Lying Cancer man

Hi All. New here

I was dating a cancer man for about 8 months. We had been communicating for more then a year before we eventually hooked up.

Come the holiday season. We both had plans. I have been saving up for a trip to Brazil with my friends and he had family commitments. We had agreed to spend 11 Jan ? 18 Jan with each other.

We had the relationship talk e.g. what we expect from each other. Went for HIV test together.

I thought we were on the same page only for him to call me up on Saturday .He wants us to talk. Naturally, I was all over him at dinner. I missed him and we had not seen eachother for 20 days. I asked he what was wrong. He said nothing. But I knew something was up.

We went to his place.The next morning he makes me breakfast in bed. And drops bomb on me. He has a girlfriend and they are getting married. She is studying in the US for the next 5 years.

Can't remember what I said. To which he replied ?Did you really think a man like me doesn't have a girlfriend?. I dumped him. And told him. That ,Yes , I was at fault for not asking him if he is involved. But he is the one that has been deceitful and insincere.

I was out with friends when I ran into him. He wanted us to have dinner and discuss what happend. Apparently it was a test.Because he always meet women that dates him for his money .Told him to drop dead.

I am a leo woman. I am not angry just very disappointed and my pride has taken a beating.

Uffff....wow...what a blow.
Sorry to hear this Bunny.
GOOD for you for sticking to your guns and telling him to kiss off.
What an a-hole! SCUM

as a cancer man i am ashamed at his actions. you are so better off without this piece of dirt in your life..just remember one thing and that is you did nothing wrong. you were honest with him and he is the one who lied and was deceitful..

Thanks.

Forgot to say. I am working with this guy. We have been e-mailing and texting eachother. And yesterday I found out that he is also a cancer.Thought he was a Gemini.

And there is this other older cancer man. He has been trying to date me for a the last 5 years. He has kids my age. But we are good friends now.

I was shocked, could not believe that this was my cancer. He has always encouraged me.and been such a honey.

virgogotme,We live in Durban South Africa.

I had holiday plans with my friends to go to Brazil.Me and my friend do that save up money and go somewhere .

Thats what he said.And you are right now he is calling now and telling me that he was testing me. And he wants to have dinner on satuarday to discuss what happend. I am just not feeling it.
Don't get me wrong I am hurting but what he did was meansprited and deceitful. And he could have told me at dinner. Yea, I would have made a scene. but the next morning after we slept together,and did it in the morning. Had a bubble bath. Then you make me breakfast. I feel used by him. Now because it was a test, which I doubt. It makes everything OK?

No, I am not going back or hearing him out.

"The story that the girl he is marrying going to the US for 5 years is what has me questioning all of this too."

I think that she was here for the holidays. Don't know for sure and am not going to try and found out. He did what he did. He didn't even say he is sorry for hurting me or for what he did.( what is it with us Leo's. And wanting to hear the words ,"I am sorry")