Male cancer coworker very moody
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by acattychattyscorpio on Monday, August 4, 2014 and has 11 replies.
I started a job a week ago and was assigned a trainer. He's a Cancer with Leo moon. I have no Cancer men in my personal life. He is really nice to me half of the time, always giving me compliments on my work, saying 'perfect' 'amazing' ect and how well I did that day. Yesterday he said I did amazing that day which I thanked him for. His friend (Capricorn female) overheard and said "awww, how sweet, he never gives compliments because he's mean." And I didn't say anything (awkward). This morning he was super nice, then he had a lunch break and came back very moody. He barely said anything. He is like this EVERY day. So today I said "are you moody?" and he was like meh and then I said "oh, sorry, are you just tired?" and he said he did close up the day before so yeah. But then he was laughing sometimes with his Capricorn female friend and I'm like why does he not like me now? I'm a Scorpio so I don't dislike sensitive men, my recent ex was Scorpio. But this guy is so obviously moody. He doesn't hide it. I thought I was developing a bit of a crush but now I see he changes so often. It's disconcerting because I don't know if it's because he's annoyed with me, for example he's sick of training me, or it's some personal problem? And I respond to his moodiness with basically ignoring him. I'm Cancer moon.
Is it a wrong act for you that he talks to the other female ;?
I think he is being diplomatic..,the capricorn girl said that he was so sweet to you and he was mean to the rest so i think he is trying to be cool with everyone now ,what do you thin?
I think he is being diplomatic..,the capricorn girl said that he was so sweet to you and he was mean to the rest so i think he is trying to be cool with everyone now ,what do you thin?
Of course not, he's known her for months.
Why can he only be nice to one person at a time?
Plus he was nice last night and this morning and then weird at work.
Why can he only be nice to one person at a time?
Plus he was nice last night and this morning and then weird at work.
Posted by acattychattyscorpio
Of course not, he's known her for months.
Why can he only be nice to one person at a time?
Plus he was nice last night and this morning and then weird at work.
Ha if you are at work don't try to make him blush,Buisness is buisness
Keep it cool and things will get better
Ignore it. And if the moodiness is direct it at you direct it back. Me and my Cancer met through work and he was always so moody or as some of our coworkers said "salty." LOL 
I gave a mixture of sweet and salty. If it wasn't directed at me I'd be understanding, but if it was directed at me I'd reflect it right back. One time he gave me shit for being late and I just said point blank that it was none of his goddamn business. I think he got a boner BWAHAHA.
Don't take his shit, especially if it's not called for.
I gave a mixture of sweet and salty. If it wasn't directed at me I'd be understanding, but if it was directed at me I'd reflect it right back. One time he gave me shit for being late and I just said point blank that it was none of his goddamn business. I think he got a boner BWAHAHA
.Don't take his shit, especially if it's not called for.
Posted by acattychattyscorpio
Of course not, he's known her for months.
Why can he only be nice to one person at a time?
Plus he was nice last night and this morning and then weird at work.
Last night? Did you two sleep together? This may change things.
Posted by xtina
Ignore it. And if the moodiness is direct it at you direct it back. Me and my Cancer met through work and he was always so moody or as some of our coworkers said "salty." LOL
I gave a mixture of sweet and salty. If it wasn't directed at me I'd be understanding, but if it was directed at me I'd reflect it right back. One time he gave me shit for being late and I just said point blank that it was none of his goddamn business. I think he got a boner BWAHAHA
Don't take his shit, especially if it's not called for.
SALTY- that is exactly what my coworker said to me. I work in a small Starbucks so we are literally on top of (over) each other at times. A bad attitude, especially since I am a Scorpio with Cancer MOON, really puts a damper on my atmosphere.
I don't know how you deal! Most people I know are like that in private but put on a fake smile for work.
Thanks for the advice
Posted by StarMooneyPosted by acattychattyscorpio
Of course not, he's known her for months.
Why can he only be nice to one person at a time?
Plus he was nice last night and this morning and then weird at work.
Last night? Did you two sleep together? This may change things.click to expand
No, we closed shop together.
The OP is a Scorp with Cancer moon and the guy is Cancer with Leo moon.
@CC I think she likes him
@CC I think she likes him
Gotta love cancer with fire placement. Them got oomph.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Ya, so he's moody, so what? Your job is not to understand him, but to do your gad damn job.
Agreed
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