Match making

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yazlan
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10 Years

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Okay, you crabs are most difficult people to figure out. I want help with a situation.

There is this Cancer girl I proposed a few weeks back. She gave me cold shoulder for about 10 days after that (and her bff too) over a small argument. She thought I was too harsh. Now she was telling me that she knows a girl who looks like my ex and will send me her picture. I took it casually but then she told me if you like her, I will send your picture and number to her. Usually, I snap at such things but I keep a cool with this girl since she has a tendency to do such stupid things.

What does it mean? What is she trying to tell me? I had a deep relationship with my ex and I know she worries about it. Is it a No? Is she signalling something? What kind of girl tries to match you with someone she barely knows when you propose her. And I thought I was the weird one.
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yazlan
@yazlan
10 Years

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Posted by Pierida
She doesn't trust you so She is testing you to see your reaction. She is scared to tell you the real truth (or to know one) so she is going with cancers walk by side.There are unresolved issues with your ex where she thinks you still love your ex or maybe you love her less. She wants to hear from you that she is the only one in your life and always will be. Only with constant reassurance she will be more secure in you.
She knows all about my past relationship. She's been a friend for years. She thinks the way I loved my ex, I can not love any other girl again. I told her that yes I loved her deeply but she's gone now and I have moved on. I would not have proposed her if I was unsure about what I want. I'm a virgo who has dated many fabulous girls and got in a serious relationship with only one girl in the past. So I'm very picky and know exactly who I want and why. Our friendship was magical but since the day we started talking about more than a friendship, she's totally different person.

Her issues:
1. She thinks I'd always love my ex. Though now she feels that I've moved on and ready to love again and then this whole picture thing. Her idea is, I'm trying to find my ex in her which is BS. They are poles apart. (btw, my ex is married now)
2. My ex was really pretty and she thinks she's not that pretty (in my opinion, she's very pretty as well).
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yazlan
@yazlan
10 Years

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Posted by Pierida
So you know the problem she knows it to (except she doesn't know how her's thinking can ruin your relationship and her own confidence) it's her's problem to solve but you can help her if you want to.
Tell her how much she mean to you and show her, and don't listen everything she says sometimes it's just moon phase. be stable like you virgos are and always by her side..and never forget we cancers have powerful intuition (at least I have) she will KNOW when you are all her's. Best of luck!
That's a good advice and I was thinking on the same lines. But thanks for the confirmation. I will give her time to feel in her own way that I mean to be with her with all my heart. Have a good day!