Magnetism between Cancer and Pisces...

Hey Crabs,

Have you ever felt a magnetic attraction to someone before?

The reason I ask is because of something that happened yesterday.

I went to get my haircut, and this attractive woman with red hair called my name.

There was kind of a hypnotic effect, kind of light-headed feeling came over me.

Anyway, she did a really nice job with my hair and everything. I spoke a lot, and she seemed to like it that way. She indicated that she is going through a terrible divorce, and the thing is she just had this guy's third baby. The baby is only 6 months old.

Anyway, she is a July 16 Cancer, and her soon-to-be ex husband is an April 11 Aries.

I asked her if he had the typical Aries temper, and she said, "Did he ever!" He would curse at her and yell and stuff like that.

Anyway, she insisted on giving me her card so that I could request her next time I go back.

I am not saying there are sparks or romance in the air, because she is going through a bad divorce and already has 3 children.

But...

There was certainly a magnetic feeling around her unlike anything I have felt in a while.

Do Cancers get that with Pisceans sometimes?

Posted by CluelessCancer
No. Pisces suck!

That wasn't very nice!

😢

Thank you so very kindly for that enlightening statement, theie.

I feel a weight has been lifted now that your contribution has been made.

First time I met my Pisces friend was like that old saying "I felt like I've known him forever." Too bad he's wishy washy and emotionally unavailable.

Posted by kissmygrits
First time I met my Pisces friend was like that old saying "I felt like I've known him forever." Too bad he's wishy washy and emotionally unavailable.

Ah, but you did feel something that moved you from the first moment?

HEy thats My birthday!
LOL 🙂 & i have been told that I have a hold on those I have met.
Specifically Pisces, no...

🙂 makes me smile though!

Well yeah I guess. I didn't have the urge to run in the other direction. He thought I was "funny". Meh.

Pisces Man meets Cancer Woman 😄

Yes! I briefly dated a Pisces a couple of years ago. We eyed each other for a very long time before one of us gave in. I rarely make the first move, and he was very passive which ultimately led to our demise but I did feel some sort of a magnetic pull, I just really wanted to get to know him, and vice versa.

I would love to find that again with somebody. And have it last!

I've felt a magnetic attraction before.
She had these wonderful sea green eyes that were mysterious as they looked at my own.
A smile, and then surprise, and then a look of urgency as we got closer and closer.
Then with a a pull and a click, I retrieved my key from her magnetic keychain.

Posted by theie
hey word magnetism comes from scorpio aight ?

you guys cant have magnetism

if you have something then its not magnetism

fuck off

Hahahah 😄 You are so funny 🙂

Gotta love them crazy scorpios 😉

Why Becky! What a pleasure.
We were beginning to miss your bright rays of sunshine on the Cancer forums.
Is there anything we can get you that will make your visit even more pleasant? A glass of cherry flavored strychnine maybe?

Posted by pisceanpisces
SF, even if they do, do you really think cancers would admit?

True dat, my fish sister.

Posted by Arielle83
My bday is July 16th...I feel a sort of attraction with this older pisces guy at work. We tease and joke around a lot, but I think its more of a similar humour type of deal. Also my bestfriend is a pisces female and we just get each other.

I swear, it's surreal. Like a spiritual connection.

Something that I seldom feel with ANYONE anymore, but it was there the other day.

I want to have this feeling again, as it has been years since I last felt it with another human being.

Posted by raerain
oh my my... I met this cute pisces guy at a club last weekend. He wanted to buy me a drink but instead we sat by the pool and spoke for really long. I felt an instant connection with him. He is a Malaysian studying in India, so funny and charming and made me feel so comfortable.

I was so drunk I went around yelling at the club "He is my soulmate" only to realize next morning that I am dating a cancer. He asked me to dance with him and I had to leave. We did not exchange numbers and I don't even know his last name.

So, in short...

You blew it?

😛

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Posted by raerain
oh my my... I met this cute pisces guy at a club last weekend. He wanted to buy me a drink but instead we sat by the pool and spoke for really long. I felt an instant connection with him. He is a Malaysian studying in India, so funny and charming and made me feel so comfortable.

I was so drunk I went around yelling at the club "He is my soulmate" only to realize next morning that I am dating a cancer. He asked me to dance with him and I had to leave. We did not exchange numbers and I don't even know his last name.

So, in short...

You blew it?

😛

Oh totally.
I kept regretting it until I met my cancer guy last night 😉

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Yes there is a chemistry, we are drawn toward each other but won't admit it.
Usually there is some friction and frustration along with a sweet irresistible pull.

This is pretty much my experience. Guess what their signs are.

Seems like an underrepresented couple.

How do you know what their signs are? Do you mean the actual actors? I'm like really high on cold medicine. Weeee....

I'm a pisces and I've been dating a cancer man for 2 months now and during the first couple weeks there was this indescribable connection..dare I say majestic (don't make fun of me for saying majestic lol) now it's kind of died down a bit. I don't know if that's a good or bad thing at this point, but I'm going go with yes..cancers and pisces do share an initial strong connection.

LunarMaiden, is the girl who did the slapping a Crab? She was pretty mad at the guy. What did he do to make her slap him like that?

HSat, thanks for the additional verification of what I believe is very real.

Do you sense his thoughts based on his behaviors?

Posted by shellshocker
Pisces Man meets Cancer Woman 😄

Hey Shelly Shellster,

Tonight, I met a cute June 25 Crab.

She gave me her number, and asked that we meet when she comes back to town next week.

What should I do?

Posted by Crustacea
Nope, Pisces are always so awkward in public nothing magnetic about that.

Haterade is thirsty, for that deep down body HATE!!!!!

Posted by kissmygrits
How do you know what their signs are? Do you mean the actual actors? I'm like really high on cold medicine. Weeee....

Posted by ScorpioFish
LunarMaiden, is the girl who did the slapping a Crab? She was pretty mad at the guy. What did he do to make her slap him like that?................

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http://www.imdb.com/title/tt2632424/<BR>
Birthdays of Actors:
Daniel Gillies (Elijah) - March 14, 1976
Phoebe Tonkin (Hayley)- July 12, 1989
Joseph Morgan (Klaus) - May 16, 1981
Claire Holt (Rebecca) - June 11, 1988

The name of the show is called The Originals. Vampire spinoff of Vampire Diaries.

It's about a family of the first Vampires created whom cannot be killed.
The 3 members of the family are Klaus the Vampire/Werewolf Hybrid, sister Rebecca, brother Elijah. Klaus told Hayley, a werewolf; that he knew of a werewolf clan in Louisiana. So she went down there to find her family. But she was kidnapped by the witches who wanted to use her to fight off the Vampires. Who control and forbid them from using witchcraft. They used Hayley to lure Klaus to New Orleans to help fight the vampires.

Elijah found out that Hayley is pregnant with Klaus' baby and promised he would keep her safe and protected. He thinks the baby she is carrying is the key to bringing humanity to Klaus and pull the family back together.

Unfortunately, Klaus stabbed Elijah with a dagger that incapacitates original vampires and gave him up to his rival to gain his trust. Hayley had to deal with the ill tempered Klaus. She was upset that Elijah had made a promise to be there for her and protect her but then he disappears. That's why she slapped him when he returned from capture. Another reason for her hitting him is because she had read his journals while he was gone and developed admiration and apparently is starting to fall in love with him.

@ Maiden,

Does Phoebe love Daniel?

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Posted by shellshocker
Pisces Man meets Cancer Woman 😄

Hey Shelly Shellster,

Tonight, I met a cute June 25 Crab.

She gave me her number, and asked that we meet when she comes back to town next week.

What should I do?

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Hey Scubs... call her in three weeks and pretend you just found her number! 😄 I thought you were more of a 3rd Decan kind of guy

Posted by ScorpioFish
@ Maiden,

Does Phoebe love Daniel?

Daniel is married to a Libra in real life.

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Posted by shellshocker
Pisces Man meets Cancer Woman 😄

Hey Shelly Shellster,

Tonight, I met a cute June 25 Crab.

She gave me her number, and asked that we meet when she comes back to town next week.

What should I do?

Hey Scubs... call her in three weeks and pretend you just found her number! 😄 I thought you were more of a 3rd Decan kind of guy

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Yeah, but who am I to reject a decent Crab?

3 weeks, huh? Isn't that too long? Help!

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@ Maiden,

Does Phoebe love Daniel?

Daniel is married to a Libra in real life.

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Yeah, but what about on the show?!

Posted by bethan2713
But Cancer and Pisces can be too similar that they end up drowning in each other because they think they have found that 'perfect love' when really we all need to be balanced out...

I don't think so on the drowning part.

As I age, I am even more monogamous than ever.

Done with the whole bar scene, ready for the family scene.

I thought Crabs like that kind of stuff?

Posted by BlackIndian22
Pisces are a good match for Cancer

Cool.

I have a secret wish about getting my hands on the time-traveling phone booth.

Man, the places and times I would visit are endless!

I consider this union to be a VERY telepathic connection which is a gift and a curse! Most signs I know can be dramatic / sensitive / emotional/ guarded/ shy! From personal experiences I find male cancers can be become perplexed with pisces mysterious way and that makes them upset when cancer men deal with you they want to talk about everything that goes on in your world , on the most positive side: I find this union to be most rewarding, I have so much love for my cancer friend , he understands me we talk all they time ( we love it venus in gemini / aquarius btw) and I have an understanding friend , I have feelings that I have yet to reveal to him , but I do know he will always be in my life , we've been through a lot. Btw I felt a spiritual connection when I met him so young , I knew he would always be in my life , and we are still friends ( we are in our early twenties)

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@ Maiden,

Does Phoebe love Daniel?

Daniel is married to a Libra in real life.

Yeah, but what about on the show?!

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It looks like Phoebe/Hayley is falling in love with Daniel/Elijah.
The show is still in it's 1st season. Time will tell.........

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@ Maiden,

Does Phoebe love Daniel?

Daniel is married to a Libra in real life.

Yeah, but what about on the show?!

It looks like Phoebe/Hayley is falling in love with Daniel/Elijah.
The show is still in it's 1st season. Time will tell.........

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I don't think she would have slapped him like that if she didn't have feelings for him.

Crabs tend to sometimes do the exact opposite of what they actually feel, do they not?

Posted by aurora
Crab gave you her number and told you to call her? She will like you if you do exactly what she told you 🙂. We are cardinal after all 🙂

I texted her this morning to say hey and ask if she needed anything before heading to visit her family this weekend.

What should I have said instead of that?

Grrr...

😢

Thank you, very much, for the kind words of encouragement.

I will follow your advice.

There is a reason why I refer to you as Obi Wan Kenobi, and you prove this reasoning to be true.

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@ Maiden,

Does Phoebe love Daniel?

Daniel is married to a Libra in real life.

Yeah, but what about on the show?!

It looks like Phoebe/Hayley is falling in love with Daniel/Elijah.
The show is still in it's 1st season. Time will tell.........

I don't think she would have slapped him like that if she didn't have feelings for him.

Crabs tend to sometimes do the exact opposite of what they actually feel, do they not?

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I don't think she knows what she feels, hence the conflicted feelings and reaction.

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Posted by shellshocker
Pisces Man meets Cancer Woman 😄

Hey Shelly Shellster,

Tonight, I met a cute June 25 Crab.

She gave me her number, and asked that we meet when she comes back to town next week.

What should I do?

CALL HER AND SET UP A DATE!!!!

Posted by ScorpioFish
Hey Crabs,

Yeah, my hairdresser is a beautiful Crab, but I dint think its appropriate to get into someines life while she is navigating the ugly waters of painful divorce and childraisjng of 3 especially since ine of her banies is inly 6 months old.

I am gonna follow the Crab advice and call that June 25th Crab on Tues night sincr I aint heard nothing from her even though irs odd since she told me where she works and that I should go visit her there.

I am really conflicted right now because I a, falling jn love with a Taurus here on Dxp, but she is 3000 miles away so I think I should spend time with her instead?

Help!

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Fish,

You don't have a conflict; you are finally meeting some good Crab women. You are not falling in love with a Bull on DXP. You seem to be getting cold feet. You are always posting on the Crab boards about how much you like Crab women, and now you have a chance to actually converse with one or two. 😉

GO FOR IT! The 1st Decan Crab is probably waiting for you to actually pursue her. Not to belittle your friendshp, BUT; I would question your decision to go for an online relationship that will only have you staring at each other on Facetime as opposed to communicating with someone live, in the flesh and much more accessible.

Fish, what Pisces decan are you?

People in that profession are good talkers. (Trust me....I worked as a receptionist in hair salons when I was younger). They have to be in order to build a clientele, and she insisted that you take her card and request her next time. She wants you as an ongoing client. They can be very smooth. I am sure you gave her a good tip lol.

Anyways, the only signs I have felt magnetic attraction towards are Virgos and maybe a few Libras. It's not really romantic. I've felt it with Virgo women mostly. They are the only signs that just have something that draws me to them, especially Virgos. I just open up and feel totally comfortable with them from the beginning. We bond. I love the way they make me feel.

On the other hand, Pisces and Cancers can be quite uncomfortable and awkward with one another at first sight because we are both so alike. We can be shy, moody, passive, hesitant, secretive and just hard to get to know. It's not really magnetic. We are just kindred souls.

Hey Maiden,

Thank you for the good advice.

Should I call her on Monday or Tuesday night?

Yes, there's definitely magnetism btwn Cancer & Pisces. Two of my three most significant and long term relationships have been with pisces. Thing is, she's going thru a divorce and we're emo creatures even without dealing with that shit. I fear you'll be a rebound and have to deal with her crazy moods. Us Cancers can be really contradictory & self sabotaging when we feel vulnerable. Given her circumstances, I think you're better served letting this go. Attraction is just a feeling built upon a fantasy of what could be. For me her having kids aren't the issue unless you're dead set against dealing with them. Her going thru a painful divorce means she's not in a good place to start anything. Not at all!

Posted by ScorpioFish
Hey Maiden,

Thank you for the good advice.

Should I call her on Monday or Tuesday night?

Tuesday, everyone hates Monday's.

yes there is a magnetism between the two. my longest relation - 8 years - was with a cancer man. i was drawn to him for 3 years before we got together. we didn't split on bad terms, we split because we wanted different things ultimately (i.e. family - i wanted one, he didn't - odd for cancer, yes?). so the magnetism still exists. if either of us could compromise on the issue, we'd still be together.

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Posted by ScorpioFish
Hey Maiden,

Thank you for the good advice.

Should I call her on Monday or Tuesday night?

Tuesday, everyone hates Monday's.

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Well, Crabs, here is the update.

Followed everyone's advice to the letter.

Called at 745 pm, and her phone went direct to voicemail.

I left a simple message saying that hey, its me just calling to see how your weekend went and that I hope we can meet up sometime soon to talk.

And that's it.

I will send one last text on friday, and if I dont hear back from her....


Well, that's it dudes.

I dont chase people for long.

What do you guys think?

Posted by BlackIndian22
@ScorpioFish YES!, you are doing the right thing my friend. If she don't call you by friday, then just let it go. You don't need to be chasing after someone who isn't putting the same effort as you. Remember, a persons actions will tell you everything about how the really feel about you. Man you on the right track. Give her til friday, & if she doesn't call back, then F it lol. You aren't a bad person & really it's her loss. Have faith in God, he'll reveal if she is the one or not. Trust me, i been your position before. Don't let this get you down ok 🙂

Thank you, Obi Wan.

I am a very patient guy, and try not to get upset when people are rude or indifferent to my attentiveness.

One last text will go her way on Friday afternoon with something like, "Hey how was your week" kind of thing.

If I don't hear anything, then I am D O N E with her for life.

What else could I do? I don't want to come off as some kind of Michael Myers weirdo, but I did like spending time with her last week and would like it to continue.

Sheesh, women.

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Hey Maiden,

Thank you for the good advice.

Should I call her on Monday or Tuesday night?

Tuesday, everyone hates Monday's.

Followed everyone's advice to the letter.

What do you guys think?

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I think you should have listened to me, the June 24th Crab. I have a 25th Crab bff... and we are similar when it comes to romance.

We are fickle as fuck. First you have to capture our interest... then our imagination. You had her interest that's why she told you to call her AFTER she returns from her trip.

You jumped the gun by texting right away then again very shortly after she returned... if she has even returned yet.

No time to dream, fantasize or build up anticipation.

Yes there is a magnetic connection with cancer and pisces. We hold the strongest connection than any other two in astrology. We also have tht ability to tap into each others thoughts and emotions. I know exactly what you felt.

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Hey Maiden,

Thank you for the good advice.

Should I call her on Monday or Tuesday night?

Tuesday, everyone hates Monday's.

Followed everyone's advice to the letter.

What do you guys think?

I think you should have listened to me, the June 24th Crab. I have a 25th Crab bff... and we are similar when it comes to romance.

We are fickle as fuck. First you have to capture our interest... then our imagination. You had her interest that's why she told you to call her AFTER she returns from her trip.

You jumped the gun by texting right away then again very shortly after she returned... if she has even returned yet.

No time to dream, fantasize or build up anticipation.

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That's absurd behavior from her then, and it is without justification.

She gave me her number, and I subtly communicated with her as a result. A simple "hey, how's it going" is not some menacing threat, nor is it "jumping the gun." It's just a damn simple message of HELLO.

The fact that she is around 23 years old is most likely the problem, not my ability to be a grown-up with a subtle approach about this.

"OMG, he said hello and asked how my day is going!!!!! I wonder what evil intent he has with such a message!!!!!!!!"

God, I feel so alone these days with all the damn idiots out there.