mellowdee....rebounding

nothing wrong with being with another person...who cares if it is a rebound..you might find something you were looking for all along. the other cancer guy sounded like a jerk, maybe this one is going to be way better. besides, you only live once..lol
just make sure you don't punish this one for the other one's behavior and you will be just fine. besides, maybe you learned something you can apply here..
new relationships are soooo fun!!!

Yes menbay you are right, thanks for the encouragement 🙂
But I don't wanna hurt this new guy as he is pretty gentle and nice. Actually he seems more "cancer-like" than the ex was. I am gonna be honest with him. I already told him about the other guy last night.

I cannot guarantee this new guy anything as I am still raw after how I things have gone with the ex-cancer. It's a very lonely feeling, being intimate and affectionate with a man and feeling like it's all so sweet and blissful and then he stops replying to your texts and the next thing he's telling you, you totally misunderstood where he was coming from.

The thing is I don't feel as physically attracted to this guy as I was to the ex (maybe it's cos he doesn't have "Bastard" subtly tattoued on his brow! 😉 ) But yes I don't want to punish him for the crap I believed and put up with from cancer numero uno.
That's why I'm gonna be up front and not have him labouring under any major misapprehensions like the other cancer-wanker had me doing.

Escuse all the cancer bashing btw. I don't hold this against all cancer men. I reckon this guy is an exception unto himself.

my brother is a cnacer, and now i dont know who he is with girls, but he seems to be a really, nice guy. him and my mom are really close.
so now all cancers' negative traits are dominant

sry, NOT ALL

Mellowdee...

"The thing is I don't feel as physically attracted to this guy as I was to the ex...",

that is because you still grieving over your ex! It takes time and patience (its been two years that I have seperated from my ex Cancer Man and I am still grieving and still highly attracted towards him!)

Who knows? Maybe this new Cancer Man might just be what you are looking for!!

Just some advice - be careful not to talk often to your new "Cancer Man" about your past relationship. You might just scare him away and then he will defnitely be like your ex (and you will feel hurt all over again!!!)

how are things with the new cancer guy?

Hi menbay, I met him this evening actually and we kissed some more. There are these long - awkward for me - silences with him. He doesn't see the need to speak just to fill in these silent pauses. I think he saw that I was a bit embarassed by it so he just came close to me and kissed me.

I told him that I didn't want to hurt him and he asked me why did I say this and I said because he's a Cancerian!! He said that yes maybe he is a bit sensitive but he said he didn't think I would hurt him.

Then after I left his place I started thinking about the other cancer. I felt like calling him up to say hi. I know it's silly and stupid. I still miss him.