across as one for sure!! My brother's best friend, a cancer, loved me off because I'm a stron personality. I can totally see that you guys like it strong and libra's are effeminate and they can't offer that. This year I have seen a lot of cancer fem and libra male hook ups. There is that instant attraction because both are kind hearted.
true i got a libra in my life, but i'm attempting to friend zone him, but i don't know, fwb sounds cool.
i cosign your post 1000000% i like men who put me in my place, i need it.click to expand
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by aquarius09Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by aquarius09Posted by tw1nk1e
I think it's harder when the woman is Cancer.
It's harder because cancer women will just keep on putting up with a libra male's garbage until he disappears into oblivion. Lol
Libra men seem extremely boring to me, i see them as not being able to handle cancer's woman's garbage, we can be a little too fiesty.
Libra men have their garbage and Cancer women have theirs, but yes, both can't put up with each other's garbage. I've never met a feisty cancer in my life. I've had a lot of cancer male/female friends and none of them had a backbone. They all got trampled on in their relationships.
trampled how? it's hard to detach for sure, but when i have issues, i state it, in fact i state it in a very nagging way, thousands of times.click to expand
Posted by CluelessCancer
How can I fall for a Libra? That's impossible. I don't think. Maybe the other way around
I also am insulted by your use of "weak" I actually find Virgos to be extremely way more weak than Cancers...I'm not sure about Taurus or Aquas...
but I find Cancers generally to be strong people, so i don't get this "WEAK" shit your trying to describe us as?
I like a strong MAN, because i'm a WOMAN, i don't want to date no PUNK and believe me, my X Virgo was a PUNK.
Everything he did wasn't from a position of strength, but extreme weakness.
Posted by CluelessCancer
hahhahahah funny, you can't say that for all cancers, sure i can get extremely attached, but berate me, i'll berate you right back, and i believe in equal household chores, or your bank is going to be missing a couple hundreds of months from hiring cleaning ladies.
i don't know, i personally have never been a doormat, and never will be, i seek EQUALITY in all things...
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by aquarius09
I can't believe I'm saying this but never underestimate the power of emotions, they are not within our control. So therefore, that comment you made about not falling for a libra, I would say to be careful with those broad claims. You just may end up falling for him.
hell would have to freeze over. so if cancers are so "weak" as you claim, why do your associates stay with them or are married to them?
who wants to be with emotionally "weak" entities. Nobody wants a doormat.click to expand
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by aquarius09Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by aquarius09
I can't believe I'm saying this but never underestimate the power of emotions, they are not within our control. So therefore, that comment you made about not falling for a libra, I would say to be careful with those broad claims. You just may end up falling for him.
hell would have to freeze over. so if cancers are so "weak" as you claim, why do your associates stay with them or are married to them?
who wants to be with emotionally "weak" entities. Nobody wants a doormat.
LOL! Which strong anal nazi/alpha male wouldn't want a doormat? The custom to a successful relationship sadly that there can only be one captain of the ship. You can't have an alpha male hook up with a bitch. They will kill each other. You can't have 2 emotionally weak people together because their insecurities will bounce off each other instead of them getting alleviated which comes from a steong person's reassurance and or other cunning people outside of the relationship will destroy them. So a successful relationship needs one strong and one weak person. Don't take offense to weak because the strong person is also seen as a tyrannical asshole/bitch. Lol
Why can't there be both, why can't one person be tyrannical asshole/bitch on certain occasions, and the other person do it at other times.
why does one person have to have the power? I seriously can't deal with men I can control, yet i also DO NOT want to be controlled and if you Berate me in public as if i'm some kid, especially loudly, i might just get "emotional" and kick you in the shins, in public.
lolclick to expand
Posted by CluelessCancer
I don't know man, don't underestimate, don't want an OJ in your hands. I would stick to air signs if i were you, cause if you think Cancer are weak, than you highly underestimating.
i've never met a catty cancer, but confrontational? lol i don't know the one's i know are highly opinionated and have a stance about certain things.
maybe i just don't know enough cancers, but im too confrontational, i say what i want, and it generally bites me in the arse actually.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by aquarius09
As for why my associates choose to be with "weak entities" is because strong personalities can only survive with them. My sister, older bro and I are strong personalities and we are ready to kill each other because we have major egos and you can't make one party do what the other wants. Our younger bro is weak personality (which is usually a mellow/malleable person). I don't want to use the word weak because it's offensive even though there is nothing wrong with being "weak". Henceforth I'll use the word "malleable or mellow". We boss him around and make him do what we want and he does it.
lol i just tried to get my brother to go to the store buy me icrecream,he normally would, but he's playing Grand Theft Auto. Sigh.
ScorpioVery mellow
Well i got five planets in LEO and that's going to keep me single forever.click to expand
Posted by BlackIndian22
Well i would say that im one of the emotional/caring Cancers. But i am very strong & i know my self worth. I am far from weak. I'm not mad by someones rude comments unless they get personal. I have to deal with intense emotions because of my Scorpio Moon, but you gotta be strong to handle all that. No one is perfect, but i do try to improve myself. Cancers are very tough when they been through hell. I sure have this whole year. But i became a better person in the process.
Posted by BlackIndian22
Well i would say that im one of the emotional/caring Cancers. But i am very strong & i know my self worth. I am far from weak. I'm not mad by someones rude comments unless they get personal. I have to deal with intense emotions because of my Scorpio Moon, but you gotta be strong to handle all that. No one is perfect, but i do try to improve myself. Cancers are very tough when they been through hell. I sure have this whole year. But i became a better person in the process.
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